"Please start the theoretical argument for three minutes!"

Fang Yibi stood up and began to speak: "Greetings to everyone present. At the beginning, I think that the crush is for various reasons, and there is no confession. And this kind of liking has created a relationship between the two parties from the beginning: one side is high, and the other side is humble and small. This also tells us a message that the pain of crush is pervasive and far-reaching.

First, crush is a temperate and sad emotion, and if it is not restrained, it will affect normal life and study. A person whose mind is not yet fully developed is very yearning for real love, but he does not dare to reveal his heart, how many times he has opened his QQ space, and silently deleted the access record, how many times have he checked his QQ signature, and silently speculated about his mood. The hearts of young boys and girls are sensitive and fragile, and they stubbornly suppress this surging love in their hearts, and their hearts are depressed and sad for a long time. Let's ask, if you don't give up decisively, will there be any results?

Second, from the perspective of the process of crushing, crush is non-public and non-contact. Love but can't do it, to a large extent, it will make a positive student become inferior and screwed, and have no self-confidence. Didn't the classmate we have ever had a crush? And what student can't say the pain of a crush? During this time, we will always put our crush on the other person in a high, undesirable position and ourselves in a particularly low position. is as proud as Zhang Ailing, who fell in love with a poor traitor Hu Lancheng, didn't he also write a sentence like "If you like a person, you will be humbled to the dust"? She's so talented, let alone us? What is the result? Seeing that your nose is not a nose and your mouth is not a mouth, and you end up making a "good-for-nothing" comment on yourself? Such a crush, why not give up decisively?

Third, crush is destined to be a fruitless journey, and if you don't give up decisively, you will only be cocooned. In the hourglass of time, even if he weeps blood, he can't see it, no matter how strong the love is, he doesn't know it at all. Time has done a good medicine for confession rejection, but it can't be a fruitless healer of a crush, because a crush is like a bird flying in the sky, leaving no traces.

Therefore, I insist that if you have a crush on someone, you should give up decisively and focus on your studies. ”

Xing Sisi and I glanced at each other and nodded in unison.

The strength is really good.

"Next, I would like to invite the opposing side to make a argument and make a three-minute argument."

Kang Juan stood up, raised a just right smile and said: "From the self-introduction we just made and the other party's theory, we can see that from ancient times to the present, everyone has their own definition of a crush. Today, our definition of a crush is to silently like someone, and everyone around you may know it, but it is not known by the person concerned. In the movie, neither of them deserves a name.

I don't deny the pain and depression that comes from liking someone in such a situation. But what I want to say is that crush can also be said brightly and confidently, and it can also be a positive energy.

First, crush is a compulsory course for almost every student, and it is not advisable to give up decisively. In middle and high school, our liking for the opposite sex began to awaken, and this feeling made us fearful, scared and even disgusted, so we told ourselves countless times that we should not think about him anymore, this is not right, we must study hard, suppress ourselves, and do not view this throbbing correctly, and in the end it can only backfire. But what if we did it another way? Say this like openly, maybe you will gain friendship, maybe you will gain a frank and sincere, mentally healthy self, and you will realize that this is a normal psychological journey, this kind of crush is called youth hormones, and it is not a big deal.

Second, having a crush on someone, pursuing it boldly, and loving bravely, will reap a more shining self. I believe that everyone has more or less had one or two crushes, so no matter who it is, the one in everyone's mind has a common characteristic, which is exceptionally good in a certain aspect and out of reach. Once we have a crush on such a person, we will also have a particularly obvious trait, which is low self-esteem. I felt like I wasn't good enough, good enough, and not qualified enough to stand by her side. Then the motivation brought by such a realization is to make yourself more shining, to become a better version of yourself, to strive to be worthy of him, and to be full of energy. The power brought by such motivation is positive, boldly chasing love will boost your fighting spirit, even if you fail, you will not regret regrets, you can smile and say that youth has no regrets, why not?

Third, having a crush on someone is like fireworks, if you don't pursue it boldly and love bravely, you may lose the person you have been amazed by in your life, and regret it for life. Adults lack the courage to pursue all comfort, children lack the reserve of knowledge and memory, there is no so-called bravery, and this is precisely our exclusive use. At this time, we were just classmates and young people, freshly dressed and angry, and scolded Fang Xuan. Only at this time can we freely express our likes, our loves, our focus and dedication, and only we can like a person purely without any impurities, regardless of money or interests, just because you are you.

In addition, we solemnly emphasize that we do not encourage early love, and the premise of our bold pursuit is that both parties should get along with each other on an equal and respectful basis on the basis of normal friendship and friendship, promote each other, and encourage each other, rather than making mistakes in the name of youth.

Therefore, we insist that if you have a crush on someone, you must pursue it boldly and love bravely.

Thank you! ”

The audience instantly applauded, drowning out all the noise.

