Chapter 219: Because I missed it, I regret it
I stood up unhurriedly and made a gesture of invitation to Li Jiawen: "I want to ask the other party for a second argument." ”
Li Jiawen stood up unexpectedly: "Thank you for the question." ”
I threw away the cue card and looked at him calmly: "May I ask the other party's defense friend, have you ever had a crush?" ”
Li Jiawen spread his hands: "Of course." ”
"So did the opponent's defense friend choose to give up decisively?"
Li Jiawen thought about it, and his expression was serious and honest: "No." ”
I continued to ask, "Didn't have the audacity to pursue it?" ”
Li Jiawen nodded: "Yes." ”
"Why?"
"It's too hard to give up decisively,......"
I saw the opportunity and quickly interrupted: "So the opponent's defense friend does not agree with the decisive renunciation mentioned in your opinion?" ”
He was stunned for a moment, as if he didn't expect me to be so arrogant, but he still replied with a demeanor: "To a certain extent, but ......"
I interrupted again: "Since the opponent also admits that it is not advisable to give up decisively, what position do you have to assert your point of view?" ”
Li Jiawen was stunned and wanted to speak again, but I raised my hand: "Then the next question." ”
"May I ask if the other party's defense friend has affected his life and study in the process of crushing?"
"Yes."
"So is there more of a positive impact, or is there more of a negative impact?"
"Should it be more positive?"
"Then may I ask the other party if the opponent is still in touch with the crush now?"
Li Jiawen was a little helpless, but still answered truthfully: "Yes." ”
"Have you ever shown your liking to her?"
Li Jiawen smiled bitterly: "She already has a boyfriend." ”
"So will you regret not saying your love at that time?"
Li Jiawen thought for a while before replying: "I can't talk about regret, but I do regret it." ”
"So back to the original question, why didn't you boldly pursue love in the first place?"
Li Jiawen was silent, and the smile on the corner of his mouth slowly faded.
I glanced at him faintly, turned to the audience, and began to close the net: "I want to ask until now, and it doesn't matter what the result is. Because the answer is already obvious. ”
"There are pros and cons to everything, but for the other party's defense friend, the crush does not have too many bad effects on him. But even so, the opponent's defense friend still didn't boldly pursue love, in the final analysis, it wasn't because the other party's defense friend was afraid of affecting the so-called life and study, he just lacked the courage to love, and found an excuse for himself to escape rejection with peace of mind. ”
As soon as the words landed, Li Jiawen's eyebrows frowned slightly.
Then I changed my words: "This is probably a common problem for most people, even me." Whether you regret it or not, only you know. ”
When I wanted to go on, the time was almost up.
"So, if you have a crush on someone, let's be bold and chase love."
The voice landed, and Senior Sister Liu Li's "It's time!" Thank you both for your wonderful speeches! ”
I sat down slowly, and Zhao Yu quietly bit my ear: "Well done." ”
"The one-on-one defense is really exciting!"
"Yes, then you can enter a new link and see how the two sides make another move!"
"That's right! For this competition, we have adopted a new debate format. The offensive and defensive subsections are no longer conducted by the first debate, but by the second and third debates of both sides! ”
"It's obviously something going on! The-for-tat confrontation between the two arguments of the positive side and the second and third arguments of the opposing side is in everyone's eyes! This is undoubtedly adding fuel to the fire! ”
"Then let's see how each side shows its powers!"
"Okay, then now I have to ask the second or third argument of the main side to summarize the attack, the time is one minute and thirty seconds!"
"Please!" Jiujiu Library
As soon as the words fell, Li Jiawen stood up unexpectedly.
As soon as he came up, he overturned all the theories I had assumed: "First of all, I do not agree with the definition of the decisive abandonment of the other side's three arguments. Our decisive renunciation is based on a clear understanding of reality, understanding that the gap between ourselves and the other party is too big to cross, let alone compare, so we give up love and indulge in learning.
It's hard, I'll admit it, but as the saying goes, long pain is better than short pain, so in order to avoid falling deeper and deeper, swinging a knife to break off the relationship is the wisest choice.
Secondly, we believe that learning is the top priority at the stage of elementary school, junior high school, and even university. And we can't deny that love is a very important uncontrollable factor in learning this dependent variable, it can't be judged according to the increase or decrease of love, or the amount of response to judge how much positive energy or negative energy will be generated, so it acts on the amount of learning, and it can't be summarized regularly, but it is a thousand faces. With such an elusive and mysterious thing, what reason did the opponent's defense friend give to dispel my concerns and ask me to boldly pursue love? If it is really because of your encouragement that I go from loving learning to indulging in love, how can you make up for it?
In the end, from the moment I decided to have a crush, I decided to keep this intention in my heart, even if I regretted it, even if I was sad, even if he had others around him, I silently agreed. In this way, isn't it a kind of decisive abandonment? It's just that I lack the courage to stand in front of him and confess. I can't be brave, but I can give up and throw myself into learning. Isn't this a kind of bravery?
