The children's test results came out, and excluding the two rocket classes, our class ranked fourth in the school year. There are a total of eighteen classes in the whole school year, and it stands to reason that it is okay to be ranked in this ranking, but I am still not satisfied.

The grades in our class are particularly obvious, there are two top students, and the results are already comparable to the students in the rocket class. The results in the middle part have been up and down, and they are very stable. But there are two students at the end - Liu Ziqi and Sun Qi, these two girls have not been interested in learning, I have been mentioning the two of them since I took over this class, but they are still indifferent, and they are in the bottom two of the class all year round.

The results of the two of them are not too stable, and in order to compete for the penultimate place, these two still need to fight.

Upstream and midstream students know how to learn and have always been very worry-free. But these two girls downstream, I'm really going to break my heart.

It's not that I think they have an average score, I just really can't bear to see them fall so badly, and I can't bear to watch them joke about their future.

It's not easy for these two girls, they are both from divorced families. Liu Ziqi lives with her father, her father only knows how to drink every day, is addicted to alcoholism, and will take her out of anger and punch and kick her when he gets drunk at every turn. Fortunately, she now lives on campus and keeps a safe distance from her father. But she always came back to school on Sundays with a wounded face. I went to her father once and didn't get any change from him, only two slaps. Sun Qi lives with her mother, and her mother's daily life is to play mahjong, but Sun Qi's grandmother's family is very rich and can support their rich life. When I went to visit my home, her mother was very polite to me and even stuffed me with a red envelope. Of course I didn't, but her mother didn't change her indifference to the child, as if Sun Qi was just a passerby in her life and never cared about her in the slightest.

The situation of the family of origin really affects a child's mind and worldview to a great extent. Perhaps because of the same experience, the two of them became very good friends, and offered to be table mates with me. After I agreed, they were extremely harmonious at the same table, sympathizing with each other and sympathizing with each other, but they just didn't study, they didn't know where to put their minds, and they sat in their seats every day without making noise, and they were in a daze, lingering in their own world.

I really want to change them.

On the afternoon of the results, I was in front of the podium to analyze the results, and the students were studying on their own. Before the results were analyzed, the phone rang. It was Qiu Tian who called.

I immediately put down my pen and walked out of the classroom with my phone, and answered the phone in the corner of the corridor.

"Qiu Tian."

"Why?"

"The results of the test are out, and I'm doing a score analysis."

Qiu Tian asked casually: "Did you do well in the exam?" ”

"It's good, but there are two girls in the class who don't study, which is quite sad."

"Oh?" The tail note is raised, and the voice is very sexy.

I can imagine the corners of his mouth going up.

It took me about ten minutes to describe the situation of Liu Ziqi and Sun Qi to Qiu Tian, and after listening to my words, Qiu Tian was silent for a moment, and then said slowly: "The original family is not their fault, but it is not a reason for them to avoid studying, you should not always sympathize with them because of their family." Or maybe you've been treating them differently, even if you're biased towards them. ”

Qiu Tian pointed out my problem to the point. Yes, I did always be very biased towards them, and if the same mistake had happened to them, I would have been more tolerant.

Qiu Tian continued: "What you need to do is not to blindly be inclusive, but to treat them equally. Only by treating them without discrimination from you, the class teacher, can they truly treat themselves without discrimination, and can they truly learn for themselves like other students. If you care about them too much and give too much to them, it will make them subconsciously feel that they are studying for you, not for themselves. Only when they have a clear concept of learning can they really study with their hearts. ”

That afternoon, Qiu Tian talked to me for a long time. After talking to him, I realized that my education method has always been problematic, and that blind distress and tolerance not only do not promote the progress of students, but give them the reason and capital to indulge.

After talking about the student's questions, I was about to tell him about the interesting things that happened in the past two days, but I heard the alarm sound from his side, and then he said "I'm sorry, I'll look for you when I come back." "Terminated our chat.

Very good.

The two of us were counting on a phone call once a day, but I ended up talking to him about educational theory for nearly an hour?!!

Damn, I'm really going to be moved to death by myself as a responsible people's teacher.

I had to go back to the classroom and do the grade analysis. After the performance analysis was completed, I started the conversation with the same opening sentence for 10,000 years, "Put the pen down, and I will briefly say two ......"

