The difference between the words and the meaning of the expression is very different.

After all, here, noisy, with a derogatory meaning, mostly describes the child's nonsense, disobedient, and filial piety, this is a traditional virtue, praise also, and say that your child has a good character.

Therefore, as a parent, in order to set an example for your child, you need to be cautious in the choice of words, because this is likely to affect the child's words and deeds and personality characteristics in the future.

Xia Xiaoyu has not paid attention to this aspect of the problem, and today, Aunt Mo reminded him that he suddenly realized.

Seeing that it was Mo Lotus coming, Huang Yuefen sighed for a while, "Sister paper, this, let you run, what's so embarrassing." ”

Mo Hehua, who was very arrogant, didn't think so, "Sister-in-law, we are all a family, we should come, besides, if I don't come, I'm afraid you're not driving your grandchildren out of the ward." ”

It's too late for the child to be happy, how can she rush, just worried, thinking of this, Huang Yuefen sighed lightly, "Hey, it's not that I'm afraid of the child, being infected by infectious diseases, recruiting guilt, sister paper, Zhao Xi's granddaughter, visiting her grandfather, is it really because the child ate dirty things?" ”

Seeing that her sister-in-law was not at ease, Mo Hehua took the trouble to reassure her, "Sister-in-law, how could I have lied to you." ”

Anyone who knows Mo Lotus knows that she has an upright personality and never deceives people, Huang Yuefen is also sick and rushed to the doctor, losing her square inch, probably because she is old, she nodded and responded, "Yes, I know your temperament, and I hate this kind of trick the most." ”

The two chatted so little, ignoring the three children, Mo Hehua hurriedly reminded them, "Sister-in-law, let's not chat, the three children came to visit you on purpose, and you can't bear to let them stand aside with their eyes, how sad it is for the children." ”

Yes, the child came to see her, but she behaved like this, it really hurt the child's heart, she said, "Sister paper reminds me that I am old and confused, God bless, Tianxin, Coke, you come here." ”

Under the call of Huang Yuefen's kind face, Super Coke, a child who was not afraid of giving birth, was the first to run to the bedside, and asked him with a burning and adoring gaze in his eyes, "Big hero godmother, did you really save Tianyou and Tianxin at a critical moment?" ”

This big hero godmother, amused everyone present, the world of children is really simple.

The three words of big hero, Huang Yuefen thinks that she can't afford it, she explained, "Coke, my godmother is not a big hero, my godmother saves God and bless Tianxin because they are my grandson and granddaughter." ”

For Super Coke, saving people is a big hero, no matter what the reason is, after all, some even if they are blood relatives, they will not give their lives to save each other, so he insisted on his opinion, "Grandma, you save people, that is a big hero." ”

Reasoning with the child will never make sense, Huang Yuefen replied helplessly, "You said yes, that's it." ”

To get his own answer, Super Coke was about to fly happily, and then happily shouted to Hu Tianyou Hu Tianxin, "God, sister, we all have a big hero grandmother, so happy." ”

Huang Yuefen smiled helplessly at the child, "This child." ”

The grandmother of the big hero, in the hearts of the children, is really the big hero, not a compliment, and because of this, it leads them to respect.

No, Hu Tianyou took his sister's hand and walked to the bedside, he looked at this grandmother, and couldn't help but recall in his mind that on the day of the car accident, she struggled to save them, that scene was very shocking, and hit his heart, so that it was engraved into his bones and unforgettable for life.

"Grandma."

The two words that were awkward blurted out, he shouted sincerely, and shouted jerky, because he rarely shouted the word grandmother.

"Huh."

Huang Yuefen hurriedly responded, for fear that if she was one step slower, she would let the child think more about it.

"Grandma."

Hu Tianxin's bell-like laughter also sounded.

"Huh."

Huang Yuefen also hurriedly responded, she treats every child sincerely.

Three children, one lively and cute, one introverted and stubborn, and one amiable, each with their own characteristics, are all rare good children.

Suddenly, she found that something was wrong, Hu Tianyou's eyes were red, as if she had cried, and suddenly, she was anxious, why would she cry if she was a good child?

She stretched out her hand, took Tianyou's little hands, and asked in a kind voice, "Tianyou, my grandson, your eyes are red, have you ever cried?" ”

As if some secret had been discovered, Hu Tianyou was a little shy, and hurriedly lowered his head and didn't speak, but his two little ears suddenly turned red.

The habit of keeping things in the heart of children actually affects physical and mental health, and as elders, we should enlighten and let children express themselves.

Therefore, Huang Yuefen was patient and asked, "God bless, come, tell grandma, is it okay if someone bullied you, you tell grandma, grandma asked your grandfather to teach the person who bullied you, okay?" ”

For Hu Tianyou not to speak, the super cola standing on the side finally couldn't stand it, he was anxious, and hurriedly interjected, "Godgrandma, godmother, I know why Tianyou is crying, I'll tell you quietly, okay?" ”

Seeing that Hu Tianyou didn't speak, and he didn't object to Super Coke's behavior, after acquiescing, Huang Yuefen nodded and responded, "Okay." ”

Positive Super Coke climbed onto the hospital bed with his hands and feet, and then, attached to Huang Yuefen's ear, whispered, "Godgrandma, I secretly told you that we were fighting in the kindergarten and were known by the godmother, but I was afraid that Tianyou and Tianxin would be beaten by the godmother, so I lied to the godmother, saying that I beat other children alone, but the godmother didn't believe it and kept questioning Tianyou, and as a result, he cried." ”

The child was only a few years old, and he was fighting in kindergarten.

Huang Yuefen asked worriedly, "How many of you are fighting, what is it, are you injured, have you seen a doctor?" ”

Every child has a fearless spirit, that is, in the legend, the sky is not afraid of the earth, and he doesn't understand it at all, and when he is injured, he doesn't, Super Coke also said proudly, "Grandma, we are very powerful, we injured each other, but we were not injured ourselves." ”

Seeing this, Huang Yuefen was also very helpless, she said to them earnestly, "Silly child, do you know that if you are injured because of a fight, you will be like your grandmother, lying in the hospital, taking injections and infusions every day, and taking very bitter and bitter medicines, which is painful and uncomfortable, and you have to listen to the doctor's words, you can't go out to play, you have to rest, you can't even watch TV and mobile phones." ”

Super Coke: "But, godmother, we are not injured, so we will not be like your old man." ”

Hearing this, everyone present said that they couldn't cry or laugh.

Huang Yuefen: "Then, what if you fight next time and get injured?" ”

Super Coke: "But I'm very powerful, I know martial arts, and I won't get hurt." ”

Children's world is very naïve, and it is better to actually experience it once than to tell more truths, then they can understand the truth.

Huang Yuefen: "People are small and big! ”

Super Coke: "Grandma, don't underestimate me, I'm amazing, speaking of which, he also waved his little fist." ”

In this regard, Xia Xiaoyu understood that the teaching of children is a long way, and if you want to be fast, you can't reach it, today, you should instill the idea that fighting is wrong, tomorrow, and then continue to instill the relevant knowledge of fighting is not right, tomorrow and tomorrow, so that children can correctly understand and fight.