Thank you. ”
As soon as Li Jiawen's voice fell, the timer stopped abruptly.
The audience burst into applause.
"Okay, the positive side has finished its offensive and defensive summary, and now I have to ask the opposing side to make a summary of the offensive and defensive second or third argument."
"Please!"
Xing Sisi and I glanced at each other, and when I received her affirmative look, I stood up unhurriedly.
"First of all, I want to admit that the opponent's defense friend has a wonderful summary of the attack, but there are some points that I disagree with.
First, it's hard for me to agree that the gap can't be bridged. I admit that people are born with differences in material, talent, and appearance, and this does create all kinds of things. But this can all be changed by hard work. The effort that a person puts into his life, if it is sufficient, can be without talent. The material is not equal enough, I can earn it, and even if I don't look good, I can go for plastic surgery, as long as I want, all this is not a problem. Humans can evolve from apes to humans, different from everything else, what is this?
Second, having a crush on someone does produce many uncontrollable emotions and even uncontrollable consequences. But is the opposing friend exaggerating the negative effects of liking someone? We are in the stage of youth, slowly growing up, becoming mature, in addition to how to correctly handle the relationship between men and women, but also to experience and face many choices, so in this way, there are not too many uncontrollable negative factors in life? Therefore, the other party's defense friend, relax, and secretly love how to choose a person, has become a person who is about to become an adult or even an adult, mobilize all his wisdom to think carefully about a choice, don't think of everyone too fragile. We have the ability to avoid risks, and we also have the ability to take every step of the way.
Thirdly, I have decided to carry out an endless love affair to the end, without seeking results or asking questions about the West or the East. But I think the process is vigorous, with the longing and fantasy that all girls should have, and the blood type and sunshine that all teenagers should have, so what's incomprehensible about this? Aren't we teenagers just living in the moment and grasping the moment? Thinking of youth like this, thinking of the girls we chased together in those years, and thinking back to my girlhood like this, we can sigh like nine knives: There is no result, full of futile love, and it is still beautiful.
Thank you. ”
As he finished speaking, the sound of the timer stopped.
The audience also resounded with the applause just now.
Senior Sister Liu Li began to play the role of a celebrity again: "It's so exciting! The two sides do not give in much,-for-tat, but maintain their demeanor, which is really a perfect interpretation of the connotation of the debate! ”
Senior Yan Bo echoed: "Yes! The two sides respect each other equally, and collide with each other, which not only has the free and enthusiastic spirit advocated by Chongwen, but also has the respect and seriousness advocated by the contention! ”
"Then it's time to get into the best part of this competition!"
"That's right! I'm sure our debaters on both sides can't wait! ”
"Don't say much, immediately enter the free debate session, you Zhengfang starts, choose any debater on the other side to attack, five minutes for each side!"
"So, let's get started!"
As soon as the timer went off, Li Jiawen was the first to attack: "I want to ask the other party three arguments, even if all the difficulties are not worth mentioning in front of you, then if you know that your crush is not for you, and it is never possible to like you, do you still want to pursue him without knowing each other?" Did you realize that this was a kind of harassment to him? ”
I immediately shot back: "Since I have a crush on him, I am bound to do what he likes, how can it cause harassment?" I pursued him, just so that I didn't regret it, and the result was worth it for good or bad. ”
"Then I understand, you mean to make him like you, pretend to be like him, to satisfy your dream of no regrets, right?"
"Please don't read my words too much, what I mean is to do what you like, which is a way that is acceptable to both parties, such as learning and promoting together. Where does this come from? ”
"Okay, then I'll ask the other party's defense friend again, when you boldly pursued, bravely pursued love, and did something out of control, don't you have any regrets?"
Hearing his words, I froze, hesitated for a second, and didn't stand up again.
Regrets? Far more than that.
In just one second, half of the courage has been lost.
Xing Sisi immediately stood up and shot back at Li Jiawen: "The opponent's defense friend gave up decisively, focusing on his studies, and missed the girl he liked, don't you regret it?" ”
Li Jiawen was also choked and didn't stand up again.
The fourth debate of the square stood up and was impassioned: "Then I want to ask the other party the second argument, your bold pursuit of love has no result, isn't it also the so-called person who amazes you the most in your life?" But you now have a handsome and sunny boyfriend, isn't that great? ”
I was stunned, watching Xing Sisi's eyes quickly redden, and his expression was no longer expressionless.
"It is precisely because I didn't pursue love boldly, that I really missed him, and I didn't work hard to make me regret it for the rest of my life!"
I listened to Xing Sisi shouting this sentence hysterically, and looking at the tears in the corners of her eyes, I was stunned.
Who would have thought that a cheerful and sweet person like her, with an extreme pursuit of beauty and elegance, would one day have such an out-of-control appearance.
Regret and regret are written all over the eyes, as if you have lived a lifetime.