Chapter Seventy-Two: About Distant Marriage, Because of Love

September 18, 2015, the sixth day of the eighth lunar month

Think more about every new life that comes to this world because of their parents' deep love for them (her) and their beautiful expectations for the inheritance of life, rather than in the end it all boils down to just an out-and-out accident, and then involves other entanglements of interests, or even using children as bargaining chips to achieve their desired goals.

Today is the day of Wu Xiaoli and Xiao He's wedding, the sun is shining early in the morning, it is a rare sunny day, Lu Yinyin also told Lin Mo Nian that Xiao He must have never eaten chicken head when he was a child, you see that it is not raining, how good the weather is, Lin Mo Nian was depressed for a while, they still have 20 days to hold a wedding, and what weather is not necessarily at that time.

And the reason why Wu Xiaoli and Xiao He's wedding was set in Songcheng and not held in Lanhai City, where Xiao He's family is located, is mainly because of the child in Wu Xiaoli's belly, Xiao He's parents feel sorry for their grandson, and then Wu Xiaoli is less than three months pregnant.

The arrival of this child seems to have changed everything, but Wu Xiaoli had this child without her preparation and knowledge, which also starts from Xiao He's parents' strong opposition to the two of them together, Xiao He showed his attitude at the beginning, Wu Xiaoli is not used to staying in Blue Ocean City, and she left her hometown to stay away from her parents, a girl doesn't want anything, just to be with him, should he also make a little sacrifice.

It was also before this that Wu Xiaoli's parents had already bought her a house in their community, just to stay by her daughter's side in this way, Xiao He meant that he stayed in Songcheng not to say that he would ignore his parents, but that he could make concessions and sacrifice more, and he could run back and forth between the two places, but Wu Xiaoli was married.

Originally, Xiao He's parents were so fiercely opposed, and the sound of questioning and rejection had already exhausted Xiao He's heart, and what kind of feeling was it that the person he loved by his blood relatives kept denying him, how to say that kind of feeling was about to die of pain, but neither of them could give up, since ancient times, loyalty and filial piety were difficult to achieve, Xiao He always felt that he owed Wu Xiaoli a lot, although Wu Xiaoli also visited his parents, but his parents had a cold face throughout the whole process, and they broke up unhappily in the end.

Xiao He wants to give her a wedding, can't let her be with him all the time but never ask for anything, although love can be talked about for a lifetime, but marriage can give people more sense of steadiness, marriage is the sublimation and protection of love, Xiao He wants to watch his beloved girl put on a wedding dress for himself, be his beautiful bride, and want a child of the two of them.

But he also knew that as long as his parents objected one day, Wu Xiaoli would never agree to marry him, but he couldn't keep spending it like this, Xiao He felt that he might be able to afford it, but Wu Xiaoli must not be able to wait, the best age for a girl is only a few years, he can't delay her all the time, but he can't give her a marriage commitment, although a marriage that is recognized and blessed by everyone can be happy for a long time, but Xiao He still can't hold on, he wants to get the marriage certificate with Wu Xiaoli quickly, Give her a warm and romantic wedding again.

So Xiao He, who has never done a bad thing behind Wu Xiaoli's back, still made the most daring decision in his life, and let Wu Xiaoli conceive so successfully without knowing it, originally Wu Xiaoli's menstrual period was a few days late, and she got up in the morning and muttered that she wouldn't win the lottery, why didn't the aunt come, and then Xiao He pretended to be surprised and said, "Then why don't you buy a test strip to test, am I going to be a father soon, I'm so happy." ”

Wu Xiaoli gave him a blank look, he didn't go to his heart at all, he was still thinking about how it was possible to get pregnant, the two have been living together for two years, and the safety measures have always been very good, the two of them have been together for so long, not that they don't want to have a child that belongs to them, but if they have a child, they don't know what the situation will be, so why not talk about a love that will never break up, for Xiao He's parents such a tough opposition attitude, Wu Xiaoli was unexpected, the two broke up peacefully, but I didn't expect Xiao He to regret turning back, But the problems that lie between the two of them have persisted.

Different places, distances, uprooting, away from her parents, and making a desperate bet, there have been several times when Wu Xiaoli is obviously about to compromise, and wants to follow Xiao He to Blue Ocean City to get married and have children, and start a new life in the second half of her life in a city that she is completely unfamiliar with, but all distant marriages must bear the corresponding risks, when she thinks that after going to Blue Ocean City, she will have nothing, no relatives, no friends and no social circle, the only one who has is Xiao He, except for her in-laws and Xiao He, everyone else is a stranger, Not everyone has the courage to marry far away, and not everyone can afford that risk.

