"Girl, Uncle Guo said these words, not to tell you how miserable the housewife is, not to scare you, not to let you retreat, but to tell you that if the above symptoms appear, Weicheng doesn't understand you, and your mother doesn't understand you, it doesn't matter, you come to Uncle Guo, I may not be able to empathize, and I can't fully understand you, but I accompany you to nag, if, you still can't let go, it still makes you feel anxious, overwhelmed, okay, you let go of everything, I don't care about other people's opinions, Uncle Guo takes you, go out to walk the road I once walked, Look at the beautiful scenery outside, look at the kind and lovely friends I have met, this is Uncle Guo's promise to you, the validity period, during my life, after all, I am dead, and it is impossible to lift the coffin board and jump out, I am afraid, I will scare you when the time comes. ”

was obviously sensational, but in the end, it successfully teased Xia Xiaoyu, she nodded and replied.

"Third Uncle Guo, I remember."

If my father is alive, it will be like this, life and life are born and lived, no matter how bumpy the road ahead is, you can only walk alone, after all, no one can help anyone go on, and Guo Sanshu, as an elder, her stepfather, the only thing he can do is to silently accompany her to go down, in times of danger, to help, in the moment of life and death, to carry each other's lives, of course, the latter are also Xia Xiaoyu's later, what he saw with his own eyes and experienced it himself, only to know that his father is great, that is to be born with his body, and his stepfather's greatness is to love the house and Wu.

After saying the girl, Uncle Guo turned his spearhead and pointed at Hu Weicheng again.

"Weicheng, speaking of which, I have to say a few words to you, don't look at housework, it's three meals a day, cleaning and laundry, but if you really do it, it's all small and inconspicuous, tiring and very tired, like a robot, never stopping, not less stressful than you, and taking care of children, that's fine work, patient work, not to mention the great sense of responsibility, as well as education, care, etc., you go out to inquire and know, just ask a sister-in-law and nanny for a month, the minimum wage is seven or eight thousand, not including food, accommodation and other expenses, but the wife is different, Don't want money, but also work hard, give 100% care, so you don't feel that you work hard, but feel that your wife is a burden, spend your money, live in your room, and even, after the destruction of time, the wife is old and yellow, just want to change to a young and beautiful girl, and come to spring again. ”

Obviously it is very reasonable, Uncle Guo San insisted on saying the feeling of cross talk, Huang Yuefen nodded, very much agreed with his words, Xia Xiaoyu looked confused, she has not fully entered the role in marriage, and Hu Weicheng is also listening carefully, feeling that what he said is reasonable.

"Today, Uncle Guo said these words, and he didn't mean anything else, that is, as an elder, he will talk about the ups and downs of marriage and the roles played by two people in marriage, just let the two of you listen to each other, I hope you understand that in marriage, the problems and situations that men and women will face, no one is easier than the other, so in order to have a long-lasting marriage, we need to be considerate of each other, understand each other, and care for each other."

"Of course, all of this is based on feelings, I heard that the girl and Weicheng met on a blind date, and then under the urging of the girl's mother, they quickly got married, and they didn't even understand, so they had to live face-to-face every day, so to speak, between you, there is basically no emotion, for people who don't have a good feeling, let alone mutual understanding, they are bored to watch, this, I want to criticize Yuefen, you are forcing your daughter to marry, not letting her find her own happiness, marriage is a big event, how can it be child's play."

Huang Yuefen also realized this mistake, and then nodded, looked at her daughter and son-in-law, and regretted not being at the beginning.

"Lao Guo is right, it's all mothers, old fools, so I can do this, so, daughter and son-in-law, although I don't want you to forgive, I still hope that you can live well."

Uncle Guo continued to answer.

"Things have happened, in the pursuit of right and wrong, to no avail, I think, Wei Cheng is very good, girl, you can try to understand, get along, and Wei Cheng, don't look at the girl, stupid, but she is a piece of jade, good jade, people who understand her, only know her good."

Hu Weicheng and Xia Xiaoyu glanced at each other, indeed, there is no feeling in the eyes of a lover, and after identification, there is indeed no emotion.

"Love and marriage, complement each other, with a love of marriage, can be more perfect, no love of marriage, that is the continuation of responsibility, but, feelings, can be acquired management, for example, Wei Cheng, as your husband, go home from work, if you are free, help the girl do housework together, with children, not only can improve the interest of husband and wife, but also enhance the relationship between the two, and the girl, see Wei Cheng come back, just pour him a cup of tea, say some intimate words, the relationship between the two people, will be invisible, deeper and deeper, after all, love and marriage, It's not a TV series, it's vigorous, and most people are bland, but it's rare to find warm and small happiness in the bland. ”

Speaking of love, Uncle Guo immediately remembered that the girl had a boy who had been in love for more than ten years, and in the end they didn't come together, and there were many factors that didn't go together, but, as a person who came over, understood that if a man doesn't love you, there are thousands of reasons, a man, if he really loves you, then even if he is a mountain of swords and a sea of fire, he is very sure, that boy, although he loves the girl, but there are impurities in love, this impurity, it can be said that he feels that the girl is not good enough, he can find a better one, but he just hasn't encountered it for the time being, It can also be said that this impurity is that he doesn't know whether he loves the girl or not...... This hesitation dragged things out to the point where they are now.

So here, he wants to give Xia Xiaoyu a good talk about what love is.

"Girl, here, I will focus on telling you what love is, this love, not only in words, but also in my heart, and finally take action."

"To use an analogy, for example, today, we moved a handsome guy in Kaiyang District, and when I saw you for the first time, I said I love you, do you think, is this love?"

Xia Xiaoyu shook his head.

"I'd think he's playing hooligan."

Everyone is an adult, and Uncle Guo is not taboo and tells him bluntly.

"The girl is right, this kind of person is a hooligan, this kind of person who comes up and says he loves you, he has bad intentions, he just wants to play with you, what kind of love, it can't be taken seriously."

"In an analogy, we Kaiyang District, a handsome guy moved in, see you for the second time, he said to you, you are very beautiful, impressed by you, he remembers, you eat buns on the road in the morning cute appearance, he remembers that you passed by the commissary three times, he remembers that you carried a heavy bucket of water past him, girl, such a person, do you think, he loves you?"

Xia Xiaoyu replied without thinking.

"I don't love it, he has me in his eyes, and even, remember with my heart, what I have eaten, I have appeared a few times, but, I think he is blind, and he can't see me carrying a bucket of heavy water, passing by him, according to common sense, at this moment, shouldn't he help me carry it?"

In the end, she couldn't cry or laugh, this kind of person actually missed such a good opportunity to talk to her, and she was alone.

"Yes, girl, this kind of person, just has you in his eyes, but you are suffering and tired, he can't see it, he can't understand it, although there is love, but it doesn't last long, and he flies separately when the disaster comes."