Chapter Eighty-Eight: Empathy Networks - Trying to Make Friends
The abrupt end of the relationship with Liao Yifan did cause deep pain to Lu Xiaojing, but fortunately, Lu Xiaojing He Mengying and Zhao Xiaoyan were close friends, in order to dilute her pain, they also persuaded her from time to time, and took time to chat and entertain Lu Xiaojing, which comforted Lu Xiaojing's lonely and depressed mood.
As Zhao Xiaoyan told her, "Time can dilute everything!" With the passage of time, Lu Xiaojing gradually walked out of the haze of love and started a new life.
Because the work in gynecology is relatively easy, Lu Xiaojing always feels a little empty after work, so she aimlessly browses some beauty and emotional articles on the Internet, but after reading it, she feels even more empty, Lu Xiaojing realized that what she really needs is a flesh-and-blood sense of truth, which made Lu Xiaojing fall into confusion and helplessness again-
One day, Lu Xiaojing did not have an outpatient clinic, so she was bored browsing the web in the office, when her mobile phone rang, Lu Xiaojing picked up her mobile phone and saw that it was Tan Jing, her roommate who was training in the island city last time, called. Because of the impact of these recent events and the distance between each other, after the training, Lu Xiaojing and her did not have much contact, but Lu Xiaojing still liked this friend very much, and when she called, Lu Xiaojing was also overjoyed and quickly connected the phone.
Tan Jing's kind voice immediately sounded on the other side of the phone: "Sister, have you forgotten me, and you won't forget your friends if you are tired of being crooked with your brother!" Lu Xiaojing was a little embarrassed when she heard Tan Jing complaining that she didn't contact her, so she hurriedly replied, "How can I forget you, no one will forget you, it's just that there were some things in the previous paragraph, and I didn't have time to contact you!" βγ
Tan Jing snorted on the phone and said, "I don't believe it, I guess you only have that brother in your heart, so you have your friends and girlfriends out of the clouds, I don't know you yet!" Listening to Tan Jing's complaints, Lu Xiaojing really felt a little uncomfortable in her heart, Tan Jing had a brother, which made Lu Xiaojing can't help but recall the happy time with Liao Yifan, now that the past is gone, only her own yesterday's yellow flower, thinking of this, Lu Xiaojing can't help but feel sad.
Tan Jing couldn't hear Lu Xiaojing's reply on the phone, and felt that something was wrong, so she stopped complaining and asked, "Sister, what's wrong, what's wrong with you?" Did you have an awkward relationship with your brother? Lu Xiaojing couldn't hold back any longer, and said with a sob, "We've broken up-", speaking of this, tears burst out of her eyes.
On the phone, Tan Jing was a little caught off guard by Lu Xiaojing's sudden emotional change, she hurriedly persuaded her on the other side of the phone, and after a long time, Lu Xiaojing finally suppressed her sobbing, she said to Tan Jing embarrassedly, "I'm sorry, I'm out of shape, and I don't know how to get it, as soon as you mention him, I can't control my emotions!" βγ
At this time, Tan Jing was no longer as presumptuous as she was just now, so she asked Lu Xiaojing with concern, "Sister, what happened, tell me about it!" Lu Xiaojing didn't see Tan Jing outside, so she told Liao Yifan's wife again. After listening to Lu Xiaojing's narration, Tan Jing said with emotion, "Sister, this is really no fate between you, this kind of thing can't be forced, just pass it if you can get by, just treat it as a dream, don't worry about it after the dream!" βγ
Lu Xiaojing also vented, coupled with Tan Jing's persuasion, her mood calmed down, she wiped the tears on her face, and said, "Well, what you said about our own shallow fate, it's not worth dwelling-", hearing Lu Xiaojing say this, Tan Jing also smiled on the phone, she said, "That's right, this is like my sister's style, to say that three-legged toads are not easy to find, but two-legged men abound, right?" βγ
Hearing Tan Jing laughing again, Lu Xiaojing couldn't help but laugh out loud, she scolded on the phone, "Villain, you think it's a man and you just accept it, wouldn't that be messy!" After hearing this, Tan Jing replied seriously, "I didn't say that, as far as my sister's temperament and beauty are concerned, you have to find the kind of talented person, you say yes!" βγ
As soon as Lu Xiaojing heard that she was going to tease herself again, she pretended to be angry and scolded, "Get out, there's no right way to speak!" Tan Jing continued to quip, "Sister, with your conditions, I think you are probably chasing you in rows and in teams, don't you have the right eye?" Lu Xiaojing scolded, "Go, rabbits don't eat the grass next to the nest, you are embarrassed to find people around you for this kind of thing, really!" βγ
Tan Jing listened to Lu Xiaojing's words, and laughed on the other side of the phone, she said while laughing, "Sister, I said you are old-fashioned, you still don't admit it, you look at how many office romances there are around you, there are not a few, modern people want to open it, since there are around, why bother to go far?" βγ
Lu Xiaojing who Tan Jing said also basically agreed, because there were indeed a lot of scandals around her, but she couldn't get over the hurdle in her heart, and she always felt that it was something that was not good to say, so she replied, "I really can't do it and I don't want to do it!" βγ
As soon as Tan Jing heard Lu Xiaojing so categorical, she changed her tone and said, "Well, you are right in this way, don't look for people around you, there is a lot of room to choose, such as on the current Internet, QQ, WeChat, especially on Momo, you can find your favorite person in minutes!" βγ
Hearing this, Lu Xiaojing couldn't help but feel moved, "Yes, I want to make friends, why don't I go to the Internet to find it, although the Internet is virtual, but in addition to being virtual, it is more sincere, isn't it better to talk freely with strangers?" At this moment, under Tan Jing's reminder, Lu Xiaojing suddenly brightened.
