After entering the room, Lan stretched out her hand and took Shuhui's hand and shook it, Shuhui smiled sweetly at her, "I'm not angry with you, I'm just angry that she always does things that make people unhappy."

In a word, if I don't go, you should also bring the word you, my mother didn't take care of her, why did I deliberately leave me here again and again, how embarrassed you say I am. ”

Shuhui pouted angrily, so that she didn't blame Zilan.

"I don't understand why she did it, and it embarrassed me and I didn't know what to do. Talking too much is afraid of hurting her self-esteem.

Don't say it, she always puts me in an awkward position, and my father said that as time goes by, the two of us can't deal with it, and sooner or later we will have to centrifuge. ”

Zilan deliberately moved her father out as a shield.

"No, I know your heart, my mother told me that she was not right-hearted, and she deliberately did us here."

Shuhui took her hand and sat down, instructing Peony to bring water to wash the two of them.

The old lady changed her clothes and came out, and when she heard it, she smiled and said: "Lan'er is also wrong in this matter, you shouldn't be so thoughtful in the first place, you are too thoughtful, people think you are a bully, so they block you every time."

She knew that Hui'er had a powerful mouth and was unforgiving, so she would definitely not look for her. And you are different, you are willing to let you speak, and you can't be wrong with your mouth. ”

Zilan scratched her head, "No wonder my father told us today that if we should refuse, we must refuse, and if we should keep our principles, we must clear up the relationship or something, and the feelings are talking about me." ”

Shuhui covered her mouth and smiled.

"I remember, it seems that it was my fault, I will reject her in the future, I will refuse her today."

Zilan scrambled her neck, feeling that she had done something very interesting.

I am still very grateful to my father, you must know that few fathers and mothers will teach their children to learn to say no, but in human relations, it is actually very important to learn to say no to people and not to do things that you don't want to do.

We often encounter some embarrassing things, obviously unwilling to help, or unable to help, but can't withstand the repeated pleading of others or even personal debts, and have to do things we don't like.

And some people are soft-eared and soft-hearted, and they often can't refuse other people's requests, but they make themselves very embarrassed, and their lives are a mess, and it's not uncommon.

Zilan thinks that she has this problem, her parents have never talked about these problems before, and no one taught her to say no to things she doesn't like.

As if it was rude to reject someone, you didn't help at all, you were too selfish, and so on, and so on, and so on, and we were all in an awkward social situation for a long time.

Later, after entering the society, after being tempered a lot, I learned how to reject others tactfully.

The old lady touched her head and said earnestly: "Powerful people are not easy to bully, this is the first impression, when you encounter trouble, everyone will subconsciously separate her, and many things don't go to her at all, because she is not easy to deal with, it is difficult to entangle, and others dare not provoke her."

And why are soft-hearted people a little more troublesome, and the reason why there are more bullshit things is here, people are picking up soft persimmons and pinching them, which can be fully reflected from you and Hui'er. ”

Zilan thought about what she really didn't do well, and looked at Xuan'er with sympathy, in fact, this is not right, people don't necessarily need their own sympathy.

"My grandmother is my fault, I remember, I will change it slowly, I shouldn't always look at her with sympathy, the attitude of treating everyone equally is respect."

"By the way, that's the smart baby."

The old lady had a happy smile in her eyes, what does it matter if that seed is good or not, don't take my granddaughter to ruin it.

"Sister, I'll go to my grandfather's house in two days, whether you want to go or not, go play with me, I'll introduce my cousin to you."

Shuhui rubbed over and leaned on her affectionately to talk.

"Is it appropriate for me to go?"

Zilan looked at the old lady and asked if she could come to the door as a guest, and if she would be abrupt.

"It doesn't matter, go ahead, let your second uncle take you to play, get to know a few more little sisters, and see how people treat people and things, and after a long time, you will understand that you still see too few guests."

The old lady responded with a smile, this child is kind-hearted and easy to be taken advantage of, so it would be good to go out and walk around more and see more.

Zilan happily agreed, "Okay, then I'll go with my sister, should I bring some small gifts, it's not good to come to the door empty-handed for the first time, is it my intention for me to give it to my sisters." ”

"Then you can make Hexiang, you make Hexiang very well, last time I took the Hexiang you gave me to play with my cousins, and my cousins praised it."

Shuhui thought for a moment and said.

"Okay, then let's wake up in the afternoon and do it."

Zilan thought about it and agreed, and asked Hongxia to help her complete the dangerous parts such as using fire, and she could do the rest of the simple parts herself.

The two sisters washed and went to the warm pavilion to take a nap, and the old lady settled down and lay down for a while.

Zhao Xuan'er didn't come in the afternoon, it is said that Aunt Xu taught her the rules, because she had very poor rules and couldn't go out, Aunt Xu had to teach a little more alone in order to catch up with their sisters' progress.

The two sisters woke up, and Zilan took Shuhui to the perfume room, which was in a house next door, and all kinds of utensils were very complete.

However, because they were still young, they couldn't touch the fire, and they didn't let the knife touch the boiling water, and Hongxia guided them to complete some dangerous parts throughout the process.

Today, Zilan plans to make two different incense and give them to the girl of the Ma family as a small gift to the door.

Shuhui saw that she was busy and asked curiously, "Sister, what are you going to do?" ”

"Make floral fragrances, one is plum blossom fragrance, and they are all lavender. There is also a Shu lord smoked royal clothes. ”

Zilan asked Hongxia to take a sweet pine, a tael of fennel, wood incense, borneol, half a tael of cloves, and a penny of musk. The stone mortar is pounded into coarse powder and smoked as usual.

Another type of Shu main lavender needs to be used, cloves, stack incense, agarwood, sandalwood, musk one or two each, and three taels of incense (system). For the end of the refining honey let the cold even. Such as cellar for more than a month.

The lavender incense of the lord of Shu was made together with Hongxia before, and the ready-made one can be taken out and packed, and today it is enough to make plum blossom incense.

Shuhui helped to pound the powder together, the sisters were very happy to laugh and laugh, and Zilan was the most confident and confident when making incense.

Hongxia has been following the Yang family for many years, so she can make a lot of incense, so the Yang family asked her to accompany Zilan to tutor her to make incense, so as not to hurt her daughter's hairy hands and feet.

Because of the simple relationship, this Hexiang will be done in a while, Zilan smelled it and smelled it good, and found a beautiful porcelain box to put it up.

"Miss's nose is very bright, and she is getting better and better."

Hongxia is full of praise, this is really talented.

"When I can touch the fire, I can make incense alone."

Zilan's proud appearance is very stinky, this room is where the Yang family makes incense, and the shop they opened together is almost ready, and they have been busy with this before.