2. Be discerning and adapt to the occasion
Most people are reluctant to praise others for small things because of the obstacles in real life that obscure their vision.
All of these attitudes should be overcome.
As far as small things are concerned, it is true that it is not of great significance, but from the perspective of dialectics, we will find that a small thing often leads to a big thing, and several small things together may produce unexpected forms and meanings.
A patrol officer found that the fire extinguisher at the door of the warehouse was broken while patrolling and reported it to the general manager in time. The general manager arranged for the relevant person in charge to buy a new one and rearrange it. Half a year has passed, and no one has taken this matter to heart. One day, the warehouse suddenly caught fire due to a short circuit in the wires, which was extinguished in time, and in the chaos, the first thing the general manager thought of was the careful patrol officer. If he hadn't found out that the fire extinguisher was broken and replaced it in time, then the warehouse might be finished, and the company would not be able to keep it. Therefore, the general manager praised the patrol officer in time, thanked him on behalf of the company, and called on all employees to learn from him. Half a year has passed, and the general manager still remembers the report of the patrol police. If you think about it separately, a small patrolman may have long been forgotten in a corner, and no one will find the significance of the report. A thousand miles of embankment, collapsed in an anthill, a drop of water can save the lost in the desert, and the small thing is indeed not to be underestimated. If you want to praise others from small things, you must first be a person with a heart, be good at discovering the materials of praise, and see the great meaning behind the small things, which must pay attention to observation and think carefully.
If you don't have a pair of eyes to identify them and identify them carefully, it will be buried forever in the mountains and stone forests, and it is difficult for people to find the true value.
Do you understand the strengths and weaknesses of everyone around you? Do you see subtle changes around you every day? Do you value even the slightest advantage in others?......
Countless little things and a number of big things make up our complicated life. If we just keep our eyes open to the "great significance" and "historical value" of the latter...... So do you find that life is largely empty, the Utopians? Is our society like Eliot's wasteland?
On the contrary, if everyone pays attention to their surroundings and discovers the world in a drop of water, then in each other's praise, people get the warmth rippling in the world.
No matter who you are, your sparkles, even the tiniest ones, will give you a true sense of existence, nourished by the slightest compliment.