You at the table have changed
Some people say that it took 500 times to look back in the past life in exchange for a passing in this life; So, what I can think of is that in the previous life, we both broke our necks and looked at each other I don't know how many times we got together in this life!
Maybe it's just a passing by, or maybe it's a look back, two hopes. Those who are more fortunate will become lovers with each other, and of course, some will become familiar strangers.
I've heard people say before that if you want to talk about the relationship between people, it belongs to the friendship between classmates, especially the friendship between classmates in junior high school.
But think about it, in our life, if you want to say that the people we met at the first starting line, they are really classmates. The people who have been with us the longest are still classmates, and in addition to our families, we basically spent time with our classmates before. Thus, this friendship between classmates makes us unforgettable and unforgettable!
The reason why classmates in junior high school are the most innocent is also very related to our hearts and cognition of society. At that time, we didn't understand all kinds of things in society, except for the things in books, we basically took the words of the teacher as the standard. We don't have to worry about anything else, let alone anything else......
We gave our youth and the most precious years to the people and things that we thought were worthwhile.
Perhaps, we have regretted, hated, lost, and even despaired; Time will eventually pass day by day, whether it is good or bad, whether it is happy or happy, whether it is sad or sad, it will be taken away or even buried, leaving us with only memories.
As we grow older, we have more contact and more knowledge, and even the things in our memories will be replaced and replaced little by little, and in the end, we are left with only a blur.
As we enter the society later, the people we come into contact with and the things we experience will make us forget the past for a short time, and perhaps forget it forever. Many years later, we will meet someone on a certain occasion, in a certain place, because of a certain sentence spoken by someone, or a certain familiar old song, which will bring us back to that time again.
We will rely on the appearance in our memories to "re-walk" the original path, so as to taste and reminisce about the original taste.
Whatever you may say, we have all had it; Revisit the original memories and you will find that in addition to those unforgettable, what will catch your eye will definitely be the one she once had a crush!
It's as if time has stood still, and you want to know how she's doing, whether she's married, where she works, and so on.
Today's accident, I inadvertently saw a message she posted in the circle of friends, and I knew that she was still in my circle of friends, but we haven't been in touch for a long time!
I've been using this number for more than ten years, and I've been using it since I was in junior high school, and I have countless friends in it, and that's only for the years after I got out of school. Now the people inside, in addition to family members and relatives and friends, are basically colleagues and social partners.
It's hard to find those individuals who originally paid 5 yuan for 30M traffic! But it's no wonder that in this era of 5G is coming, who wants to stay in my circle of friends and not leave for someone like me who is still stuck in 30M traffic?
Just today, even she is gone, leaving my circle of friends, just because my mouth is too bad, or maybe I said the wrong thing again. In short, the only junior high school classmate of the opposite sex in my circle of friends left!
I don't know what's wrong today, several friends around me are divorced, and other friends are married, and the most important thing is that my grandmother called me and said that I dreamed of my grandfather again, and my heart was like a knife on the other end of the phone.
Today, I was also deeply touched by the day, and I just inadvertently saw what she said, so I commented a few words.
Here's what she said, and I'm starting to wonder if you're really the one who can accompany me to the end?
And I commented like this: no doubt, definitely not, no one can accompany anyone to the end, except for the twins who come together, most people come alone, and go to the end alone. If there is any misunderstanding, it will be fine if you make it clear!
Unexpectedly, people replied directly to me: "Shut up, how can I have a friend like you?" It must have been omitted! But what are you talking about...... I don't believe it at all, I don't believe it. You're just jealous of me, huh! ”
For a while, I didn't know how to refute it, and I didn't want to refute anything, it felt very boring. So I deleted my comment and didn't reply to anything.
I think this may be the last time we communicate, I don't know how she became like this at that time, maybe it's because she just entered the society!
Or maybe it's because of our different philosophies, in short, it's broken like this, and it's broken like this......
She was my tablemate in junior high school, and she was my deputy class president in junior high school, and I was the class president.
The youth of the student years is generally the same, but the degree of bad is different. And I'm the worst, and I'm still a class leader, the head teacher originally wanted me to take the lead, and I really took the lead!
She belongs to that kind of quiet type, and she has carried the blame for me and covered for me.
In the high school entrance examination, her grades were not very satisfactory, so I made up for it twice in a row, and of course I was one step ahead of her.
During the college entrance examination, she heard that she made up for it twice! I remember she joked with me that she was now studying with her younger siblings and felt like she was getting old!
Later, we would chat together from time to time, until one winter vacation, at the suggestion of everyone, let me, the former class president, organize a class reunion.
At that class reunion, everyone was basically complete, except for a few who were already married, they said that it was inconvenient to take care of children, so they didn't force it.
She said that she didn't want to go either, but I dragged her to go, and at that time, we could be said to be a class reunion in the real sense.
With the later class reunions, there were fewer and fewer people, either unable to get in touch, or too busy with work to have time. Those who can be present, in addition to the mobile phone family, are only the wealthy and boasting families.
I haven't contacted any of them since, because I know that time is gone!
Some people say that if the relationship is not connected, it will fade, and it will be broken, not so much because I don't want to contact them, but because people don't look down on people like me.
Later, a few of my classmates who were forced to contact me by Allah, not for anything other than to borrow some money.
After borrowing money, the person disappears without a trace!
She would open her mouth to me from time to time, but she would take the initiative to return me every once in a while until we just stayed quietly in each other's circle of friends for a few years.
She has changed several boyfriends, and people are becoming more and more realistic, but whenever there is a little news that is not good for her, she will be haunted.
I don't know where she went at that time, at that time, she had many suitors, and now, she has become unfounded and silent.
I don't know what she's been through over the years, but I know that she's no longer the same person she used to be, and she's no longer the table mate I knew.
When I think of a classic old song "You at the Same Table", what catches my eye is always her when she was quiet at that time......
It's not that she scolded me, I said this, in fact, I want to say that it's been a long time, and several friends have told me about her, but I'm just too busy to have a good chat with her.
Despite this, when I hear someone slander her, I can't help but retort for her. No matter what she becomes, she will always be my tablemate, and no matter what kind of person she is in the eyes of others, she will still be my tablemate.
The current friendship between classmates is not as good as the friendship between classmates in the past, and it is also a part of our memory, there are too many, not only a simple memory, but also the joys and sorrows of the beginning and the innocence of those years.
I just want to tell her, don't let yourself go too far, and if you're tired, stop and look back at what you were like when you set out.
If you're tired now, remember that you still have a bunch of former classmates, and everyone will shelter you from the elements. If you have lost your way, your former classmates will also brave the rain to take you back to the starting point.
For me, you are my tablemate, and I am also your tablemate!
This is not only a friendship between classmates who have been with us for several years, but also a love between people.
Every living creature in this world has feelings, especially the love that grew up together since childhood, which is not a family affection but a family affection.
As we all know, tigers and dogs are not at all a hierarchical existence, but they also have this kind of kinship that is not relatives but more like relatives.
A woman abroad raised a dog and a little tiger, the little tiger was particularly weak at the beginning, the dog played with it, and the two little things almost forgot their identity.
As the tiger grew up, the woman abroad sent the tiger to the zoo. One day many years later, when the woman took the original dog to visit the little tiger, the adult tiger pounced directly after seeing the person and the dog.
Just as everyone was about to take corresponding measures, the two brothers got together that night!
It turned out that the tiger recognized this brother of its from the beginning, which made people cry when they saw it.
This is true of animals, let alone us?