Song Qingnan is actually very afraid to hear such words, because he himself is a girl who grew up in this loveless environment, and he has seen these complicated situations around him, but he is not very comforting people, that is to say, in many ways, he can't actually get any useful comfort here, because when he hears others crying, he should let him cry well in his eyes and vent his inner emotions. In this way, it will be beneficial for her to solve her problems, or he will not be so sad, but the point is that. He didn't know if this method would work for a young girl like him, if he did, his own silence would hurt him and make him more sad, and it would be better to never complain to him. Because once that's the case. He will also be more sad, and she will also live in this environment because of guilt and self-blame. In short, she is actually very helpless in her heart now, she belongs to the kind of typical scolding that is very powerful, and the lawsuit on formal occasions is very powerful, but in life, in terms of expressing feelings and comforting people, she is really an idiot, and she can't say anything at all, especially comforting people. Really, in his eyes, that's the hardest thing in the world. But the most embarrassing thing is that although he doesn't comfort people, he has many friends in real life who call him every time he cries to seek his comfort. This situation. Guan Yanhui's performance was very perfect and very incisive.

"You are not wrong, it is the people of the previous generation who are wrong, the things they do are just the continuation of the mistakes to you, in fact, you have no mistakes at all, they have brought you so much harm, according to reason, they should feel guilty about you, not to mention that in my opinion, you are not at fault in the first place. It is they who bring the fault to you, and they owe you. You should be confident. Take a good look at the fact that there are still many people in this world who love you. It's just that a lot of people are not good at expressing themselves, so they don't seem to love you so much, in fact, in the eyes of many people, you are a unique little girl among them, and the same is true for me. At least in my opinion. You are different from the rest of the people in my eyes. I was when I was little. It's the same as you, but you still have a family, and I don't even have a family anymore and I have to raise my brother under the pressure of life. It was a big difficulty for me, and I was so young at the time. In fact, I don't lack family affection, but I just lack the love of my elders. Because truly meaningful people are always by your side. Song Qinghe has been with me all these years. He is far more useful than my uncles and aunts. My parents were killed by my relatives who looked like relatives. Song Qinghe is my real family. At least. He may sometimes drag me back, but he definitely didn't mean to, and even in his eyes, I am his only relative. I know that sometimes you will be hurt because of your blood relationship, because you feel that two people have the same blood in their bodies, and there is no need to kill each other. In fact, what you think is right and right, not right and wrong, you shouldn't lock yourself in your own cage, you should see the outside world more, not to mention that those who are related by blood are not necessarily relatives, and those who are not related by blood are not necessarily worse than your relatives, so you have to focus on the people around you. Speaking of which, I have to say that the thing your eldest brother did some time ago, to be honest, I also felt very wrong, very excessive, and even scolded him severely. He said he would apologize to you, but that incident had nothing to do with you at the time. According to what you said, you are nothing more than cannon fodder for them, and you are not at fault at all. Come to me in the afternoon, and I'll cook for you. How about giving you a taste of my craft? Big brother, he'll come too. Don't feel afraid of her, she is actually an ordinary person, and she also has love and hatred, what he did to you at that time was just because of his mother's things, not to mention that kind of hatred is too infuriating, so she will do this kind of thing, don't blame him. I know you can't forgive him for a while now, I hope you get along for a long time, maybe your concept of her will change, you will blame her less, anyway, you come in the afternoon, I will cook at home and wait for you, the address is still the villa last time, I have two sons, you come to take a good look at them, they will like you very much. ”

Song Qingnan always felt that he would not comfort people, if he wanted someone to stop being so sad, he could only use his own experience to resonate with him. So when he said this, he felt a sense of sadness in his heart, as if the person who was telling this story was indeed the same person he had just experienced being severely criticized by his family. Since then, in his eyes, only when two people resonate, will they have some common topics to talk about, and they don't have to have the same experience, as long as the two of them can talk and laugh, they can also look at each other, understand what they and each other are laughing at, the feeling of looking at each other and laughing, and the feeling of being connected is really too felt. Comfortable.

"I know, in fact, I don't want to blame her for those things, I just think I'm too cannon fodder, after all, nothing has anything to do with me, but I ended up being the one who was hurt the most, don't worry, I won't blame her. All my blame people are my father, if it weren't for him, there wouldn't have been so many things in the future, saying that he wasn't so romantic back then, if he could restrain his emotions, he would definitely not have so much trouble now, if he didn't have so much ambition and could keep his own one-third of an acre of land with peace of mind, there would naturally be less trouble, so in my eyes, it wasn't those people who really hurt me. It was my father who hurt me the most. You don't have to blame yourself, I don't mean to blame you. I know in your eyes, I'm just a kid who doesn't grow up. In your eyes, I am the child who doesn't understand anything, in fact, I have grown up, I am already an adult, and I know many things in my own heart, and I can understand them. You don't always have to worry that I won't understand some things or something, in fact, I know everything in my heart, I know, I just never said it before, you can rest assured, in the future, I will definitely learn to relieve my inner depression, not hold myself in my heart, otherwise, I think sooner or later I will be suffocated by myself. ”

