As the saying goes, "Go out to see the sky, enter the door to see the face". Looking at the sky, it can be inferred that it is cloudy, rainy and snowy, and carry travel tools to protect yourself from the sun and rain. Just look at the face, you can know its mood. The color of the facial expressions shows different images on the screen, and the emotions of the person are different. Learning to look at faces and colors is really a way of life that cannot be ignored. If you know your emotions, you can get along well; If you get along well, you will be able to communicate with each other; When we are connected, we can achieve unity.

A reporter once went to interview the "internationals" who had just played against foreign football teams. As soon as he entered the door, he found that the atmosphere in the rest room was dull, and the goalkeeper had a blue face and wide eyes, so he quickly retreated and canceled the interview. Later, the reporter learned that the "internationals" had suffered defeat and were getting angry. If you didn't look at your face at that time, and insisted on interviewing the "general" who had suffered defeat in an uninteresting way, you would have to be scolded.

It seems that this reporter is quite experienced and knows how to ask for people's "heat". As the saying goes: people are good and water is sweet, and flowers are good and the moon is full. When people are happy, they are in a good mood, and when they see high-rise buildings, they will think of "frozen music"; When you see a lot of traffic, you think of "rolling music". Good mood and easy to considerate people. Courteous, warm-hearted and helpful, and willing to talk to others, accept invitations, and even greet puppies warmly. As the saying goes, "people are in good spirits when they are happy". And when people are troubled, they are depressed, and when they enjoy the "pastoral symphony", they will also feel that it is noise.

If each of us can observe the face when asking for someone, change the previous decision in time, advance when it should advance, retreat when it should be retreated, stop when it should stop, combine or decompose our words and deeds in time, and control our joys, sorrows and sorrows in time, then interpersonal communication will definitely be more harmonious.

Of course, the kind of "villain" who flatters, brags, obeys the orders of his superiors, and acts only on his face for his own interests should be despised. Because it is not about aiming and shooting accurately, but about standing on the same level as others, spinning or leaping. It is not for your own safety, but for the sake of sailing with others and moving forward together.

Pay attention to his physique

The ancients said: "Seeing the subtle things is known, some are inside, and the form is outside." "This is the art of looking at people.

In fact, people's personalities, speech and demeanor make us form certain habits of life, and these habits will affect people's physique. As a simple example, generally speaking, active people tend to have a stronger physique, while quiet people tend to be fatter and weaker due to less activity.

If you just listen to the other person's words or look at the other person's behavior, the other person can still tell a big lie. Therefore, it is not easy to get to know a person's character. Speech and demeanor can be controlled, but body shape is not, so we think that it is not too outrageous to be able to discern a person's personality in terms of physical shape, to some extent.

Zoologists believe that "human beings are not particularly superior or inferior to other animals." "Animals have their own unique body shapes, and the same is true for humans, such as obese, thin, robust, etc. It can be said that the special body shape of each human being is the best sign of faithful expression of its character.

In the case of asking for someone, in order to make the relationship between each other more smooth, it is necessary to pay attention to the physical appearance of the other party, and judge his personality by his physical appearance, and estimate in advance how likely it is to succeed in seeking someone, so as not to take detours and hit nails. Knowing each other's character is a prerequisite for successfully achieving the goal.

Based on the personality judgment method of psychiatrists, the following introduces six categories of physique and their personality analysis.

The heart is wide and the body is fat, and it is fun to help others

The physical trait of the obese fat type refers to the growth of too much fat in all parts of the body, including the abdomen, chest, and arms. People who are generally called "middle-aged fortunes" are representatives of this type. Most of these people were in the golden age of their greatest physical strength.

When we come into contact with such people, we can feel that they are able to adapt to the situation around them very well, giving people a similar warmth. Most of them are active people, and when they are flattered, they often make a posture of pushing the boat along the river. They may be complaining every day "Oh, it's too busy, it's too busy!" "But in reality, they are happy to be busy every day.

Although they are often lazy, they are not hated, and many of them are forgiven by those around them, so they are quite popular.

Cheerful and positive are the personality traits of this type of person. They often maintain a sense of humor and appear energetic, but they also have a steady, gentle side.

