Time shuttles between the fingers, and then disappears into the daily trivialities.

A romantic person must have a group of people behind him who pay for his impragmatism. Behind me, it's just my parents. But it is enough to withstand thousands of troops.

The main stage of spiritual growth is really high school. Say goodbye to the arrogance of junior high school, and I don't have the ease I had at the beginning, I am conscientious, I dare not be late or leave early, and I will even give up dinner from time to time during the exam week.

The college entrance examination is a battle for the whole family, and I still remember the breakfast that was already laid out on the dinner table when I woke up in the morning, the lunch that changed the slightest unappetizing, and the steaming dinner and supper. Dad's little electric car, Mommy's little car. In the spring, summer, autumn and winter of 15 years, I travel back and forth between school and home. The newborn rising sun and the stars of the moon are the battles that determine a lifetime.

When people are young, they must fight again, and I don't know which Da Luo Immortal said such a sentence - when to fight if you don't fight at this time, it is so deeply imprinted in my mind, thinking back to the beginning, I really worked hard. There's a lot I want to say about high school, but the moment I turn on the computer, I really don't know where to start, perhaps, this is the kind of story that is suitable for telling in fragments in my spare time, since five or six times back and forth to no avail, it's better to leave it for the future.

The 18th birthday is before the college entrance examination. Just a hurry for a night of self-study, the lights of home, accompanied by the fragrance of cake. My mother asked me what I wanted as a gift, but I didn't think of it, so I stopped and said no. I still remember my mother looking at me meaningfully and telling me firmly that I should not regret it. "Hmm" was my answer at the time.

Regret it now, right? Actually, no, I got too much from my parents, and I still apologize.

After reading the strange saying, people always regard the college entrance examination as a key point in a person's growth, as if after 789 three days, everything will be fine, and the mind and body are extremely strong. Let's take it a long way.

I only know that when I came to the university, there were still many new students who were accompanied by their parents, and so did I. In a different place, there is always a need for a process of relaxation, I still remember watching the family's car drive towards the school gate after lunch, probably because the family has never set limits on their own possibilities, nor has they restrained themselves, restrained themselves from what they want, so there is no freedom of liberation as others say, and there is no excessive sadness of parting. But I do know that for the next four years, life may be a battle on my own.

The determination to change oneself also began at that time.

What is growth? For me, I was able to break free from the piles of books, liberate my nature, no longer hold the shelf, and began to treat the people around me as if I was my own family, daring to express myself from time to time, and daring to tell others my true side. I didn't read as many Zhihu, Weibo, and forums either. Even though I don't know how to wear makeup and don't know a lot of things, I was determined to live comfortably from the moment I was alone. Don't be trapped by people.

As it turns out, I did it too. Toss yourself inextricably, busy, but also happy.

Dare. It was the first keyword I grew up with. Newborn calves are not afraid of tigers, they are not cowardly, and they have never thought about how miserable it would be if they encountered the kind of system mentioned on the Internet. But I didn't have time to think about it, and I was already in it. In a group of strangers, I dare to make my own jokes, dare to take risks, and dare to do things in a down-to-earth manner. I dare to go alone, I dare to negotiate with my family, I dare to be brave, and I dare to be cowardly. Don't miss a chance, even though you keep making mistakes, you still persist.

Silent. This is the second keyword that I grew up in. I originally thought that everyone likes people who are hot and chattering, but it doesn't necessarily have a good effect. I thought that being able to play stalks was a talent that a person had to show off, but I never thought that being right to people was the truth that had not been explained. Learning to be silent is more important than learning to laugh and throw memes. I also gradually understood the rules for adults. We can play together, but you will never be allowed to comment on my life. probably responds to the sentence in "Rhyme Yangqiu", "Human feelings are in the mirror, and there are joys and sorrows".

Constant. It's the third keyword that I grew up with. The sudden whim of my sophomore year has benefited me a lot throughout the year, and I understand the power of perseverance, just like now, although I have a bad memory, I can also say what I learned from which book, occasionally talk about the plot, and I can say a few words, although most of the society does not use the words of the literati in these books, but it is probably good to be interested, isn't it? Another example is that the disease in my body has persisted for more than ten years, and it was about to knock me down.

Interesting. It's the fourth keyword I've grown up with. No one likes stereotypical people. The love for old cadres in the mouths of girls is just a whim. Silence will not last long. So I should thank my parents, fake and unserious people know the truth of deep affection and longevity, whether it is friendship or love. Of course, family affection is something that will definitely live to be loved until old age. An interesting soul is a bargaining chip for my growth and a target for my advancement.

The year I graduated from my bachelor's degree, it had nothing to do with elegance or chic, but after all, it was the most ceremonial goodbye to the past. I waved goodbye to my ignorance, stepped into the campus of graduate students, met the society, and met a more drastic growth process. Time is ticking, I look into the distance, it must be the morning sun.

Grow, grow. You don't need to be too fast, and you don't need to deliberately slow down, just like that, keep a little regret, move forward, stop, it's all scenery.