Everyone has this experience, before going out to work, if the couple has a quarrel, then the whole day of work mood will be ruined.

You will be dissatisfied with your colleagues because of your unpleasant mood. Even guests who have never met him will think of him

"Nasty characters", find many reasons to avoid engaging with them. All this unhappiness stems from the quarrel between the couple before going out.

And this unpleasant clarity of heart is not only contagious to colleagues and first-time guests, but even affects what is seen and heard on this day.

Some psychologists call it

"Identity of feelings". In the above case, this is the negative identity. On the contrary, there is positive identity.

For example, if your child is on the list of college entrance examinations, then you are usually very concerned about the impolite behavior of your colleagues, and today it will become understandable.

When you meet with the person you are asking for, you should also use positive sameness and maintain a happy mood, which will naturally ease the tension and timidity.

How can you make yourself happy? If you like to appreciate paintings, then take a walk around the nearby art museum, and if you like to play video games, then go and play for a while to cultivate a pleasant mood.

Stein, the philosopher who wrote the book "On the Examination of Philosophy of Reason", often went to watch a movie to open up his thoughts when his thoughts were blocked.

If you stay in the study all the time, then the closed ideas are still blocked, and you can't generate inspiration, and of course you can't have new ideas.

Those who have a successful career and are good at getting along with others know how to transform negative identity into positive identity.

This technique is especially important when meeting people for the first time. If you are in an unhappy mood beforehand, you will only leave an unpleasant impression on the other person.

If something unpleasant happens, try to do something happy to make the atmosphere lively.

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