There are always many girls who choose to go away for love, how far are you from home at this moment? Whether your parents are looking forward to your return date, and then calculating how much time you have until the next time you meet, there is a saying on the Internet: Sometimes, because of love, you lose your family, and sometimes, because of love, you lose your friendship, if you can, don't marry far away, for your elderly parents, for your playmates since childhood.

Some people say that the girls who marry far away are the children of their parents' losses, and they are the worries that their parents can never let go of in this life, and marrying far away is a big gamble with no way out.

But in the evening, after the two of them came home from work together, Xiao He took out a box of test strips from his pocket like a trick, and walked in the direction of the bathroom. After playing enough, I washed my hands and face and changed my clothes like no one, and then went out of the bathroom.

At this time, Xiao He was still waiting at the door with anticipation, but he saw Wu Xiaoli walking out of it with a mask in a calm manner, Xiao He asked, "Sister Li, what do you mean?" What about test strips? ”

These words made Wu Xiaoli stunned for an instant, and suddenly remembered something, she couldn't help but knot her tongue, and she stammered a little, "Why don't you go in and take a look, I forgot about it, and I still think that you don't cook, and you should be the door god." ”

Xiao He couldn't cry or laugh directly, it seems that the poor memory of pregnant women is absolutely true, but she still doesn't pretend to cooperate with her, and she flashes into the bathroom in great strides, and then there are two bars without surprise, Xiao He himself is 100% sure that Wu Xiaoli is pregnant, but for fear that she will see the flaws, she still jumped out of the door and hugged her very happily and said, "I really want to be a father, my wife marry me, and we will go to get a marriage certificate tomorrow." ”

But after Wu Xiaoli heard this, the mobile phone in her hand fell to the ground with a clang, and she was a little stunned and let Xiao He, who was two heads taller than herself, hold her tightly in her arms, if there are no children, how can the two adults say, if they really can't get together in the future, it's a big deal to get together and disperse, but now suddenly there is an extra child, and everything seems to be no longer able to end, and can only develop in the established direction.

And the most important point, will Xiao He's parents think that she deliberately made herself pregnant, and then used the child as a bargaining chip to coerce them to nod and agree to her marriage with Xiao He, how good can the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and family relationship be in the future, if the child grows up in such a family environment, is it her dereliction of duty.

Wu Xiaoli remembers seeing such a passage: Being a parent is the only position in the world that can be easily obtained without exams, so not every parent will be so competent, just like our exams, some people have excellent grades and some people barely pass, and some people directly hand in blank papers.

As soon as she thought of this, Wu Xiaoli was very anxious for no reason, and pushed Xiao He away without a clue, and blurted out a sentence, "I will go to the hospital tomorrow to beat the child, let's break up, I am responsible for this child, but we will never have results, and we will not be able to give him a complete family ............"

Before he finished speaking, Xiao He's kiss was irritable and hurried, and he was stupid to kiss Wu Xiaoli for a while, and his brain fell into a state of not being able to think normally, until Xiao He bit her lip hard, and said in her ear bewildermently, "I said that you are never allowed to say the word breakup, and whoever wants to say it will voluntarily accept the punishment, but you are now an expectant mother, how can you bear to say such things to our baby's father, rest assured, everything will be handed over to me, and the punishment will be made up after our baby is born." ”

Wu Xiaoli was dumbfounded for a while, and when she thought of the punishment that Xiao He said in her mouth, she couldn't help but turn her whole face red, and the picture couldn't be described in words, all kinds of postures. There are all kinds of tosses, and she really can't get out of bed for three days and three nights, this powerful combat power is a rare madness of Xiao He, who has always been as humble as the breeze and the moon.

But the opposition of Xiao He's parents has always been between the two, Wu Xiaoli tried to argue with him, but Xiao He's kiss swept again, the next day the two went to the hospital for an examination, eight weeks pregnant, the fetus developed well, and then Wu Xiaoli was sent back to her parents, Xiao He rushed back to Lanhai City with the test results non-stop, and told Wu Xiaoli that he was going on a business trip these days, but he actually went back to Lanhai City to negotiate with his parents.