Many of these types of people are successful politicians, industrialists, and clinicians. Because he is empathetic, quick-witted, and has the intelligence to handle many things at once, which is their greatest strength. However, the shortcomings are the lack of consistency in considering problems, frequent gaffes, being too rash, having a high self-esteem, and liking to interfere in the words and deeds of others.

If you are looking for this type of fat and obesity, you will be able to talk freely even if you meet for the first time because of your cheerful personality and social skills. However, because they are nosy, you should also be aware that he may point fingers at you and make you change your original intention.

There is no hair on the mouth, and the work is not firm

There are quite a few people around us: adults with the face of a child, but not a small adult. Immature appearance, with the appearance of old, looks incongruous.

This type of person likes to be self-centered and has a strong personality, so it can also be called a revealing personality.

This kind of person is always surrounded by a lively and luxurious atmosphere, and if the topic is not centered on him, he will not be happy. In addition, not listening to others at all can be said to be the wayward type.

This genre is characterized by a wide range of knowledge, even if they are shallow, and they use this knowledge to criticize novels, music, and even plays. And because of this, he seems to be funny and good at making others laugh.

If you follow his topic and ask him random questions, he will be even more happy to talk about grandiose things, even if he doesn't know it. The commonly used tone is: "I ......" or "I know ......", and as soon as the word "I" comes out, it will be endless, which often makes obedient people unbearable.

In a way, they belong to the innocent people. But they themselves are unaware of their immature personality and thoughts, and this is the sadness of it. If you are flattered, it is good, but if you are left out, the face of jealousy is revealed.

If the woman you're dating is of this type, you'll have to be her audience. If the opponent you ask is of this type, consider his light and willful personality, lack of opinions, and easy to be swayed by other people's opinions, and pay close attention, otherwise you will regret it if you trust him too much and suffer serious losses.

Loyal and reliable

There is a group of people who are strong, muscular, and have a well-built body. They are supposed to be athletes or representatives of the labor community, yet most of them are senior managers. This is due to the fact that these people are loyal and honest, and they are meticulous. The appearance of loyalty is exactly the model of senior managers.

They are characterized by always putting order first, emphasizing righteousness, living a fulfilling life every day, and so on. This kind of personality is very sticky, and once you start working on something, you will stick to it until the end of the process.

Another characteristic is mental slowness, speaking in large circles, nagging non-stop, and so on. This is especially evident in speaking. Even when a letter is written, it is like speaking, too long, cautious and thoughtful, and a piece of writing is sprinkled. In case the topic talks about the plot of the movie, and you haven't finished it, he is frizzy and asks in an impatient tone, "And then what's going on?" ”

This type of person is a trustworthy character, but also a hard-nosed character who is a little less interesting.

If this kind of person is your colleague or boss, they often have a stubborn side and a habit of thinking about things in a formal way.

It may be said, "Don't associate with that person," but if you want to turn to such a person, you might as well use the opportunity of small talk to bring it up.

Some people are thin and weak, and they are the slender body that modern people desperately desire, but they are not healthy and slender, but they are as thin as Lin Daiyu, and they eat more but are not obese.

In the thin type, some people have hidden things behind him. The beautiful body shape on the outside is eye-catching, but it gives people the feeling that they cannot be approached and cannot be interacted with.

Thin women, most of whom have strong personalities, are simply beyond the reach of men.

Most of these people are calm and composed. But because of its complex personality, it is difficult to explain. Why? Because of the contradictions in their personalities, they have a great interest in fantasy things, never let people see what they are thinking, and wrap themselves in a veil of indifference, without revealing them at all.

Depending on the point of view, people of this type of personality do not want to be friends or associate with ordinary mortals, and they can often be seen exuding a romantic atmosphere.

In addition, this type of person has many shortcomings, such as being preoccupied with trivial and boring things, stubborn and unwilling to accommodate, arrogant and cold-faced, unable to make up his mind but impulsively adjudicating things.

But there are also strengths, because of the delicate nerves in life, they have a very strong interest in literature, art, handicrafts, etc., and they also have a special keen sense of fashion. In addition, in order to do dedicated social work, he did not hesitate to scatter his private property, and he also showed elegant social demeanor.

When interacting with such people, be mentally prepared. This kind of person has a conscience, and has a delicate mind, and has a strict and cautious attitude towards life.

