The year 2001 has come at some point.

No one specifically mentioned that the school put the New Year's Day together with the weekend, and the third grade of high school would shorten the only two days of vacation to one day, so that when Tang Mingyao came back to his senses, the New Year's Day had already passed for several days.

The class teacher informed the class: the end of the third grade of high school will be held until the 26th of the lunar month, and only three days in advance of the Spring Festival holiday.

Tang Mingyao counted it with his fingers, in fact, it was not long, and he was only about ten days away from the holiday.

I remember that the year 2000 has passed, and it is time for me to summarize the past year.

In the first half of the year, mainly for winning awards for new concepts, she made some limelight, and then finished writing "Martial Arts Supreme", and determined the direction of learning in the future, and also helped Luo Wenxi solve some of her problems.

In the second half of the year, there were a lot of things to do, mainly focusing on several aspects: completing the daily reading and writing tasks, completing the studies that should be completed at this stage, writing "The Vast Immortal Road", managing the chain store by the way, initially learning psychology, and ...... A hammer in the east and a stick in the west, looking for someone to practice psychological techniques.

When I first studied psychology, it was actually a bit embarrassing.

Because there are relatively few people who study science, they only immerse themselves in studying, you don't even know what level you are, and it is a common problem for people to find someone to practice after learning some skills, and Tang Mingyao is not exempt from vulgarity, so there is a situation at this stage, which is a bit chaotic, and even leads to some incidents, such as Bai Jing's matter.

At this time, looking back and summarizing, Tang Mingyao suddenly found that why did he use the word "a hammer in the east and a stick in the west"?

He suddenly broke away from a certain state, only to find that he had been a little out of rhythm and anxious.

Calm down and think carefully, "Why should I be in a hurry?"

After all, it is not difficult for him to be reborn, and it is normal to skip a grade after learning, but he has not been exposed to psychology in his previous life, why do you always want to find someone to practice when the technology is not proficient?

Shouldn't we concentrate on the technology and wait until the technology is mature before taking it out and using it?

Thinking about it like this, he couldn't help but remember what his senior sister He Ning had said to him: Why are you anxious...... I trust my instincts...... You just have death anxiety......

After some pondering, Tang Mingyao took some time to go to the bookstore, preparing to find a book about death anxiety, and first understand it by himself.

However, when I arrived at the bookstore, I rummaged through the entire shelf, and even found my own "Martial Arts Supreme", but I didn't find the book I was looking for.

He couldn't help but feel a little helpless, China is really empty in psychology, and he can't find any related books on such a big topic as death anxiety.

As a last resort, he had to go back to the Internet and find someone to recommend.

Teacher Xiao Yu was basically not online at work, he waited for two days, and only waited for He Ning to go online.

He Ning said: "Do you want to read domestic books on this subject? Let me tell you, basically not, not even abroad, because the research on this subject has only been around 30 years since the rise of the West. Let me tell you a few of the more famous ones. ”

"The Man Who Faced Death, written in 1977 by the French historian and sociologist Philippe Ariyes, a seminal work on the study of death......

"Existential Psychotherapy by Irving Yaron, the author is a master of international psychiatry. Although this book is not specifically about death, the author explains the four ultimate problems of life in the book, and death is one of them, you can see the explanation of death in it......"

"By the way, there is one in China, but you may not be able to buy it in bookstores, so you have to go to a bigger library to find it. The title of the book is "The Philosophy of Death", written by a professor at Wuhan University, and it has been published for nearly ten years, and it is the first book in China that specializes in death......"

Tang Mingyao asked: "Senior sister, I can't buy these books you said here, can you please buy them for me in the capital?"

He Ning: "What do you think, you can't buy it in the capital!" The first two books don't have a Chinese edition at all, and I only have the original English version, or I asked someone to buy it from abroad...... Forget it, I'll send it to you for a look, the deadline is half a year. At the beginning of the next semester, you bring me to the school, and you must not break it, otherwise I will not spare you. ”

Tang Mingyao said, "Thank you, senior sister."

After a while, He Ning replied: "Okay, I'll find the book, I'll send it to you in a while, and you can send me an address."

Tang Mingyao sent the address.

At this time, He Ning asked: "How did you think of reading books in this area, don't you feel that you don't have death anxiety?"

Tang Mingyao: "I didn't feel it before, but today, I was doing last year's year-end summary, and suddenly I found that my rhythm was wrong, so I remembered what you said, so I wanted to find a book on this subject and have a deeper understanding."

"What else?"

"Actually, I have carefully observed myself, not long ago one of my father's comrades-in-arms was terminally ill, and after I went to see it, he has been sleeping badly, and I suspect that it is affected by this incident......"

"You're amazing, you can find your own problems."

Tang Mingyao said: "What did you say, what is the purpose of studying psychology? In addition to liking, the first priority is to save myself, and I'm doing this right now. ”

"Come on, look after you! I don't have that copy of "The Philosophy of Death" here, you have to find it yourself, and I can't send it to you if I borrow it from the school library, and there is a deadline for returning. ”

Tang Mingyao said: "I will find it myself, my senior sister has helped a lot, and I am already very grateful."

He Ning asked again: "In addition to reading, have you ever thought about how to solve your own problems?"

"If you don't understand, you can't crack it."

He Ning said: "Teach you a method: you take out a paper and pen, write down the points of your heart and anxiety, one by one, write down a little more casually, don't care about the surface of sentences, grammar, and literal neatness, write what you think, and don't try to convince yourself that this idea is wrong, that idea is too disgusting...... In short, you just have to record your thoughts completely faithfully......"

"If you don't know how to start, just write about anything, like the weather, lunch, mood...... Even if you see a dog, you can start writing from it. It can be a little difficult at first, but once you get into the state, you'll find a different realm. ”

Tang Mingyao: "Okay, I'll try."

"Na, when you come to the university, you will know, there are many tips in psychology, you can't see it in books, and you will progress faster by communicating with your peers."