Praise Feng is like giving people roses, bringing fragrance to others, and winning the "hearts" of others for themselves.

The American Dale Carnegie once said, "Even if you like jam, you still can't use jam as bait when fishing; And at this time, even if you have earthworms, you have to use it, because you are fishing. This metaphor vividly illustrates that we must grasp the key points in everything we do, otherwise we will go in the opposite direction, digress for thousands of miles, and never reach the destination.

There is a female singer who came to ** from Japan, and after planning to stay, she went to Southeast Asia to perform songs and dances.

She needed a short script or two, and in her mind, it would be nice if a very famous writer could write for him. The writer was a well-versed scholar and a witty writer, but he had an eccentric temperament and was busy.

The singer called her friend and said that she had been introduced by a certain director and was going to have dinner with the writer that night, but she didn't know how to ask him.

"What kind of skit are you going to ask him to write?"

"Whatever he wants, as long as she's willing to write."

"This is not good, he does not understand your needs, and he may not write well, and when he writes well, you find that it is not ideal and ask him to change it, the problem will become serious!"

"I most want him to write the Mute Girl for me, but with new content, not the previous story."

"That's great, he's written a lot of these things before, you just have to say that you know he wrote these scripts, and you admire them. ……”

Two days later, the singer called her friend and happily said she had succeeded.

Her friend said, "You've been talking about his past triads at dinner, haven't you?"

"You're right, I'm talking about how popular his work is in Japan."

"That's right, that's the success that comes with just the right amount of compliment."

Yes, any person has his own way of life, and if you want to get along with him, if you want to get help or success by praising him, then you have to enter the sphere of his material and spiritual life, so that he can be in a state of excitement when he interacts with you, and when he is excited, he often divulges and promises some things that are usually obscure.

Remember, catch that exciting "joint eye" and you'll be successful.