Reinforced and iron-like, like a wolf and a tiger

Although these people are thin in appearance, they are very strong and powerful. They are very self-conscious, do not accept other people's ideas, and always like to persuade others, although sometimes the reason is not too strong. Their competitive personality also forms a willingness to accept challenges, which forces them to study hard to enrich their knowledge or skills, and to accept or challenge others.

This kind of person has strong convictions, quick judgment, courage, decisiveness, and is a trustworthy partner.

On the flip side, this strong personality can sometimes go in a bad direction. For example, hard work, authoritarian, high-pressure, distrustful of others, domineering, etc. If someone at work is unable to do what they want to do in silence, they will immediately cut ties with them.

In addition, if you are unfortunate enough to have a grudge against such a person, then you better pray to God to bless you. Because this type of person lacks flexibility in thinking, once there is a certain idea, it is difficult to change it.

Such a person lacks charisma, so even if he has great ability or some power, although there are people who obey him and cater to him, they keep a distance from him. In addition, they are more likely to be isolated in the family.

Therefore, when you come into contact with such a person, you must not oppose him, because this kind of person has an innate aggressiveness, and before his self-perceived correctness is confirmed, he must eagerly assert his own correctness, and attack whoever opposes it. Therefore, when you ask him, you must not speak against his will, everything is arranged by him, and success or failure can only be left to fate.

Weak scholar, nervous

There are many types of nervousness, not only the pale, thin and thin type, but also the so-called weak scholar type, dignified manly type, and so on. In addition, many of the bold and obese types are neurotic.

Therefore, when we look at this type of person, it is appropriate to analyze their personality in terms of their strong sensibilities rather than their physique. Because of their strong sensibility, they have a very sensitive reaction to the things around them. Therefore, there is often the disadvantage of paying attention to the movements of the people around you. On the contrary, because the movement of such feelings is closely related to the intelligence aspect, this type of person is by no means a person with a bad brain. This is the reason why there are more people of this type in the intellectual class.

When they make a mistake, they often say, "It's all my bad ......" or "I made a mistake...... and they take responsibility for everything. Sometimes, it is not their own fault, but they worry in advance and are willing to take responsibility. The biggest characteristic of this type is psychological instability. It is easy to lose psychological balance, and the mood is easy to be confused is the disadvantage of this type, but this is also a character that ordinary people do not have, with rich sensibility and delicate feelings. In addition, this kind of person is indissolubly bonded with a conscientious and prudent attitude towards life.

Quiet and sincere, but also pleasing to the eye, neurotic character, in the eyes of others the impression is that there is no autonomy, volatile temperament, and not easy to intersect. If your friend or boss is one of those people, you must know that what you are entrusted to do is carried out realistically, that you keep your promises, and that you pay attention to etiquette.

Care about how he dresses

The clothing worn by a person can sometimes reflect his identity, such as cook, doctor, military policeman, sailor, etc.; Sometimes it can reflect the personality of the individual to a certain extent, such as art lover, romantic, debauched, quiet, active, and so on.

Of course, some people deliberately dress up differently from their identity and personality for some reason, however, there are not many cases of this kind after all, and we guess a person's identity or personality based on clothing, generally speaking, it is not too far apart.

In recent years, it has become quite difficult to determine a person's identity based on clothing. Some people don't look like a rich man's clothes, but they are actually tens of millions of dollars in money. Among those who wear jeans, there are also university professors. In modern society, there are more and more people who are "not presentable". Therefore, if a person's identity is abruptly judged by what he wears, then there will be no shortage of "misdiagnosis".

However, the clothing chosen by the wearer himself is at least inextricably linked to his or her character. Therefore, we can analyze his personality or psychological state at that time through clothing, which has a certain reference role for the success of seeking people.

Vertical and horizontal decoration, bluffing

Some people like to wear thick striped shirts. People with fixed salaries are generally less likely to wear this type of clothing, while freelancers are more fond of this shirt. When a person feels uneasy about his or her profession, he likes to wear this kind of clothing. "Bluffing" is characteristic of this type of person. When you don't have confidence in yourself and want to hide your inner anxiety, anxiety or loneliness, you often use this clothing as a tool to hide. Their main purpose is to cover up their own weaknesses through bluffing.

