After listening to Xu Hang's words, I started a cold war, and thought of a folk saying - the old yin and the young yang will not live long. ％∷，≮※o

This sentence is actually not groundless, there are clouds in the Book of Changes, Taiji gives birth to two instruments, and two instruments give birth to four elephants. The four elephants are the delicate expression of Tai Chi, take the seasons as an example. Spring is less yang, summer is old yang, autumn is less yin, and winter is old yin.

The days when winter goes to spring are the most susceptible to the cold. The "Treatise on Typhoid Fever" has a description of the treatment of dampness, and the best time to dispel dampness is in midsummer.

In other words, it is basically ineffective to deal with the old yin of winter with the young yang of spring. Compared to the human body, Shaoyang is between ten and twenty years old, young and upward. And the old yang is from the age of 30 to the age of 45, which is the yang of exuberance.

All things are mutually reinforcing, and the harmony of yin and yang can be harmonious. As the so-called solitary yin does not give birth to solitary yang and yang does not grow, yang can only multiply with the nourishment of yin, such as yang is wood and yin is rain, trees are not moistened by rain, and they will be weakened and withered in the year of the full sun.

However, Xu Hang's age is in the Shaoyang stage, as if he has not yet become a talent. And it is true that after the age of thirty, the yin qi becomes stronger and stronger, which is why there is a saying that women are thirty like wolves and forty like tigers.

In other words, Wang Huanting is in her old age. Their union is like a storm beating a sapling. Not to mention physically, Xu Hang was also crushed to death in terms of fortune. Originally, his yang energy could not withstand Wang Huanting's yin energy, and under the prosperity of yin, yang must decline, which is a one-sided form.

Xu Hang saw that I didn't speak, and asked me nervously what I was thinking, and I didn't hide it, and told him everything I knew about Lao Yin and Shaoyang.

The more he listened, the whiter his face became, and he asked me what to do. I smiled bitterly and said to him, "What else can I do, pay attention to moderation." ”

Xu Hang nodded seriously, but after a little pondering, his face turned red to the root of his ears, and he roared: "Can you be a little serious?" Is this what I'm asking, we can't get married now! ”

Rub, he didn't say that I ignored this stubble. The old yin and the young yang are two different things, but they let them occupy both of them. In fact, not all women and men will be alike, not to mention that they are only more than ten years apart, and the difference between them is not nothing, and people are living well.

The reason is embarrassing, because Wang Huanting is too clean. There are so many normal women who are as big as men, and in most cases, women have been married, and some have even been married more than once. In this way, there is basically no problem, because Hongsha was washed away when she first got married, and the woman's Yuan Yin has already been discharged. ∈，2∞3↓o

And Wang Huanting is different, she has never even talked about love, let alone getting married. Although when Xu Hang was in high school, the two had an act of super friendship. But no matter what, Xu Hang is her only man, and how much yin qi has she accumulated over the years?

This aspect alone is enough of a headache, and as for rejecting the marriage, it is a crime for the two of them. As long as they get married, something will happen, and it will be a disaster of blood and light, and at worst, they will fly apart.

That's not all, if you get married forcibly, not only the two of you, but also others. There may be people who are involved in the wedding, maybe who is beaten by the red evil, and the bad luck is a trivial matter for a lifetime, and there are countless people who are directly ill and can't afford to hang up.

Bai Sha is a person who does not blink his eyes to death, and the breath that he can't swallow is spit out, this is called a seedling, and the person who is beaten is called a disaster. And the red evil is the evil qi generated when the couple who is guilty of rejecting the marriage gets married. This is the origin of the red and white evils, and the power of the red evil is better than that of the white evil.

I thought about it and asked Xu Hang again: "Your matter is really troublesome, but to tell the truth, it can't be solved." But before that, you have to answer me first, do you think your feelings for Wang Huanting are really love? ”

Xu Hang didn't seem to understand why I had to be obsessed with this, he said to me a little irritably: "This is my dream since I was a child, and it is also what I have to do, if I don't want to marry her, as for tossing like this?" Not to mention that I didn't go to college, do you know how many times I've been to the hospital in five years? ”

Actually, the question I asked him was simple, and his answer was too complicated. Generally speaking, for simple questions, deliberately taking care of him, it means that the answer must be unsatisfactory.

I ignored Xu Hang's restless emotions and told him: "Wanting to marry her and loving her are two different things, I don't think you won't understand, ask your own heart." ”

"I don't understand, what's the difference?" Xu Hang finally couldn't hold it back, and roared angrily: "If I say marry her, I will definitely marry her, just say if you can help me!" Don't worry, if you can't help or not, I'll do it for you! ”

I shook my head helplessly and smiled bitterly, is he using morality bǎng jià me or what? Willing to marry and love are two different things, and the difference is bigger. In addition to not getting married, there is another result. That is, if the marriage is forcibly married, someone of the two will cheat, so that in the end, Lao Yan will fly apart.

The key to rejecting marriage lies in the hearts of two people. This thing can be compared to a cold, I can cure it with an injection now, but this thing will still recur when it encounters infection.

