In those days, Xiao Lai returned to the dormitory and lined up with his roommates to eat, Lao Sun was a little alone, and Xiao Lai occasionally found him eating with other girls.

It's just that the scene in the dream really made her dare not be alone with Lao Sun, and the two of them rushed by. You must know that Lao Sun also needs to manage his studies well and don't have to waste time on her.

A month has passed, Xiao Lai has not seen Lao Sun again, it turns out that he went to prepare for the review, which is what Xiao Jin told her. I felt a little chill in my heart, but I still hope that my grandson can become famous.

In her world, she no longer wants to pay attention to stories about amorous customs, she just wants to work hard. The persistent boy is no longer so "attentive" and will still send her messages.

During that time, Xiao Lai was a little depressed, and her roommates were so sad to see her and handed her a few books on happiness psychology.

"Maybe I'll be happy when I'm done reading it." With this in mind, she started a leisure journey of reading. Although the book is good, it must be based on the actual situation.

Xiao Lai wanted to find the source of her unhappiness, she repeatedly scrutinized, pondered the content of the book repeatedly, and gradually became cheerful. It's not how great the content of the book is, but the truth hidden in the book makes her start to take real life seriously, seriously examine herself in reality, where to go, how to make herself strong, and face all setbacks optimistically, which is the meaning of quality education and learning in her heart.

In Xiaolai's view, it is necessary to learn a certain amount of psychological knowledge, which can allow you to see the root cause of depression and learn to treat common emotional problems correctly, but in the end, it is your own excellent psychological quality that plays a key role.

In the process of learning, Xiao Lai had a new consciousness. She believes that the cause of all unhappiness is, after all, a gap in the level of a person's thinking.

Only by standing at a certain level of thinking can people solve problems and make themselves happy. With this level of thinking enlightenment, Xiao Lai completely let go of his knots and began to explore himself, be a sober and rational wise man, and give himself a sunny plan.

It's not easy to make yourself shine.

It depends on how difficult it is to break the promotion channel, Xiaolai is "greatly injured", and he has not had time to recover, and he has no complexion at work. This made her disheartened for a long time.

The colleagues at the next table work very hard, but the salary is still not very high. Lai often listens to them discuss work in private.

"My uncle is a department head here, and he's going to transfer me in."

"My dad is the director of the bureau, and he has been entrusting the relationship recently, and he wants to transfer me in."

"My grandfather is a veteran, and many comrades-in-arms are inside, and the family is also asking."

Xiao Lai has no relationship, let alone a way to be promoted, and he is very eager in his heart. Recently, something else had sent her into despair.

On Saturday afternoon, she called home, called several times but no one answered, her parents didn't answer, the biggest possibility is that the two of them quarreled again, no way, the irresponsible parents, older, are still so out of tune, still so ignorant, always let her worry.

Xiao Lai didn't have a neighbor's phone number, so she could only call her uncle, who was not bad.

"Hey, uncle? I'm Lylai. The call was finally connected, and Xiao Lai seemed to see hope.

"Oh, Lylai, where do you work now?" The uncle suddenly asked her with concern.

"Beijing, uncle, my parents can't get through on the phone, you have time to go to my house to have a look." Xiao Lai wanted to ask him to help him go to the house to take a look.

"My niece Yanyan is in Changping, you have to take care of her in the future, I'll help you see your parents." Unexpectedly, the uncle who has always been amiable is so powerful, and he is almost eighty years old.

"Okay, I'll go see her when I have time, you can go to my house and have a look." Xiao Lai should give him down first, but this kind of family affection has been indifferent to Xiao Lai, and he just inserted a sharp knife in his heart, and he has not yet unsheathed.

Parents are used to being brought up, without a trace of responsibility, marriage is always like a family, and they can't do things clearly, offended many relatives, and they don't think about Xiao Lai, but let Xiao Lai worry about everything, which makes her a little sad.

There is no way, Xiao Lai must be very disgusted with his father's cowardly and incompetent character in his heart, and he hates his mother's uneducated domineering. Invisibly, this is the condition for her to find a partner in the future, and a man must be elegant and powerful.

Only when you are in a desperate situation can you discover how determined you are to change the status quo. Seeking truth from facts, being down-to-earth, and emptying one's greed can make continuous progress.

I didn't think about anything, I didn't want to do anything, so I simply went to the fat man, and Xiao Lai had a new idea. Since the fat man came to work in the capital, he has never met Xiaolai.

When she arrived at the fat man's workplace and saw the busy fat man, Xiao Lai quietly inquired about the treatment here, which still surprised her.

It turned out that the two people were really different, and the treatment was very good, but the working hours still couldn't be accepted by her, with a weekday off and six days to work.

Back in the office on Saturday night, Lai turned down all offers and sat there thinking about the future he really wanted.

Baidu is suitable for what kind of work, out of a lot of content, page by page browse, and finally locked an article about career assessment.

Next, Xiao Lai did 165 questions, analyzed his strengths and weaknesses, and implemented them on paper little by little, comprehensively analyzed himself, and started anew.

"Where are your strengths?

Where are your weaknesses?

What are you best at?

What is the worst thing to be good at?

……”

After writing the last word, Xiao Lai was a little surprised, her personality is introverted, and she has no quarrel with the world, and she is suitable for copywriting and other work, so she began to look for a job in this direction. Everything here is a little unfamiliar, no matter how hard she tries, her salary is still at that lowest level, and her future plans are very slim.

The right thing to get on track for now is to choose what you do best. If she wants to find a copywriting job, what she needs most is to have a good writing, but she is the worst at writing and can't write any decent articles at all, so she needs to hone and need a good teacher to take her.

The quickest way to get down this path is to find such a job first. This is not just a talk on paper, but a decision made after careful consideration, and it is the trend of her life trajectory to develop here.

It's almost the end of the year, and everyone is thinking about waiting for a new job after the year. Xiao Lai is no exception.

A week later, she reached out to her college classmates. She wanted to move her hukou back to her hometown and visit her old classmates at school by the way. On Saturday, she went out before dawn.