January 7 Diary – Choice
According to a certain philosopher, life is a journey of constant choices.
What path you didn't choose, what kind of person you chose the right person, and so on, my ears are calloused.
We hear so many stories that we forget why we chose them, or why we chose them.
We make choices every day. What do you eat in the morning, noon and evening, where do you stay, which bus do you take, and what kind of clothes do you wear to go out? We hate choices, but we fear that there are no choices. Because we know that the same choice of path, A may be a choice between a monthly income of one million and nine hundred and ninety-million, no matter what, it will be enviable, right? And B may just be a choice between moving bricks or selling kidneys. After choosing to move bricks, can we still ask him to be ecstatic that he just chose to work hard instead of working hard? Or can he say lightly that I choose to move bricks? I don't think it's possible.
Therefore, the initiative is the guarantee for a person to choose the right one, and one's own ability and talent are the guarantee for having the initiative.
Family, experience, age, appearance, etc., are all your foundation to escort the initiative of your choice. When I was a child, my parents, teachers, and myself would fantasize about whether I would choose to be a scientist or an astronaut in the future. Be a doctor or a lawyer? Tsinghua University or Peking University? Many times, it is not the reality itself that makes us recognize reality, but the choices we make one after another on the road of life, just like points form lines, lines form surfaces, there will not be a curve composed of points, right? At the age of studying, I was comfortable and playful, and even though I was talented, I was just a little bit of a stranger. Sometimes, the choice is a thought, and the goals of lawyers and doctors are not difficult to achieve, but at the moment of volunteering, you may think that this life is too immutable. So I changed my mind.
Today, I am a little chaotic, so I can choose to lie on the bed, or I can go out for a walk. Even if you choose to go out, you can also retreat to your dwelling when you see a light rain. Yes, the selection will change. It's like when I was thinking about writing this article, I didn't choose to be lyrical, but I still couldn't help but sigh to myself. Choice and personality go hand in hand. When I was willing to go for it, my choices suddenly went up.
I'm always scared of choices. Just like most people consider themselves to be phobias of choice. I always talk about the topic and turn it into a spiritual emotion of the gods and Buddhas. Make your own choices.,I just hope everyone can know that the current struggle is for the present or future self to be able to choose confidently.。。
The psychological interference is too strong, so I will avoid talking about this topic for the time being.