Shuhui tilted her head and thought carefully, "What my uncle means is that painting is just a hobby, learning because you like it, not to show off or make a name for yourself, that's not right, right?" ”

"By the way, you are all young ladies of everyone, you have your own style and arrogance, and you can't be in the company of prejudice and jealousy.

Know how to say no to people and things you don't like; We must know how to adhere to principles and bottom lines, resolutely not do what we cannot do, and resolutely dissociate ourselves from relationships if we cannot be in the same stream. ”

"We remember."

Zilan and Shuhui glanced at each other, their expressions were extremely serious, and they nodded seriously.

Song Zhengtian played with them for a while, and played small games with them very patiently, not too dirty, and the two children who coaxed them were very happy.

At noon, everyone ate vegetarian food together, and after a short rest, everyone set off for home.

In the carriage on the road, Zilan looked at Song Zhengtian and asked, "Dad, why don't you let Xuan'er call you uncle?" What's in the way? ”

Song Zhengtian touched her head and smiled, "It's not that I'm ruthless, but this kid is actually very thoughtful, and she's looking for support." It can't be said that she did something wrong, it's just that she is too utilitarian, and she is only five years old.

I don't know what she went through in the Zhao family, but I want to say that neither you nor Hui'er can play with her. This child's mind is too heavy, and it feels gloomy.

If she is as bright as Hui'er, she will not be called my uncle, and I will also teach to maintain one or two, some things are not in the same title.

Why didn't she go and talk to your second aunt, they also have daughters, and their hearts are very soft. Your aunt has no daughters, and she is very good to you, and she has a better chance.

But she didn't choose, but chose us because you have a soft temperament and can tolerate your little friends, and we don't have as much opinion as Hou Fu has on her, she subconsciously feels that we have the greatest chance of being taken. ”

Zilan tilted her head and thought for a while before saying, "It's because my grandmother asked Aunt Xu to teach her and Sister Hui'er alone, and didn't let them study together, so Xuan'er always understood her grandmother's attitude in her heart, right?" ”

"Yes, don't underestimate children's scheming, it's not a lot at all, children do things more instinctively, but are more sensitive and intuitive.

The environment of the Zhao family should be very poor, she may have suffered a lot of abuse and indebtedness, so her personality is a little off. ”

Song Zhengtian is an adult, and he sees Zhao Xuan'er more thoroughly, and he doesn't like her character very much, but he won't isolate a child, but he doesn't want her to be too close to his daughter, and he avoids it just to protect his children.

"I see."

Zilan nodded and felt a little distressed.

"You can do whatever you are worried about, and you don't have to change your mind for the sake of others. There is also a bottom line and principle for tolerance, even for Hui'er, you can't blindly let it go, that will encourage unhealthy trends, Hui'er is still young after all. ”

Zilan pouted, "I'm not worried about getting along with Sister Hui'er, in fact, Sister Hui'er takes care of me very much on weekdays, and she will want to leave me a copy of good things, so that the girl can serve me inside and outside and take care of me."

She has a straightforward temperament, and she won't be angry if I say anything, but if there is anything unexpected, I said it bluntly, and she wasn't annoyed, and said that she forgot to remind me.

I get along very happily with Sister Hui'er, I don't have to think so much about it, I look ahead, but I am very difficult with Sister Xuan'er, and I have to be careful that she will be unhappy if she says something wrong.

But she doesn't say that she wants me to guess, sometimes she wants me to take the initiative, take the initiative to help her, take the initiative to give her things, take the initiative to relieve her, etc.

It's like when you didn't let her call your uncle before, she just looked at me, but I actually saw it, and deliberately turned her head, because I didn't know what to do.

I think that since Dad said it, there must be a reason, and I can't refute Daddy's meaning to my face, that's not right. That's why I hid. ”

Song Zhengtian smiled and nodded, "You feel right, this is where her scheming lies, using the difference between your compassion and identity to make you do things for her, so I don't like her very much, so I have to hide a little."

She did this without considering that you would also be embarrassed and inappropriate to talk, and that you would be rejected by your grandparents and think you were nosy. Think about what Sister Hui'er would do if she was in trouble? ”

Zilan tilted her head and thought for a while, "Sister Hui'er won't let me go out to do things, I've been in my grandfather's house for so long, and it's always Sister Hui'er who has come forward to shout at people to do things."

Never let me speak, even if I go out to play or what I need, Sister Hui'er speaks by herself, and she doesn't need me to come out.

Whenever I did, she always told my grandmother and aunts about how good I was and how I took care of her, but I didn't do anything, but she did a lot. ”

Zilan thought about it for a while, Hui'er was more atmospheric, more assertive, had ideas in her heart, and her conduct was more sunny and cheerful.

Song Zhengtian poured a glass of water and fed it to Zilan, before he slowly spoke, "Different people do things differently, and you can see how your character is, Shuhui is more frank and upright, and it is inseparable from the teaching of her parents."

And Xuan'er is deeply influenced by the Zhao family, the Zhao family is a businessman, I heard that there are many wives and concubines and children, I am afraid it is difficult to have a father.

In this way, there are many calculations, and she has been treated badly again, and her temperament will inevitably deviate. It is understandable that there is also a slight impact on the act.

But understanding is understanding, disagreeing and still disagreeing, I can only hope that Aunt Xu will teach more, and she can understand it as soon as possible. ”

The implicit implication is that you don't have to dig your liver like a good sister before you learn to understand, because people don't treat you with all sincerity, so you don't have to.

"I see."

Zilan nodded, I didn't expect the ancients to be so precocious, and children were so scheming, but they looked down on people by themselves, and it was not only adults who were smart, but also children.

Song Zhengtian smiled and nodded.

Zilan understands what her parents mean, just like when I was a child in kindergarten, my parents will teach us who to play with and who not to play with, the reason is very simple, that child has too many eyes and is afraid that his children will be deceived, but it is just the truth that those who are close to Zhu are red and those who are close to ink are black.

It was already afternoon when she returned to the Hou Mansion, and Zilan was also a little sleepy.

Zhao Xuan'er stepped forward and said with a smile: "Sister Lan, do you want to go to my yard to play for a while?" ”

Zilan glanced at Shuhui, saw her chuckle, turned around and left, and didn't say a word.

sighed slightly in his heart, "Sister Xuan'er, next time, I was a little sleepy after playing all morning, and I didn't rest at noon, and I was so sleepy that tears flowed out of my eyes." ”

Zhao Xuan'er's face was a little stiff, and just as she wanted to say something, the old lady walked in front and turned around and called: "Lan'er, come back for a lunch break, your father will test your knowledge in the afternoon." ”

"Oh coming, Sister Xuan'er, you can go back and take a nap too, we woke up and played."

Zilan took the opportunity to run away with her skirt.