Seeing the outfits of those hooligan "buddies", you can see their identity and psychology at a glance. In addition to wanting to "bluff", they also want to hide their own shortcomings.

When you get along with this kind of person, you must not attack their shortcomings, and you must think twice before you speak, if you don't intend to scratch the itch of the other person, the consequences are unimaginable. For example, if the other person is in the middle of an unfortunate accident or has a personal matter that they do not want to be known, you should avoid teaching them in the tone of a fortune teller or fortune teller, such as "Your eight characters are not good" or "That's fate!" Something like that.

Why? Because what this kind of person hates most is fate or conflicting opinions. Don't contradict him either, it's better to go with their tone. Also, don't point fingers at his shortcomings. Otherwise, you're likely to be subjected to the question "What for?" You're getting impatient, aren't you? Something like that.

Hanger is a long child, and his temperament is impermanent

If a person wears woolen fabrics made in England and high-end leather shoes made in Italy, at first glance, they do give people a sense of nobility and seem to be quite free. But when he looked closely, he found that he had a very disproportionate tie...... This kind of person can be said to be quite bad in terms of clothing.

The raunchy type will always wear the same style of trousers, a crumpled shirt with a woolen top, and when you look at your feet, you can drag a pair of sandals. People dressed in this way, we can often see.

People who like to dress up like this often give people a vulgar and rustic feeling, but many of them are cheerful and look younger than their actual age.

They are very action-oriented and have the character of a laborer. Once you have made up your mind, you will be able to persevere to the last step.

It would never be a good idea to have someone like that among your colleagues. Although they are full of action, they go straight to the point. But once praised, he will get carried away, and when he is scolded, he will immediately be discouraged and cower.

Of course, it's best if you can get the likes of this kind of person, but if unfortunately you do something wrong and fail, he will say, "Why are you so careless?" "Maybe I'll scold you again. The ability to act is the strength of this kind of person, and the lack of careful planning is their weakness, so it is wise to try to avoid stimulating their dual personality.

If you want to further develop a relationship with this type of person, or if you want to make them angry, they like the person who is obedient to them the most, as long as you can do everything according to them, then everything will go smoothly whether it is a business or a friend with them.

This type of person, in the friendship between friends, does not talk about morality or human feelings. In other words, most of them belong to the boring and boring kind of personality. Although at first glance, it seems to be a good friend, but it has to be based on his own interests, otherwise the friendship between them cannot be established at all.

Dressed in straw clothes all over the body, acting on the spot

An actress performed on the same stage with a male actor, and the actress looked at the costume he was wearing, and she didn't know whether it was a real thing or a fake, so she decided that it was a high-end costume worth tens of thousands of yuan, and said praisefully: "Your outfit is so beautiful!" ”

He asked rhetorically, "Guess how much this set is worth?" ”

Perhaps the actress thought it was too rude to tell the exact price truthfully, so she had to reply cautiously: "I think it must be very expensive!" But when the actor said proudly: "Of course it's expensive, this set of clothes is 300 yuan!" The actress was surprised. It is not surprising that a famous actor like him wears clothes of 1,000 or 2,000 yuan, but he is proud of wearing clothes of 300 yuan, no wonder the actress is so surprised!

People like actors are the most proficient in the development of side hustles, specializing in attracting powerful people to stand on their side, and will never put themselves in a disadvantageous position, and they are the most clever at protecting themselves. As the saying goes, "If the blade is overused, it will break easily", because such people will never be satisfied, and they are often afraid that their bad deeds will be exposed and they will lose their status. Therefore, it is necessary to be absolutely cautious in dealing with them.

If there is such a person among the people with whom you deal with it, you must know that he lacks self-confidence, like other people who are sensitive to fashionable things, so he counteracts his inferiority complex with vanity, and hides his inner insecurity and fear with ornaments.

Many of these people are lonely and emotionally unsettled. Most of them have dual personalities, so it's best not to touch the areas they want to hide to avoid revealing their scars.

Black and white, selfish and capricious

Black can disguise a person's body. Probably very few people wear this kind of clothing on a daily basis. Many people who only love clear and simple colors such as white or red also like black as well. The reason for this stems from hysteria. This type of person who likes to wear red-toned clothing may say; "I really don't have the confidence to wear black." Conversely, those who prefer to wear black will say, "I don't fit in red." ”

A person like this, who denies colors he doesn't like in a confident and stubborn tone, gives the impression of complete opposites. But if a beautiful woman tells someone who hates white attire: "White is for you!" "But they will immediately have a 180-degree change, and suddenly they will have a great confidence in themselves, and they will become very fond of white clothes. From this, it can be seen that their likes and dislikes in some aspects are quite obviously intense, and they are the wayward type.