I smiled applaudively at Kangjuan, and she gave me a warm smile back, which reassured me a lot.

But when I looked back at Li Jiawen, my heart couldn't help but become nervous again.

"Okay, the two sides have finished their arguments, then the next step is to attack and defend the part, please ask the second defense of the positive side to choose the second or third defense of the opposing side, and conduct a one-on-one attack and defense, the time is one minute and thirty seconds!"

Li Jiawen stood up unhurriedly, made a gesture of invitation, and said elegantly: "I want to ask the other party for three arguments." ”

Xing Sisi and I exchanged glances and stood up calmly: "Thank you for the question." ”

Li Jiawen smiled faintly, very personable, but the angle was very tricky: "I want to ask the other party's defense friend, in high school, compared with now, was your temperament more cheerful, or calmer?" ”

I replied cautiously, but honestly, "Be more cheerful." ”

He continued to laugh like a spring breeze: "Did you have a crush on someone in your high school career?" ”

I nodded and continued to answer honestly, "I had a crush." ”

He nodded, with a curious and shameless attitude: "Then why don't you pursue decisively and love boldly?" ”

I was stunned for a moment, and then replied tentatively, "I don't think I'm good enough."

Li Jiawen nodded approvingly, and continued to ask: "In other words, the opponent's defense friend also believes that high school, as an important stage of study, is not suitable for bold pursuit of love, but should strive to improve yourself, so that you have more choices, more confidence, and do what you want to do, right?" ”

I was tempted to say no, but I always kept in mind the first requirement of being a debater - to be realistic. Let's have a book

So knowing that I couldn't have the upper hand, I still said "yes" in a deep voice. ”

"Okay, I thank the other side for supporting our point of view in words and deeds, so I would like to ask the other side a second question."

I kept my calm and let my brain be absolutely clear: "The other side of the defense, please speak." ”

"In the process of the opponent's crush, will you be affected by your emotions and affect your life and study by the actions of the person you like?"

My heart softened, and I nodded, "He has changed me a lot, and I have seen a new me that I have never seen before." ”

Li Jiawen nodded: "Then in the process of your crush, did you do anything out of control because of him and still make you regret it?" ”

As soon as these words came out, my heart also rose to my throat.

The audience also fell silent.

Only the timer ticked.

Li Jiawen didn't urge, just quietly, looking at me with his special face for listening to stories.

Time was running out, and in the last few seconds, I heard my own voice, calm but determined: "There have been times when I lost control, but I have never regretted it." ”

"Click, click, ding!"

"It's time! Thank you for your wonderful speeches on the second and third arguments of the opposing side! ”

I sat down slowly, and all the sounds were gone, except for the buzzing background sound.

By the time I came back to my senses, Xing Sisi had already stood up and confronted Li Jiawen fiercely.

"Friend of the other party, according to you, giving up decisively can be regarded as a kind of bravery, so can I also be regarded as an escape that I dare not face and dare not ask for an answer?"

"Good! When the time is up, thank you for the wonderful speeches of both sides of the game! ”

"Next, the positive side will argue three times, and ask the second or third argument of the opposing side, and the time will be one minute and thirty seconds."

The opponent's defense friend stood up: "I want to ask the other party three arguments." ”

I stood up and bowed politely: "Thank you for your question." ”

"In the dialogue between the other party's defense friend and our second defense, the other party's defense friend admitted that he had done something out of control for his crush, so was the result that he couldn't bear at that time, or even now?"

I pursed my lips, but finally bravely met her defiant gaze full of gunpowder.

"No one prescribes, whether you do the right thing or not depends on the result. Wrong and right, as long as I don't regret it, it's worth it, and there's nothing I can't bear. ”

"I admire the courage of the opponent's defense friend to bear the consequences, but it is also undeniable that the opponent's defense friend also took a lot of detours because of his bold pursuit of love. Okay, so let's ask the next question. ”

"The opponent's defense friend claims that the result is not important, so I want to ask the opponent's defense friend, since the result is not important, why should the opponent's defense friend insist on bold pursuit and brave pursuit of love? Isn't that a paradox? ”

I looked at her, my eyes were firm, and my voice was sonorous: "Because I am the spokesperson who does not look at the result, but boldly pursues love, in me, the secret love is not obscure and dark and cannot be said, he can also see the sunshine, let kindness and warmth moisturize, and thrive." ”

The opponent's defense friend was stunned for a few seconds, and when he wanted to speak, Senior Sister Liu Li's voice sounded: "It's time to attack and defend!" ”

My opponent and I instantly reined in our edges and sat down slowly.

"Okay, then the third argument of the opposing side will ask the second or third argument of the positive side, and the time will be one minute and thirty seconds."

I looked up at Li Jiawen and knew that the time had come for me to counterattack.