Lian Xin smiled, in fact, when he heard these words, he already had a general idea in his heart, he already knew what he was going to say next, so in his eyes, this matter was actually not so important to him, and he himself was not a very conservative person, not that she was debauched, in short, in his eyes, these things were just an accessory in life. In fact, for him, this matter was not so important originally, his concept of love is very simple, if a person really loves him, how can he give up on him because he is not an innocent body. In that case, it is not him who loves him, but an organ in his body, and if this is the case, then naturally there is no need to continue to get along, so in his opinion, these things are not so important, but she feels that there is a little bit of one. Some shame, the feeling of being insulted, since the other party is now willing to apologize to him and ask her for forgiveness, there is no need for him to hold on to it all the time, not to mention that he himself is not the kind of stingy, what people think in their hearts, they will say it directly, and they will never beat around the bush to ask others to do something. So, in his opinion. Like his sister-in-law, the bold person is the weakest person who should be befriended, and all his friends are like him, so she believes that she will live happily every day. So he now feels that it is a very comfortable thing for the two of them to get along with each other, and he also likes to get along with him, and he also likes to talk to him, and talk to him about any troubles, even if he can't comfort people, but he can give you some ways in other ways, so that you can think about it and make you happy, so that you will not be so depressed all the time. In short, in his eyes. His sister-in-law is actually a very good woman, think about her indifferent, that very fierce eldest brother, can marry such a good wife in this life, I really think about Qingfu, if she has such a good wife, what kind of class do you go to, just stay at home every day, and accompany your little wife. But think about it carefully, if you don't go to work, you won't have money, you can't afford to support your wife without money, and you can't even take care of your own small family, so you must go to work, think about it, his eldest brother, in fact, the daily working time has been completely arranged, and he never works overtime, unless he encounters that kind of real crisis, he will eat with his sister-in-law every time, every meal is like this, at noon, he will come back sometimes. Sometimes his sister-in-law would bring him food to the company, and even before, they were working together in the same office. But later, for some reasons, her sister-in-law was forbidden to go to the company anymore, and they were a pair of very enviable mandarin ducks. The love he longs for is naturally the same, even if there are some twists and turns, but the ending is good, he is already satisfied, and he will definitely not complain again? There are those messy thoughts anymore, and he feels like this kind of dull life when he always eats it. Very good, she doesn't need to be rich and expensive, food and clothing are enough, in short, in his eyes, she really longs for that kind of ordinary life, the right to live in this world openly, no longer have to hide, don't have to see her father, and call her uncle respectfully.

"If you can think about it yourself, I won't say much, you come in the afternoon, after you come, we will have a good chat and talk. Your eldest brother will be back in the afternoon. You can talk to her too. In short, half of the blood in your body is left, and you are also a very kind child, so in my eyes, you are a good child, and you are worth befriending, so after seeing him, you don't have to say what to say or what to do. What's more, I believe that you are so lively, you should not be particularly depressed in dealing with strangers. Okay, you should rest first, don't hang around outside, I know you're feeling bad right now, but you have to rest too. Otherwise, like I don't have the energy, let alone come to dinner, you won't be able to get out of bed. Let's do it first, I still have something to do here, remember to come here in the afternoon, the address should still remember me, so I won't send it to you. ”

After the two of them hung up. Lian Xin looked at the screen that had just been extinguished on his mobile phone, and the corners of his mouth hooked slightly, what kind of feeling is it to have such a person who understands himself? It's wonderful, it's beautiful, the feeling that you don't have to worry about a lot of things anymore, it's arguably the most wonderful thing in the world. Anyway, I don't know what to do, someone has someone to solve their problems, someone tells them what is right and what is wrong, in his eyes, this is actually very good, at least someone cares about her and someone loves it. He thinks that this kind of life is actually great, and he also likes this kind of life, and he also likes the very ordinary, very ordinary feeling that this kind of life brings to him, which gives him a sense of being plain, not arrogant or impatient, and seeking progress in stability. Where to? This is the true meaning of life, if it really has to be stormy, he feels that it should be inappropriate for him. Anyway, he felt happy to fly now. Thinking that he could have a good meal in the afternoon, he was satisfied again, and lay down on the bed, closed his eyes, and fell asleep in a short time, except that he was not at home now, but in a hotel outside. So his good father should have looked for him now. But what can it be? He only pursues his own pleasure. She didn't want to be hurt anymore.