Xu Hang himself is not sure if he loves Wang Huanting, I have broken the marriage for him now, and he can indeed end the marriage without anything. And then what? Another five years, ten years. When Wang Huanting is old, can a marriage without emotion as a foundation last a lifetime by virtue alone?

After a long time, I glanced at Xu Hang, whose face was complicated, and his expression showed that he was also hesitant and struggling in his heart. I said to him, "Okay, let's spread things out and ask Wang Huanting's opinion." ”

Then I didn't wait for Xu Hang to speak again, and walked outside the house first. When Xu Hang heard me say this, he was very nervous and chased him out quickly. In the living room, Huang Yunlan was infusing Liu Xudong with yang energy, and Liu Xudong's wife was accompanying him. And Hu Botao sat on the chair with his head down, but Wang Huanting was gone.

It's only morning, and there is no one in the house to see a doctor, and Hu Botao's expression is not right, what's going on?

Without waiting for me to ask, Xu Hang preemptively asked, "What about Huanting?" Where is Wan Ting? ”

"She's gone." After Hu Botao replied, he continued to bow his head with a cold face, not knowing what he was pondering.

This sentence stunned me when I heard it, what do you call it gone? Where did it go? Didn't you say that you came to break the marriage, why should you just leave?

When Xu Hang asked the question in my heart, Hu Botao suddenly raised his head and looked at Xu Hang with a cold gaze: "Don't you know why she left?" She told me everything about you, and she said that your life should not be ruined in her hands! ”

Xu Hang immediately became anxious after hearing this, pointed at Hu Botao and shouted, "Who are you?" If only Wan Ting had three long and two short·······"

Without waiting for Xu Hang to finish speaking, Hu Botao got up with a mouth, and said coldly: "Even if she has three longs and two shorts, it has nothing to do with you!" You men don't have a good thing! The scum who has been abandoned from the beginning to the end! ”

Hu Botao's scolding made my face red, and I said in my heart, Sister, your blow is too wide. A slap and the words mixed with huo yào flavor made Xu Hang anxious, he raised the slap and was about to fight back, but in the end he didn't fight, maybe because Hu Botao was a woman.

Hu Botao raised his hand and slapped Xu Hang's slap away, and then slapped it again, and snorted coldly at the same time: "I said I wronged you?" What's going on with you yourself, you don't know? What about the mountain alliance and sea oath when I got the people at that time? I'm afraid it's because Wang Huanting was good-looking at the beginning, at the age of twenty-seven or eighteen, she is like a flower in your eyes. ”

"You want to marry Wang Huanting ten years ago, not the current Wang Huanting, right? What about you when you swore your oath? What about you who went to the engagement banquet to grab a kiss? How energetic were you at that time? Now why do you want to marry her? For the sake of morality or mercy? ”

Facing Hu Botao's repeated questioning, Xu Hang's face was very pale for a while, and he was stunned and couldn't say a word.

Hu Botao didn't pause at all, and continued to roar: "If it's because of these, put away your worthless mercy." Wang Huanting's dedication was not for these at the beginning. She could have had a better home, even if it was to punish herself, it was because of her guilt for her mother. ”

"Everything that shouldn't happen between you is caused by you. You like her because of beauty and gratitude. She said when she left, she doesn't blame you, she just hopes that you can be well, otherwise she will live in vain in this life. If you really have a heart, let her live! She's pathetic enough! ”

After Hu Botao finished speaking, he pointed to the door and said roll. Her sudden outburst frightened me, and I said that she was Hu Xian'er, no matter whether Xu Hang's business could be done or not, then she shouldn't treat the bitter master like this. Could it be that after transforming into a human form, he was really resonated by the pain of a woman?

Xu Hang was completely distracted, and after he stood stupidly for a long time, tears suddenly flowed down. He picked up the phone and pressed it twice, and I found that his call record was filled with two words, that is, Huanting.

A woman's voice came from the other side of the phone, but it was not Wang Huanting's, but "Hello, the phone you dialed has been turned off·······" Xu Hang's eyes panicked instantly, as if he was as helpless as a child who had been separated from his parents.

He let out a mad cry, then pushed open the glass door and ran out. I don't know why, after such a while, I felt that it might not be as Hu Botao said. It's not that Xu Hang doesn't love Wang Huanting, it's just that he has confusion in his heart that even he doesn't understand.

"Come down." Hu Botao snorted inexplicably, I don't know who she said it to.

Immediately afterwards, a figure appeared on the wooden stairs of the attic, and it turned out to be Wang Huanting. Her face was very calm, but the two lines of tears on her cheeks betrayed her, and I felt very uncomfortable to see it.

Wang Huanting walked up to Hu Botao silently, wiped her tears and said to Hu Botao: "Thank you sister, then I won't bother." As she spoke, she was about to walk out, her back thin and embarrassed.

"Wait." didn't wait for two steps to take a step, Hu Botao grabbed her and told her: "In addition to Xu Hang's immaturity, the ups and downs of the two of you are more due to you." Are you willing to leave like this? Why not wait for the result? Give yourself a chance. ”11

I am a horse fairy from the Northeast