At this point, it can be regarded as a heart disease for Xiao Lai, and she is no longer often panicked because of guilt. Now in addition to work, it is still work.

The dormitory is gradually getting acquainted, and Xiao Lai also has a few friends who have played together. The days always pass extremely fast when one is smooth sailing, and it always goes very slowly and slowly when you are difficult.

There is another female colleague Xiaoyun in the office, who is not a newcomer, but she used to work in the branch, and now she has been transferred. and Xiaolai have a dormitory, and their personalities are very stable, and the two of them have become good friends. Every day when they commute to and from work, they are inseparable.

Xiaoyun didn't go to college, not because of poor family conditions, but because she didn't want to study anymore, she also had a sister, after college, the job has not been settled, often working part-time, bent on taking the graduate school entrance examination, recently I heard her say that the interview was unsuccessful again.

That night, Xiao Lai was watching the video in the dormitory, and at this moment, Xiao Yun started calling her sister again.

"Sister, how is the exam going this time?" Xiaoyun attaches great importance to feelings and is more concerned about her sister's studies.

"It's not good, the retest was brushed." My sister's voice was a little low, maybe a little disappointed.

"Can I adjust it? I can't give up, I've been working hard for so long. Xiaoyun listened more anxiously than her.

"That's it, let's find a job first."

"Do you still have living expenses? If it's not enough, I'll call you. ”

"No need."

My sister is a little embarrassed, and she is very tough, she doesn't believe what anyone says, she only admits death. Xiao Yun sighed there again, Xiao Lai was a little worthless for her, after all, it was someone else's choice, and no one could be the master.

Xiaoyun chatted with her sister there again, and she told Xiaolai that her sister had received a notice of re-examination from another school, and the two of them were really happy for her. Xiao Lai revealed another important news to Xiao Yun, that is, the school that her sister transferred was very good, and she could admit the best.

I don't know that my heart is higher than the sky, and I still can't figure out the current situation, that sister actually rejected the mentor's kindness. Xiaoyun said on the other end of the phone that she had been for a full hour.

I really don't know which tendon is wrong with her, Xiao Lai also thinks that this girl's sister has a bit of a problem with her brain, after all, the age is there, and the schools for adjustment are all 211, which is not good, it has to be in Beijing, this is really annoying.

These two little sisters, you say a word and I say a word, and in the end there was a dispute, Xiaoyun had to give up, and finally told her sister that she was responsible for the tuition fees, as long as she was willing to go to school.

Maybe people just can't think about it, and when she wants to open it, she also missed it, Xiao Lai persuaded Xiao Yun there, but she had some ideas in her heart, and she couldn't tell people casually, after all, she was someone's sister.

No work experience, limited ability, unstable work, and not much continuation, life is tight, and you don't listen to people's persuasion, which is really incomprehensible, and there is no way to communicate, maybe the brain is really missing a tendon.

Such people are now gradually forming a kind of group. They are all chasing and catching up for the so-called dream, but when they are only one step away from their dream, they stagnate. They are not willing to go around for their dreams, but have always measured their gains and losses by a standard, and will not temporarily turn a corner for the ultimate dream, but will only bite the bullet and stand there, letting the ruthless wind and rain scratch the scars, and letting the cruelty of reality impact the unyielding but extremely fragile heart for the dream.

This is the persistence of this group of people, which is somewhat extreme. This group is also growing day by day and has become a social phenomenon. In Xiao Lai's eyes, this is also where the modern imperial examination system should be reformed, and it should not waste time and bury countless talents, at least in their current youth, there will be a big reform.

This will bring a great incentive to countless people, and the standard of social judgment of talents is no longer only based on examinations, but should be more biased towards talents and knowledge ability.

In the evening, Xiao Lai was bored in the dormitory and went to the unit to work overtime with a few friends.

Recently, Xiao Lai's nephew would send her several messages from time to time, telling her about her recent studies. The nephew is about to enter junior high school, but his grades are not very good, his parents are very busy, and they don't have time to check his homework or pick him up.

Every day after school, only Aunt Toban will pick him up on time, which makes the child feel a little warmth and care in his heart, his father only knows how to be busy with work, and his mother is sometimes away from home all day, and they meet several times a week, and the child slowly becomes a little withdrawn in such an environment.

Xiao Lai looked at her nephew through the computer screen, she was very sad, but she couldn't do anything, she felt a little worried about the child's future, while comforting him, while buying him a lot of review materials, hoping that he could study hard and get out of such loneliness.

Once, Xiao Lai and her nephew video, the child's mother was also on the video with a man, which made her worry about the family, she didn't dare to tell her family about this, the relationship is their own, how to deal with it, is their own business.

As a bystander, the only thing you can do is to treat it rationally, not to spread rumors, not to spread false rumors, and not to interfere. This is her consistent style of doing things, except for her own family, no one can make her bow to everything.

This incident also made her rethink her future family, what kind of character that man should have, what type of environment he lives in, and what kind of education style her parents have.

In addition, the question of where she should meet such a suitable person has always surrounded her, but she never deliberately looked for it, but just waited with a mentality of being at ease with the situation.

If a person wants to get married, she must have the conditions to marry and be ready to be a parent. She must investigate many ways before she can make a decision on whether she wants to marry this person or not. Only when two people are highly compatible in terms of educational philosophy, housekeeping style, and relationship mode can it be possible to enter into marriage.

In her opinion, most of the families with high risk of divorce did not examine well before marriage, and most of the parties who made the decision did not have much sense of responsibility, and they would never give up part of their freedom for the development of the family, and would not learn to be humble for the interests of the other party.

She has always been a sane person, so in her opinion, she is still willing to be single until she meets the person who meets her standards, and there is a kind of loneliness that would rather lack than be abundant with her life.

This week, there was a backlog of her manuscripts, and the leaders began to talk to her. The director of the publishing house also held a meeting, and the unit decided to send her and another colleague on a business trip.