But most of them are warm-hearted, kind-hearted and romantic. If you associate with such a person, the first prerequisite is that you must be true to your word, and never break your trust in him. When such a person asks you for something, you answer, "Yes, I see." And if you come to get things done, or if you don't make it happen, he will have an ingrained impression in his mind: "This guy has no credit!" "The important things he asks you to do, or the important things that he has agreed on, need to be completed quickly in the shortest possible time, which is the secret of deep friendship with such people.

The strong dependence on asking others to take care of things is a major weakness of this kind of black and white person. They hate to give up halfway, and they want everything to have a beginning and an end and to be clear in the shortest possible time. From the outside, they seem to be optimists, but their personalities are the complete opposite. In order to conceal this mentality, they often spend a lot of energy to conceal their own psychology. Although they are large and rough in appearance, they have a delicate and delicate side, and they are often irritable and angry.

If a person just wants to wear black clothes on a certain day, it is to suppress his desire for that day, that is, the psychological state at that time is not willing to let his mood be too obvious.

The tone is gloomy and the personality is tough

People who love to wear navy blue clothing lack passion in character, lack decisiveness and action, and lack shame. This type of person often shows his feelings on the surface. They are conservative and cautious, and they also have a strong sense of self-esteem.

If such a person is the manager of the company, and you want to know how he behaves, you can use the banquet to entertain his subordinates to achieve the purpose of obtaining "information". When he knows your clues, he may warn you, "Don't you hide anything from me?" "Completely intimidating in a threatening tone. In other words, he does not have any ability to coach and support his subordinates. And he doesn't want his subordinates to overstep him. This kind of person not only does not care for those who have no interest in him, but even takes advantage of it and ignores it.

In addition, a person who loves navy blue clothing, as long as he thinks he should do it, he will stick to it to the end, and will never change his mind halfway. Because it is too stubborn, it is sometimes unscrupulous on rampage. Too much self-esteem can easily lead to failure.

Lovers of dark blue clothing have a special thought. They believe that instead of spending money on food and drink, it is more beneficial and effective to use it to buy gifts and give them to the people concerned.

The only way to break into the world of such people is to patiently deal with them. In addition, it is also necessary to inquire about their preferences.

It should be noted that you should not say anything about others in front of them, and you should not disclose anything about yourself, no matter how big or small, to them, because they will accuse you to your face, or say that you are not in front of a third party.

Dress plainly and do things steadily

The uniforms of many large institutions, such as banks and airlines, are quite plain. It is said that this has a certain psychological effect, that is, it is used to unify the personality of employees and change the impression of the company in general.

In addition to being related to his profession, many people dress plainly, and from the analysis of his appearance, it is easy to mistake him for a simple person.

Generally, there are people of a considerable age who like to dress up like this, but there are many young people who also like to wear this kind of clothing.

Most of this type is a conforming institutional type. However, although they are plainly dressed, they still show a sense of flashiness, and they are characterized by many people showing their appearance. On the contrary, many people who like ornate decorations are self-expressive and possessive.

There are many enterprises and shops that pay attention to uniforms, and from the point of view of Europeans and Americans, this image of Chinese is like worker bees or economic animals, because Europeans and Americans are very different from us Orientals, they take their own personality as the top in uniforms, and enjoy the fun of freedom from clothing.

When a person who is usually fond of simple clothes is uncharacteristically gorgeous and free, it is necessary to be wary of him. Although this kind of person also has a simple side, usually the promised things will also be in vain.

Some people promise to be on the condition of money, to be wary of everything around them in everything they do, and to care too much about the criticism of others, and to threaten them with hysteria at the slightest bad thing about them: "I heard that you are quite dissatisfied with me, haven't you?!" ”

The best way to meet this kind of opponent is not to provoke him, so as not to be bored.

People who love plain clothes seem to give the impression of being well-intentioned, planning everything they do, and paying attention to sincerity.