The problem of children going to kindergarten is imperative, and Huang Yuefen does not object, and the problem of children going to kindergarten when they are young immediately said.

"Okay, good, Weicheng, good, you are alone, with children, and work, you will definitely not be busy, after this, with the help of the girl, you can also work with peace of mind, two children, and a mother to take care of, the best of both worlds."

When the two were about to get married after a blind date, Huang Yuefen thought so, after all, there is always someone in the family who needs to sacrifice something for the family, but generally women are the majority, and they are born as women, this is fate.

The mother turned to her son-in-law, but Uncle Guo San turned to the girl, and then preached to Hu Weicheng.

"Weicheng, what your mother said is also right, a family, two people share, work is not tired, but, a family is like a company, you need to work hard to operate, in order to be long-lasting."

Hu Weicheng deeply understands this road, he nodded and responded.

"Third Uncle Guo, you are reasonable."

Seeing that Hu Weicheng was teachable, Uncle Guo took a sip of liquor, pulled Hu Weicheng, and chatted.

"Weicheng, don't look at Uncle Guo San's marriage, but he still understands the truth when he goes south and north, and he has seen a lot of people."

"What about you, is a man, after getting married, you must be career-oriented, this, undeniable, work, make money, pressure, not small, not only to deal with things at work, to make the leadership satisfactory results, but also to deal with the sophistication of human feelings, after all, society, not a school, no brotherhood, no elders and younger generations, everyone is here for the benefit, to achieve the goal, unscrupulous means, so, men are bitter, just suffer here, like a machine, non-stop running, just to earn a penny more, let the wife and children, eat well, live well, Everyone understands this. ”

"But, Weicheng, speaking of which, I have to say, although you work, you make money, you get a promotion and a salary increase, and people are sophisticated, and you are pressed and breathless, but, you have survived, that is, you can see the sky through the clouds and mist, and you can see the moon when the clouds are open, and you get more than you imagined."

"For example, on the surface, the career is booming, the promotion and salary increase, the treatment is constantly improving, secretly, the harvest, that is more, for example, work experience, professional knowledge, knowledge growth, network expansion, smooth behavior for people, etc., you don't need to give examples one by one, you should also understand that these are the most valuable wealth in life, more valuable than storing gold at home, and even, in this life, can be used."

"Of course, there are also some people who have been busy all their lives, and as a result, in the end, the bamboo basket is empty, the career is not smooth, the family is broken, and finally they give up on themselves, self-pity and self-pity, for a lifetime, that's all."

"But, you have to understand that men work hard for their careers after all, and your wife, in fact, can't get any benefits from you, and even, most husbands and wives can share hardships and hardships, but they can't share joys and sorrows, and most of them, when they are rich, divorce has also become a social phenomenon."

"But, Weicheng, Uncle Guo is very good at reading people, you shine in the hall, and in the future, you will definitely make a difference, so you understand that work is important, and family is also important."

"Of course, life can't be smooth sailing, you will always encounter some ups and downs in life, but, man, a temporary failure, does not mean that you will lose for a lifetime, but because of this failure, your life is at a low point, so you lose your temper with your wife and children, which is not done by a husband."

"It's like, you are outside, you were bullied by a strong man, as a result, you can't beat others, and then, holding your breath, go home and lose your temper at your wife and children, what is this called, bullying the soft and afraid of the hard, you can't beat the ruthless, you can only fight the weak, but, this is not right, home, is the last harbor, the destination of love, not the place where you go wild, you really want to go wild, you can, the gentleman takes revenge, ten years is not over, hold that breath, how did others beat you down in the first place, you just beat him in this way, he has no power to fight back, like this, It's a hundred times more relieving than when you lose your temper at your wife and children at home. ”

Since ancient times, men have fought duels with men and disputes with the outside world without involving family members, women, or children.

"Third Uncle Guo, I understand."

Uncle Guo San nodded, very pleased, said Weicheng, and then talked about the girl, he pointed to the girl, and said with a heartfelt mouth.

"Girl, what about Third Uncle Guo, I have always disapproved of you becoming a strong woman like your mother, because, you have also seen it, too tired, completely, treat yourself as an iron man, but, even if it is an iron man, there are times when it rusts and becomes scrap copper and rotten iron."

Huang Yuefen, who was sitting on the side, quit.

"Okay, Lao Guo, you are, saying that I'm old in disguise."

Third Uncle Guo shook his head and denied it.

"Yuefen, you want to be crooked, I feel distressed, and I feel sorry for the girl, don't you, you also want the girl to be like you, she has worked hard all her life, and she hasn't lived a good life."

Huang Yuefen sighed leisurely, and without saying anything, Uncle Guo San stretched out his hand and took her in his arms.

"Yuefen, with me in the future, you don't have to be so tired, if there is anything you don't want to do, just call me, I feel sorry for you, so you have to make up for the blessings you haven't enjoyed in half your life."

The daughter and son-in-law were present, Huang Yuefen was a little embarrassed, and directly pushed away Uncle Guo with a red face.

"It's not serious, but the child is still there."

Speaking of this, Uncle Guo couldn't help but educate Comrade Huang Yuefen.

"Yuefen, you don't understand, parents love each other, so they can set a good example for their children."

This is indeed the principle.

"I'm too lazy to take care of you."

Huang Yuefen couldn't say that Uncle Guo San, so she muttered, and then began to sit on the side again and ate the dishes.

"Hey, I just said there, it's all your mother's fault, muddy, girl, I'll continue, don't dislike it, Uncle Guo is chattering."

Xia Xiaoyu smiled, she didn't care at all, she really liked Uncle Guo to tell her this, after all, if her father was still there, then it should be the same, sit on the upper seat and tell her these truths.

"Girl, in fact, Uncle Guo does not approve of you being a housewife after marriage, because, a woman, with a career and a family, has a sense of happiness, but now, the two children are still young and need to be taken care of.

Compared with what her mother said, for the sake of the family, give everything, Uncle Guo San's statement, Xia Xiaoyu prefers to listen to it.

"Perhaps, you are a new wife, you are a mother, very uncomfortable, like other housewives, all day around the husband and children's kitchen, like a bird in a cage, busy with housework all day long, Weicheng is busy with work, may most of the time, can not accompany you, and the two children are still young, you don't know, how to get along with them peacefully and get a lot of trouble, high-rise buildings, closed doors, neighbors don't know anyone, and because of this, you may be lonely, anxious, even, depression, self-abandonment, Don't have hope in life. ”

Yes, these phenomena are reflected in most women, and even, some women, can't stand it, have depression, and even worse, extremes, jump off the building to commit suicide, and there is no peace after death, and the world even blames, saying that women have been like this all their lives, it belongs to these hypocrisy, ignoring children, selfish suicide, but, who understands that a woman's despair in the family, such as people drinking water and knowing themselves, these, Uncle Guo has also seen a lot and heard a lot, but he doesn't want the girl to also embark on this road.