"Senior sister, you haven't said anything about me yet?"

"It's your turn soon, do you know what you look like in my eyes?"

Tang Mingyao said honestly: "I don't know."

He Ning said: "Actually, after I came back from Shuanghu Middle School last time, I went to inquire about your experience, and there were a lot of newspapers and magazines, and it didn't take much effort to find out. Combined with what you said yourself, I found that you have turned yourself into a study maniac with your study plan - your daily learning intensity is much stronger than that of ordinary people. ”

"This is a good thing, the more you learn, the faster you grow, life is short, if you don't hurry up to learn, you haven't learned so much knowledge, isn't it a pity?"

"Yes, people should really take the time to study, so you become a time chaser? You have completed the junior high school course in one year and the high school course in two years, you are in such a hurry, there is so much knowledge in this world, and the achievements of human civilization for thousands of years, can you finish learning? ”

Tang Mingyao said: "I can't finish learning, but the more I learn, the happier I am, and I enjoy the joy of learning."

He Ning solemnly replied: "Let me tell you about a common phenomenon." Most people who feel that they don't have enough time have death anxiety. They often feel that life is too short, that they still have too much to do, and that if they die, there is nothing left. So we have to hurry up and do everything we can. ”

Then she posted another paragraph: "The joy of learning in your eyes is to squeeze your time so tightly that you don't even give yourself a chance to breathe?" On the surface you are chasing knowledge, in reality, you are just fearing death. ”

Tang Mingyao: "......"

Death anxiety? Is there such a thing?

He frowned and thought about it, what he showed to the outside was indeed an image of chasing time.

The teenager became famous, a positive model, helped the family to open the company, and did not fall behind in all aspects of economy, study, writing, and love, and the time was full every day. But the reason he was able to do these things to this extent was because he had a secret that he couldn't tell anyone, and that was being born again.

With this plug-in on his body, he is much stronger than his peers in all aspects, and if he slowly follows others to learn synchronously, isn't it a waste of time?

He said to He Ning: "Senior sister, I don't think your judgment is right, I am chasing time and learning more knowledge because I have this ability." I learn faster than the average person, and I learn for a few days a day. If I don't skip a grade and learn more new knowledge, then what can I do? ”

He Ning: "A day of study can top others for a few days, in other words, you have a lot more free time than others, according to common sense, shouldn't you have more time to enjoy life?" Why is your time so full that there is little room for rest? It's contradictory. ”

Tang Mingyao: "...... It's just that I don't have enough security in my heart, and I want to have more knowledge to arm myself. Senior sister, I don't think I have death anxiety, and your inference can't convince me. ”

He Ning: "Unwilling to admit or face their own problems is a common problem for most people. …… Well, I'm not trying to force you to admit your problems, let's sort of sort of be an academic discussion between peers, the tone is a bit aggressive, don't mind. ”

Tang Mingyao said: "I like this kind of discussion very much, I won't take it to heart, senior sister don't worry."

He Ning finally said: "But I still have to say that I trust my intuition, and your reasons can't convince me either."

Closing the chat window, Tang Mingyao pondered alone.

The direction of death anxiety was something he hadn't thought of before, and when Senior Sister mentioned it just now, he had a feeling of surprise.

But after sinking down and thinking about it for a while, I felt that my state was more due to the factors brought about by rebirth. The senior sister didn't know this secret, so the basis for her judgment was wrong, and it was understandable that she came to the wrong conclusion later.

Putting this question aside, he pulled out a book from the bookshelf and read it, which was a university psychology textbook "Research Methods in Psychology and Education" published in 1992.

He had already read books such as "General Psychology", "History and System of Western Psychology", "Developmental Psychology", etc., this book was his first contact with the research of psychology and education.

After a general glance at the table of contents, I found that this book is completely different from the previous books with a popular science nature.

This is a book about methods, and it is about how to use rigorous scientific methods to study psychology and educational research.

After watching it for a while, Tang Mingyao found that it was full of a large number of professional words, such as data collection, questionnaires and tests, experimental research, results and qualitative analysis, etc., and he felt that it really made sense to classify psychology as a science subject.

These research methods do not seem to be fundamentally different from doing chemical experiments.

This book is a bit difficult to chew, Tang Mingyao is not as easy to read as other books, he read two chapters that day, and read most of the book in the next few days, and found that there are some things in it that are really difficult to understand, such as the specific use of statistical analysis and multivariate analysis and other methods, which is the category of mathematics, which is a bit beyond his current knowledge.

Tang Mingyao picked up the pen, wrote down these contents, and prepared to find someone for help.

The best person to ask for help is He Ning, but unfortunately the time my sister has been online is completely uncertain, and sometimes I can't see it once every two months.

So he turned to another person who was closer to him, that is, Teacher Tao from the school's psychological counseling office.

Before, Mr. Tao was idle during working hours, there was nothing to do, and he even took a month's long vacation to go home to rest when school started.

Just do it, the next day Tang Mingyao took the book to school, and when it was time for the morning recess, he went to the office building and knocked on the office door.

"It's you, why are you here?"

Mr. Tao was a little surprised to see him.

Tang Mingyao said: "Mr. Tao, I have been reading the book "Research Methods of Psychology and Education" recently, which is a university textbook, and there are some things in it that I don't understand very well, so I want to ask you for advice."

Teacher Tao said happily: "Okay, bring me the book to see, what you don't understand."

Tang Mingyao turned to those more difficult chapters and said: "Here, and here, the basic statistical analysis and multivariate analysis of qualitative analysis and theorem analysis, how should these be used?"

Teacher Tao was full of confidence: "Is that all?" It's simple, you wait for me to take a look at it first, and I'll tell you about it right away! ”

As he spoke, he took the book and read it carefully.

After two minutes, Mr. Tao began to frown......

After another two minutes, he began to scratch his ears and cheeks......

After another two minutes, he gritted his teeth......

Ten minutes later, he raised his head and said, "Well, it's time for class, you can go back to class first." Put the book here for me first, and when the middle school is over, you will come back at about half past twelve, and I will tell you slowly. ”

Tang Mingyao got up and said, "Okay, I'm sorry for Mr. Tao." I'll go first and come back in the afternoon. ”