But Lu Xiaojing didn't want to completely expose her true thoughts to Tan Jing, so she diverted the topic, she asked Tan Jing some more about the recent situation, and ridiculed the tenderness and sweetness of Tan Jing and her little boyfriend, and finally Tan Jing invited Lu Xiaojing to play with her in the near future, and Lu Xiaojing happily agreed.
After hanging up Tan Jing's phone, Lu Xiaojing pondered what Tan Jing said about online dating just now, because of the nervousness of work before, although there was QQ early, and he was also distracted in those years, so he never added strangers to chat on QQ, and sometimes he never paid attention to his colleagues when he talked about his sexual encounters on QQ, but he just laughed and talked again and again.
But at this moment, Lu Xiaojing suddenly had the urge to make friends on QQ, so she opened her QQ and began to study how to add friends, and then she used the selection condition to add friends mode, she chose the male conditions between 30-40 years old, and set the surrounding area in the region, after setting, she clicked into the interface.
What caught her eyes was the arrangement of rows of QQ netizens, she selected five or six netizens in one breath and clicked to add friends to apply, and after a while, 3 of them added her as netizens, which made Lu Xiaojing very excited, at this time, for the first time in many years, she added strange netizens, thinking of this, she felt that she was really a little out.
At this time, she saw a message from a screen name called "Love at First Sight" that she had just added, "Hello, how old are you?" Lu Xiaojing hurriedly looked at his information and saw that the age written on his information was 38 years old, so Lu Xiaojing also replied with a "38", and the other party replied, "Ao, are you looking for a lover?" βγ
Lu Xiaojing felt extremely uncomfortable by being asked so bluntly by the other party, she didn't reply to him, and then the other party sent another sentence, "Are you sexy?" βγ Seeing this, Lu Xiaojing felt like a fly in her heart, and couldn't help but wonder what kind of person this was! She replied angrily, "What do you do, can you speak with some restraint?" βγ
The other party then replied, "I'm a man, I'm a big thing, it's my character to speak straightforwardly, don't you women like to go straight in?" Seeing this, Lu Xiaojing felt that this was a scoundrel and there was no need to talk to him more, so Lu Xiaojing ignored him, but the other party sent messages again and again, saying that he wanted to see her photos or something, Lu Xiaojing was so disturbed that he simply deleted him.
Lu Xiaojing's first strange netizen in her life ended like this, although Lu Xiaojing was a little unhappy in her heart, but she had also heard others say that this is the Internet, the devil at both ends of the screen may also pretend to be an angel, and the angel may evolve into a wicked person, since they are all strangers, why should they care too much, if they don't agree with each other, they can't delete and block them-
Just when Lu Xiaojing had not yet stepped out of the shadow of the harassment of the first netizen, another netizen added her, Lu Xiaojing saw that the online name was "Wandering Loneliness", this name looked a little poetic to Lu Xiaojing, which made her pay more attention. She clicked on his information and took a look, the age is 33 years old, and his hometown is written in Chengdu, especially his talk is quite special, writing: Wandering like the wind, lonely like clouds, where the wind comes from, the clouds fly!
Intuitively, Lu Xiaojing felt that this was not a vulgar person, so she felt a little more close. At this time, the other party also sent a greeting, "Hello, it's a pleasure to meet you among all living beings!" Such a greeting swept away the haze of Lu Xiaojing's first netizen just now.
Lu Xiaojing also hurriedly replied, "Hello, thank you!" The other party replied, "Well, your name is very charming, hibiscus under the moon, it seems to have a kind of artistic conception, and it is more poetic!" Lu Xiaojing only noticed her screen name at this time-Yuexia Furong, this name has been used by herself for many years, and after a long time, she has forgotten it a little, and today she was praised by the other party, and she also re-examined-