Chapter 278: Her Benchmark
Secretary Zhou was stunned for a moment, and then he realized that something was wrong.
"Secretary Mo looks no different from ordinary people, and he doesn't pay attention to ......" Secretary Zhou scratched his head.
"It's rare for you to say something nice." Secretary Liang complimented.
Secretary Zhou felt that this was sarcasm, and he tried to defend himself: "Generally speaking, whoever sees Secretary Mo doesn't think there's anything unusual about her, right?" And Secretary Mo is also very good, at most it will make people feel at some point, 'Ah, isn't this person's EQ a little ......', and in addition, Secretary Mo has no other problems. ”
"After all, it's just emotionless, and it's not anti-social."
Secretary Wang said: "But the colleagues who are more reluctant to Secretary Mo now seem to confuse these two. ”
"This really doesn't look any different in the eyes of ordinary people."
Speaking of this, Secretary Zhou also had a headache, "Someone asked me before if Secretary Mo would do something to others when he was in trouble at work and competing with others...... Could it be that I watched some strange drama? Why do you classify Secretary Mo as such a dangerous one? ”
"Because I don't know."
Secretary Wang said: "If they had understood Secretary Mo, maybe it wouldn't have been like this...... Secretary Mo, what do you think? ”
"Huh?"
Mo Nian was puzzled, "What do you think?" ”
"People misunderstand you because they don't understand you...... Of course, you probably don't care much about these things, in fact, even if other people spread rumors, if you work hard, it won't be good in the end, but ......"
Secretary Wang thought for a while and said, "After all, you don't owe anything to those people, and you have no obligation to be their talking point, which is magnified and misinterpreted." ”
You can't let others hurt you just because you don't care.
It's not a good habit, either for the person who is hurting or for the person being hurt.
When Mo Nian heard this, he thought about it, and did not immediately agree to Secretary Wang.
"Such a reason can't make Secretary Mo tempted."
Secretary Liang said in a profound tone: "Secretary Mo, you see that they are being used by the masterminds behind the scenes, talking nonsense like fools, and it looks quite pitiful, everyone is a colleague, do you want to help them, save them from working together in the future, you are not embarrassed and they are embarrassed, such a bad working atmosphere, you should have a deep understanding of Guye Group, right?" ”
"From someone else's point of view...... Secretary Wang realized the biggest difference between him and Secretary Liang, he was from Mo Nian's point of view, but Secretary Liang was from the point of view of those colleagues.
Will this change the Mo Nian?
"Hmmm......"
Contrary to the silence just now, Mo Nian thought about it seriously, and she said, "What do you need me to do?" ”
"I was really moved by ......!"
Secretary Zhou was dumbfounded, he poked Secretary Wang next to him with his elbow, and said, "I didn't expect you to be trampled under Secretary Liang's feet in terms of emotional intelligence." ”
Secretary Wang: "......" I don't know why there is a sense of frustration in my heart.
"Don't you see it yet?"
Secretary Liang didn't mind this kind of topic in front of Mo Nian at all, she was not the kind of character who was particularly afraid of other people's face, otherwise the matter of diplomacy would not fall on Secretary Zhou's head.
"Secretary Mo is not assertive when it comes to things that are new and unfamiliar to her, most of the time."
Secretary Liang hit the nail on the head and said: "So you let her look at the problem from her point of view, which is tantamount to embarrassing her to do something that she is not good at, but must be responsible for any consequences, in this case, no matter who you are, you will not nod easily, right?" ”
"Ah, that'......"
Secretary Zhou reacted, and he looked at Mo Nian: "Secretary Mo, what ......is the benchmark for how you usually handle things?" ”
"Derived from past experience."
Mo Nian said honestly: "It's not just my own experience, but also the lessons that Linxi and my brother helped me learn. ”
Speaking of which, Secretary Zhou and Secretary Wang already know most of each other.
Although Mo Nian is perfect at work, it is because the work only needs to follow the "rules".
The rules of the job are clearly written in the university course and employee handbook, and if there are any discrepancies, colleagues will inform them in advance.
On the other hand, there is also a set of rules for "human affection" outside of work.
However, this set of rules is very vague, not in the university course, not in the employee handbook, the same rules work well in colleague A, but if you change to colleague B, you may step on the thunder!
As a result, although human affairs can be solved by experience, they also need to be very flexible to get good results.
This is something that seems difficult for ordinary people, and it is naturally avoided for Mo Nian.
Secretary Wang's biggest mistake was to throw the problem to Mo Nian and let Mo Nian figure out human feelings from his own perspective.
Of course, Mo Nian couldn't give an immediate reply.
In contrast, Secretary Liang is much smarter, she starts from the perspective of others, and directly puts the benefits and disadvantages in front of Mo Nian.
In this way, even Mo Nian may rely on those rules of experience in the past to decide whether to do these things or not.
"Secretary Mo."
Secretary Liang said back to the topic, "If you have time after work today, go to the dinner with Secretary Zhou and them, and I will go with you." ”
It's very simple to let others know about Mo Nian, it's just a matter of a meal.
If one meal is not enough, then two.
There are two occasions in the world that can bring people closer together, the first is the dinner table, and the second is the bed.
"I see." Mo Nian nodded.
"If everyone knows that Secretary Mo is a good person, not an imaginary demon or a monster, the rumors will slowly subside." Secretary Wang smiled.
"I hope so." Although Mo Nian didn't care about these things, seeing that the colleagues in the secretary's office were so worried about her, she also hoped that the matter would be resolved as soon as possible.
After chatting about gossip, everyone packed up their preparations.
"Speaking ......"
At this moment, Secretary Zhou suddenly poked his head out from behind the partition, and he looked at Mo Nian with a soft gaze.
For some reason, Mo Nian felt that Secretary Zhou exuded a maternal brilliance.
"Secretary Mo has been so unfamiliar with human relations until today, compared to when you just lost your feelings, there are a lot of inconveniences in life, right?"
When Secretary Zhou thought of this, a miniature version of Mo Nian appeared in his mind, and he looked at a loss when facing all kinds of complicated relationships in the school, "After all, you have summarized your experience now, so you shouldn't have anything at the beginning, right?" ”
“…… Well. ”
Mo Nian didn't expect Secretary Zhou to think of this, she was a little surprised, and quickly returned to normal, "I did make everyone very unhappy at first, but most of the time it was my fault, which caused a lot of trouble to my relatives and classmates at the time." ”
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