Chapter 213: Empathy
Tang Mingyao told his father that the work is inexhaustible, the money is inexhaustible, and the road of career is endless, so people still have to eat on time, and only the body is the capital of the revolution. Look at Uncle Wu, he is young, he has this disease, even if he has money, he can't enjoy it.
Tang Hui nodded in agreement.
Tang Mingyao saw that his father understood the priorities, so he didn't say much, chatted with him about the company, and went back to the room.
Instead of going to bed early, he took out a book and read it himself.
During the day at school, he basically spent his time reviewing, only in the morning and evening when he studied on his own, and would finish the tasks that he had to do every day.
It was only ten o'clock when I got home at night, and I went to bed a little early, so I decided to read for an extra hour before going to bed.
Today, he read "Legal Knowledge Related to Psychological Counseling" and found that there are quite a lot of legal provisions involved in psychological counseling, such as privacy, personal rights, marriage law, law on the protection of women and children, law on the protection of consumer rights and interests, and public security regulations...... There is a point involved in various laws.
Seeing late at night, he took a lot of notes, and the next day he took the book to find Mr. Tao.
Every time he sees a new knowledge point, a lot of new questions will burst out in his mind. He had never been exposed to this kind of book involving legal terms before, so when he saw the relevant terms, according to the complexity of the law, he naturally derived several marginal questions in his mind that he could not get the answers.
Throw the question to Mr. Tao, and the usual one will wait for two days to give a reply.
Tang Mingyao nodded without surprise, came out of the office, subconsciously looked back and forth in the corridor, didn't see Bai Jing, thinking that after this girl was angry last time, she finally stopped looking for him, and couldn't help but breathe a sigh of relief.
Just thinking like this, he was just about to go downstairs when suddenly a shout came from behind him: "Hey!"
Turning his head, he was officially white.
This man didn't read it, and as soon as he said that he wouldn't come to him, the man came.
He turned around and said, "I don't call for hey, please be a little polite when you call someone."
Bai Jing glared at him and said, "I can't remember! Your broken name is too hard to remember. I ask you, have you been avoiding me lately, why haven't you seen you in the past week? ”
Tang Mingyao said: "Don't you know that the third year of high school is taking the exam, and there is no time to read extracurricular books during the exam, so there is no question to ask, what am I doing here?"
"Hmph, I think you're deliberately avoiding me, thinking I'm bad-tempered and annoying."
"You're thinking too much, you're not that powerful to me."
"Okay, if you don't come here in the future, how about I go to find you? Which class are you in, I only know that you are a senior in high school, and I don't know which class you are in. ”
Tang Mingyao was a little vigilant: "What are you looking for me to do?" We don't usually have much in common. ”
"You care about me?"
"Then I won't tell you."
"Won't I check it myself? There are only a few classes in the third year of high school, is it difficult to check. Otherwise, I'll go from classroom to classroom, and I won't believe I can't find you. ”
To be honest, Tang Mingyao really hasn't seen this girl before, she has a bad temper, a stinky mouth, she doesn't beat around the bush when talking to people, she doesn't do things in a measured way, and she is not cute at all.
He said a little helplessly: "The third year of high school science experimental class, class 10." I'm telling you, don't come if you're fine, it feels like you're going to blow up our class. ”
"I can come if I want, you can't care."
Tang Mingyao couldn't understand why this girl spoke with a sense of anger, like a powder keg, and asked, "Are you still angry with yourself?" I was angry that I took the initiative to chase Zhao Hao, but after chasing him, I ignored others, and my conscience couldn't get by? ”
"Nope! I'm just annoyed. ”
Bear two faces under one hood......
Tang Mingyao smiled, sat down directly on the steps, and said, "I'll teach you how to solve this matter." You go and apologize to Zhao Hao first, and make clear what you thought when you chased him, just say that you thought he was very good at first, but after contact, you found that each other was not suitable, so he confessed that you didn't accept it that day, you weren't playing with him, you were just following your true thoughts in your heart, and asked him to forgive. If you can't say it in person, write a letter and send your apologies. ”
"Just apologize?"
Tang Mingyao continued: "Teach you another trick Ah Q Spiritual Method, which is the method of self-persuasion. If you think like this, if you don't contact Zhao Hao, how do you know if he is the person you want? Only when you touch it, you can tell it. The situation at that time was that if you didn't attack, there would be no chance of contact in the future, so it was not an unforgivable thing to take a little risk at the beginning and make a small mistake. On the contrary, because you have no previous experience, it is completely forgivable. Doesn't it feel much better to say this? ”
"It seems to be ......"
Bai Jing nodded unconsciously, and then reacted: "I didn't get angry because of this, you don't have to guess there." No more, I'm going back, see you next time! ”
After saying that, he pedaled and ran away.
Tang Mingyao looked at her back and felt that the dead duck was talking about people like her.
At noon the next day, Tang Mingyao had lunch and was resting in the classroom, when suddenly a voice came from the front door: "Hey!"
Sounds familiar.
But he hasn't been sleeping very well lately, he is groggy and doesn't react, so he heard the sound at the door and fed it several times in a row.
About half a minute later, the voice quickly approached, and it sounded in his ears: "Hey, I called you, why didn't you agree?"
Tang Mingyao looked up in a daze, stunned for a long time, before he realized that this person was Bai Jing.
"Why did you come to my classroom?"
"I said yesterday, I'm coming to you."
"What's the matter?"
"It's okay, just come and recognize the door. Hey, I called you for a long time, why didn't you agree? ”
Tang Mingyao said: "I seem to hear you shouting hey? I'm resting, who hears Hey will think he's calling himself, please call my name next time, okay? ”
Bai Jing said, "Okay, your name is really hard to remember."
Tang Mingyao turned his head to look, and many classmates around him were staring at this side, so he stood up and said, "We go out to talk, and it doesn't have a good impact in the classroom."
When he got to the door, he turned back and said, "Do you have anything else to do besides coming to recognize the door?"
Bai Jing said, "It's gone." I find you a little impatient, don't you want to see me? Am I that annoying? ”
"It's not that I hate it, but I think we're just ordinary friends, and we don't have to be in contact too often."
In fact, he didn't say a word, he thought it was okay to interact with girls normally, but the contact with Bai Jing has been a little too frequent recently, and he is on the verge of stepping on the line.
His view of love has always been very clear, and he won't play the kind of game where he is in love and has an affair with other girls.
So once he finds a sign, he has to pinch it off in time.
The words were a little unkind, and when Bai Jing heard this, she suddenly became angry and said, "You are a person who speaks so directly, don't you consider my feelings." I didn't say I liked you, I just came to you, why are you so sensitive? ”
Tang Mingyao: "......"
I wonder who is sensitive.
He said patiently: "Bai Jing, think about it yourself, is your state a little abnormal?" For an ordinary boy, would you go to the office building every day to meet each other? Isn't it a little too obsessive? In comparison, is it a little similar to your previous feelings about Zhao Hao? I'm not putting gold on my face, but seeking truth from facts, so please don't think about this issue with emotion and objectivity. ”