Chapter 207: The Nature of Anger
Back in class, a few minutes late.
Most of the teachers in the graduating class are still very kind, and they will not go online because of such a trivial matter as being late, Tang Mingyao shouted a report and went in.
This class is Mr. Wang's class, and he is talking about exams.
Tang Mingyao didn't hear the first half, and asked He Qiu.
He Qiu said: "It's December, and there will be a medical exam at the end of the month, so Mr. Wang asked everyone to cheer up and get ready. ”
Tang Ming nodded knowingly.
In the third year of high school, according to the usual practice, there will generally be three more formal examinations, which are organized by the whole city, usually called the first diagnosis, the second diagnosis, and the third diagnosis...... It means to diagnose your level and feel your pulse first, so that when you arrive at the college entrance examination room, you will know it in your heart.
One of the consultations is at the end of December, around Christmas; The second consultation will be held in mid to late March of the following year; The third consultation is usually arranged one month before the college entrance examination.
Now that the time has entered December, it is winter, and everyone is preparing for the first medical exam.
Tang Mingyao himself has nothing to prepare for, he is reviewing every day to prepare for the exam, and now he has reviewed most of the courses of the three years of high school.
After a few classes and lunch, Tang Mingyao pinched the time and went to the office building to find Teacher Tao.
At that moment in the morning, he could see that Mr. Tao had probably been away from school for too long and had already returned the knowledge in the books to his teacher, or he hadn't learned much when he was in college, so when Tang Mingyao asked those questions, he pondered for a while, and he didn't understand the content for a while.
So he took Tang Mingyao away on the pretext of going to class, and slowly pondered it by himself.
When he thinks about it, he will teach it to the student so that he will not lose face.
Tang Mingyao was clear in his heart, but he didn't show it, but pretended not to understand and gave the teacher full respect.
When he walked into the office building, he thought to himself: "Half a morning, is it enough for Mr. Tao to study?" Anyway, it's also a college textbook, and a bunch of mathematical methods. ”
When I got to the front of the office, I found the door closed.
Knocked for a while, no one.
The time has passed half past twelve, this Mr. Tao, said that the time is good, why is no one there? Could it be that the meal is delayed? Or temporary diarrhea?
Or is it ......
He didn't understand those knowledge points in the morning, and ran away directly!!
Tang Mingyao was a little speechless, feeling that Mr. Tao didn't seem to be so reliable. But he couldn't leave like this, he looked at the corridor and found that there was a bench in the corner, so he went over and sat down on the chair and waited silently for Mr. Tao to come back.
This office building is not bad, it is quite well thought out.
After waiting for a while, Mr. Tao didn't wait, but saw a stranger appear at the door of the psychological counseling office.
It's a girl in a school uniform.
Sixteen or seventeen years old, combing the hair of her sister, who is very popular nowadays, but unfortunately she looks very frizzy when she walks, which does not match her hairstyle.
She banged on the door of the office a few times, but she didn't respond, she raised her foot to kick, but she held back.
She turned around and wanted to leave, walked to the staircase, turned around and hesitated, and saw the bench in the corner of the corridor, so she walked over and sat down next to Tang Mingyao.
Tang Mingyao glanced sideways at the girl.
Her eyes were big, her face was full of anger, and her expression seemed to be brewing a volcanic eruption, thinking of her slamming the door just now, Tang Mingyao thought to herself: "Could it be the female student who was abandoned by Teacher Tao from the beginning?" ”
Hey, that's a big possibility.
Mr. Tao abandoned the female student, afraid of being found, so he released his pigeon at the appointed time.
Logical self-consistency, perfect!
Detective Don is coming soon.
Just as he thought he had a plan, the girl next to him noticed his gaze, glared at him and said, "What do you see, I haven't seen a beautiful woman!" ”
Tang Mingyao turned his head and didn't speak, this girl is a powder keg now, he can blow people up no matter what he says, he doesn't want to quarrel with a person who is angry.
"What are you going to do! Why don't you speak? Are you not weak-hearted! ”
Tang Mingyao was helpless.
He stood up and prepared to leave, anyway, Mr. Tao probably wouldn't be able to come back at noon, so there was no point in staying here and waiting.
However, the girl stood up with a snort and blocked his way: "Don't go!" Tell me clearly, what do you mean by me? You don't speak, you still want to run, do you despise me in your heart! ”
Tang Mingyao wanted to say, "Yes." ”
His mind turned, and suddenly he stopped leaving, sat down in a chair, looked into the girl's eyes and said, "You know what? There are two kinds of angry people, one likes to be angry with others, and the other likes to be angry with themselves, but in the final analysis, they are all angry with themselves. Mechanically speaking, when someone else does something that is not what someone wants, that person will get angry, because she thinks she can control everything, but in fact she can't do it at all, so she will use internal attribution or external attribution, and vent her anger at herself or someone else......"
The girl was dizzy and exclaimed, "What nonsense!! ”
Tang Mingyao smiled and said, "It means that I looked at you twice because your behavior just now caught my attention, but I don't think you are wrong in this matter." You took your temper out on me, and you were the one who was wrong. ”
"Shit! The look in your eyes just now is obviously despising me! ”
"The word despised, it's made up in your head. You use what you imagine, get angry with yourself, and then take your temper out on me, so it's you who is at fault. ”
The girl is crazy and wants to rush up and bite.
But after she howled on the spot, she held back, stamped her foot irritably, and sat down in a chair with her head in her hands, without saying a word.
Tang Mingyao didn't leave, and sat next to her and secretly observed her reaction.
This is the material, which is usually rare to see, so it's a pity not to see it.
After a while, the girl calmed down a bit, and said with a sullen head: "Slut! ”
Tang Mingyao thought he had misheard and asked, "What slut?" Are you scolding me? ”
"I'm not scolding you, I'm scolding a slut. Knowing that I like Zhao Hao, she also wrote him a love letter, slut! ”
Tang Mingyao understood.
Silent analysis: There is another girl who wrote a love letter to Zhao Hao, the girl's crush, she felt that the girl wrote a letter to Zhao Hao on the premise of knowing that she also liked Zhao Hao, regardless of the friendship between the girls, or shameless, so she was very angry.
But in essence, she was angry at her incompetence and failure to control the situation.
Therefore, the essence of being angry is to be angry with yourself, and what you said before was not wrong.
"Hey, why don't you speak?"
Tang Mingyao: "I'm analyzing why you're angry. ”
"You're bored."
"Yes, I'm just so boring, so you don't have to pay attention to me, just treat me as a transparent person, and don't get angry with me."
"No, I want to talk to someone right now. Tell me what you've analyzed, and I want to hear what other people think of me. ”
So Tang Mingyao said his analysis.
The girl was silent for a while and said: "You're right, I'm just angry that I don't have the ability and courage to see that girl writing love letters, and I don't dare to stop it, and I don't dare to confess to others." ”
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