An hour and a half later, I finished the exam summary. The students' faces twitched when they listened, and they were listless.

I can't help it, that's what I can say. I can't talk to my boyfriend, so I have to dedicate all my saliva to you.

"Alright, let's go to self-study." After saying this, I went to Liu Ziqi and Sun Qi's seats and called the two of them to my office.

I deliberately calculated the time, and there were no other teachers in the office at this time.

I took the cake out of the cupboard and put it in front of the two of them for them to eat. It's my habit to give my students something delicious before every conversation. It's like a big meal that death row prisoners eat before they leave.

The two of them had talked to me countless times, and they had long been accustomed to my routine, so they were unceremonious with me, and ate the cake with it.

Sun Qi choked again, so I had to go and pour a glass of water for each of them. I'm a teacher...

After the two masters had eaten and drunk, I moved a stool and sat down in front of them, and officially began my conversation.

"I was chatting with my friend today and talked about the situation of the two of you. My friend is right, I've been pampering the two of you too much all along, and you've become more and more emboldened after being cared for by me above the rest of your classmates. ”

My face was very serious, and the two of them didn't expect me to say this today, and their originally casual sitting posture became stiffer.

"Yes, there is something special about the two of you in your family, I can't deny that. But this is not a reason for you to escape from reality, and it is not your capital to be willing to fall. If you don't put your mind into studying now, it's not me who is sorry, it's just you. ”

"Liu Ziqi, do you really want to stay with your father for the rest of your life? Don't you want to leave him on your own and never be beaten by him again? Sun Qi, do you want to live in the shadow of your grandmother for the rest of your life? Like a parasite, forever attached to someone else? ”

As soon as the words came out, the faces of the two girls were a little unbearable, their eyes were red, and they looked like they wanted to cry or not.

"You two are neither sports nor art students, and the only way you can go is to study. Don't say that you can start a business in the future, you can do it on your own. Yes, indeed. But you will suffer a lot, and the probability of success is also very low, and now there is an easiest path in front of you, why not take it? ”

"It's been the second year I've taken you, I know the two of you very well, you are not stupid children, your IQ is enough, as long as you seize the last year and study hard, you will go to an ideal university."

"I won't take special care of the two of you from today onwards, you are no different from other classmates, you must understand this clearly. It's not more than three things, and I've talked to you two at least a dozen times. But I'm so kind, I'll treat this as the third time. From the end of today's conversation, I will not look for you again, and it is your own business whether you learn or not in the future, and I will never interfere. Your fate is in your own hands, and you can do it yourself. ”

Liu Ziqi's tears had already fallen all over his face, and Sun Qi was also choked on the side.

I was most afraid of the students crying.

If nothing else, it's just that people like me who study literature are a little emotional, and I want to cry with them when I see my students crying......

I can't let them lead me astray from my emotions, I still have a straight face and a serious voice.

"If you really want to learn and need any help, you can come to me."

I stuffed two tissues into their palms and said in a softer tone, "Don't cry, wipe away your tears and go back to study." ”

The two girls walked out with red eyes, but at the same time they stopped at the door and looked back at me.

I was confused by their eyes, what are you doing looking at me? Was it because I was so moved by my philosophical speech that I couldn't help myself? Or do you want to make up your mind to change your mind and be a new person from now on?

I thought too much.

Sun Qi wiped his tears and said quietly: "Boss He, is that friend of yours your boyfriend?" ”

Me: "??? ”

Honestly, I almost spurted out a mouthful of old blood.

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After talking to those two girls, their learning status has indeed changed a lot. I also actively listened to the lectures in class, knew that I did my homework seriously, and they were also in the crowd chasing the teacher to answer questions after class.

But after all, it was too late to start, the foundation was very thin, and it was very difficult to learn.

But I firmly believe that as long as they can maintain this state, there is no problem in taking a better second book.

Even if the results are not satisfactory, at least they have tried, and they will not regret it when they look back on it years later.

The state of learning in the class is outrageously good now. From top to bottom, without exception, learning comes first. Everything I see now is pleasing to the eye, and even the boys who usually make me angry are no longer naughty and troublesome in my eyes, but have become ...... Pure?