65. Study and practice articles diligently
At the beginning, Xiao Lai's articles were biased towards social hotspots, party and government and other forms. Every day, she has to take the computer to find the style and template of the article little by little, and then form her own writing style little by little through her own grouping, which is very grateful to the leaders for their appreciation and cultivation.
The more articles she writes, the more she will naturally get started, which also makes her gradually begin to focus on her writing skills, constantly develop her potential, and gradually improve her writing ability.
In addition, Xiao Lai also strengthens her study in aesthetics, and she believes that only by constantly enriching her aesthetic ability, her appreciation, appreciation, and criticism will jump to a higher level.
After a period of hard work, the seeds of writing have been completely rooted in her mind. Rai began to prepare in earnest for every project she was involved in.
After the assessment of the leader, Xiao Lai finally stayed in the network department and officially became a network editor. The department was somewhat scattered, with a total of three people, one leader, and two soldiers.
Every day, all three of them went to work on time. This is the network department, but it is actually no different from the administrative office, except for the regular publication of articles on the website every day, the rest of the time will discuss various topics together.
Leader Wang Si
, a steady and open-minded young man, who has just returned from the capital. Everyone likes to call him "Lu Gui". It is said that he once studied as an undergraduate in Russia, and after returning to China, he drifted north for a period of time.
My parents are old, and my job is still not very stable, Wang Si
, like Xiao Lai, to work here for the time being. They are happy every day, there is always something to talk about, and sometimes, behind closed doors on the phone, it is really a bit unprofessional.
Fortunately, the leaders have been training a few of them, assigning them jobs to each of them to complete a certain amount of work. Wang Si
, I talked about a girlfriend here, Xiaohua, the two of them are about to talk about marriage, but neither of them is very prepared. Xiaolai also knows very well that she usually discusses some topics with the leader without heart or lungs, but the other party's girlfriend is a little jealous, but fortunately, everyone doesn't care much, and slowly gets acquainted with it.
It's just that this girl seems to be very reluctant to see Xiao Lai, and she is always very hostile to her, after all, Xiao Lai is also single, and she has no object yet, so her worries are not unreasonable, but it depends on whether Xiao Lai has that meaning. This also indirectly laid a hidden danger for the deterioration of the relationship between the two people.
Another colleague, Zorro, a recent graduate, is very easy-going, always very straightforward, very obsessed with gunfights, and has to go to the Internet café every day after work to play a few games.
Zorro, family conditions are average, his parents are working-class, after graduating from work, he has been staying at home to play games, and only when his parents are particularly angry, he went out to find a job to maintain his dignity. This seems to have become the focus of social concern, especially in the cities, where this situation is very common.
As long as they graduate, only the family conditions are okay, they don't seem to care whether they have a job or an income, as long as their parents can still help them, and they can endure their "rogue behavior", they will always be satisfied with their current situation, never worry about their future, as long as they are not hungry, they can always exist half-dead like this.
This is also a new type of "gnawing old people", in this era, there are such people everywhere, as soon as they graduate from college, they like to nest at home, as if they went to college as if they suffered a catastrophe, and finally finished their studies, and they hope to stay in the warm house of their parents forever, eating the meals brought by their parents, drinking soup and rice, and feeling contentment for no reason.
This disadvantage has a lot to do with the education methods and principles of the parents. They just blindly ask their children to study hard, and never set deadlines or work plans for them, but the flowers they cultivate by themselves finally return to the greenhouse they set up and never get out.
Teach a person to grow and be independent, and it takes constant practice. The reason why a person is blindly supported by his parents and is like a child who can't be weaned is, in the final analysis, that he is not independent enough and does not know what kind of life he wants.
When your parents give everything to get us their precious studies, even if we don't have the heart and the best effort to give back to them, they won't complain about you. In fact, every achievement we have in school is inseparable from the "hard work" of our parents. If, having said that, once these achievements are enough for a person to create more and greater achievements, is it really a kind of feedback to parents?
Xiao Lai inadvertently talked about these topics, and Zorro just nodded frequently, but he still lived the days of "being a monk for a day and hitting the clock for a day". Maybe he's still young and doesn't want to be a king
, Xiao Lai, who has been running for several years, has gone through such a dream and found his own direction. They are not at the same starting point, and their work attitudes and work content levels are not the same.
These days, Xiaolai's classmates learned that she was back, and either called her to have dinner or called her to borrow money.
I have a friend, Xiaohong, who was very close to Xiaolai when he was in college. People are also very real, found a particularly good husband, and married themselves before graduation. At that time, Xiao Lai was very envious of her, and always liked to have dinner and play with her. Her husband is very mature, he will invite them to dinner every time, and sometimes he will teach them more and more truths about how to behave in the world. In short, in that graduation season, Xiao Lai finally had no regrets in his life.
Putting aside these scenes that once warmed Xiaolai, the most important thing is that when Xiaolai graduated, Xiaohong helped her a lot. Now he suddenly opened his mouth to borrow money from her, Xiaolai really hasn't saved much money over the years, but he is embarrassed to ask his parents to lend money to Xiaohong, so the two of them are also very unhappy because of this matter.
At that time, I hadn't used the loan function of borrowing, and I really couldn't think of how to help her raise money, and the relationship between the two people faded like this.
In life, the so-called sunshine must be accompanied by rain. Xiaohong made three phone calls to Xiao Lai in a row, and every time she had to mention borrowing money, Xiao Lai also told her, there was really no money, and the other party couldn't figure it out, how could Xiao Lai have no money. In fact, she only has enough food and clothing, and the excess is her bottom line.
The last time the two chatted, Xiaohong needed Xiaolai to cover up, because she brought 20,000 yuan in cash to see the house. Xiao Lai missed the appointment again, she was too busy to eat, so she didn't contact again.
This also made her re-examine this friendship, sometimes, to friends with their hearts, friendship may not last forever, sometimes, a little bit of friends' difficulties, maybe the two of them will have more topics to talk about.
Xiaohong, a good girl, but the way of doing things is easy to be emotional, Xiaolai once gave her a warm hug when she was most emotionally vulnerable, which may be the beginning of the friendship between the two.
You're not sophisticated, I'm not hypocritical, and friendship may be purer, but it also needs to grow, and it won't be static. It's like Fat Man and Little Lai, the friendship between the two is more mature and more rational. Xiao Lai was also influenced by the fat man, learned to be independent, and learned to be rational, in this case, the two of them will go longer.
A few days ago, the fat man said that he was coming back, and Xiaolai hadn't seen her for more than a year, and the two made an appointment to meet. When she reached the age of marriage, the fat man's parents gave her a lot of money, and when she came back on a blind date this time, she also asked her to choose one to talk to.