"Where's it! There is nothing at all, you think of it yourself, and you still say me? ”

"Do we know better than anyone else that self-deception is the least fun. If you are just hard-mouthed and don't even dare to face your true thoughts, then I can only say that I can't communicate with you on the same channel. ”

"You ......"

Bai Jing glared at him, looking like he was about to explode in anger at any time, but when the words came to his lips, he endured it himself.

In the end, she only said, "You're so annoying." He stomped his feet and left.

Tang Mingyao looked at her back, and his mood was a little complicated.

Once reborn, he always felt that his peach blossom luck was not very good, except for Luo Wenxi, there was only one Tang Xiaoyuan who confessed to him, which made him doubt his charm a little.

Now this Bai Jing, although she doesn't admit it herself, Tang Mingyao can still see that she has a little bit of meaning to him.

Anyway, I kind of enjoy this feeling.

It's just that he himself clearly understands that it is impossible between the two.

First of all, he is a person with an object, and when he falls in love, he does not have the habit of finding only one person in his life, but as long as there is no problem with the relationship between the two and there is no official announcement of the breakup, he will not have an affair with others, which is a matter of principle.

Besides, Bai Jing is not his favorite type. This kind of girl is too difficult to serve, she loses her temper at every turn, you don't know where you provoked her again, it's too tiring to get along with, and it's not easy to be with Luo Wenxi at all.

In fact, even if the above two factors are put aside, Tang Mingyao is very suspicious of Bai Jing's state.

Her state is probably not really like him, but "empathy" in psychology.

What is Empathy?

It is in the process of psychoanalysis that the client develops a strong emotion towards the analyst, and it is the process in which the client projects too much of his past feelings for some important people in his life onto the analyst.

In other words, in the process of giving Bai Jing ideas, he unwittingly played the role of an analyst, so Bai Jing projected his feelings for someone in the past onto him.

The reason why he used the word doubt was because he was not sure if being an emotional counselor for Bai Jing could be counted as a type of psychoanalysis.

In short, although he enjoys the feeling of being chased a little in his heart, it is impossible for him to accept this girl in all respects, so it is necessary to keep his distance in the future.

If you don't have that mind, don't hang on to others.

Keeping an emotional spare tire is one of the most disgusting behaviors, and at the same time one of the most common behaviors in the world. The reality is so contradictory.

After school in the evening, Tang Mingyao and Luo Wenxi talked about Bai Jing.

He had mentioned this person to her before, but he hadn't talked about it in detail, and today he explained to her the process of getting to know Bai Jing from beginning to end, as well as the current relationship with Bai Jing.

After speaking, Tang Mingyao sighed: "I was too enthusiastic before, but now I have discovered the skills of psychology, and I can't just find experimental subjects, especially experimental subjects of the opposite sex."

Luo Wenxi said: "Actually, it's okay, you just happened to find a peer this time, and you also gave her an emotional counselor, so it is easy to have problems in this regard, and you can try to avoid this situation in the future."

Tang Mingyao nodded and said, "It makes sense, next time I'll find a boy to test, let's change the direction of the test."

When he came to the classroom the next day, he stared at He Qiu with ill intentions.

He pondered this tablemate for a long time, and after getting along for a while, he found that this guy has a thick skin, a good mentality, good grades, and is playful within the normal range, so he can't find any major character flaws.

However, Tang Mingyao agreed with He Ning's words: Everyone has psychological problems.

So he wanted to dig something out of He Qiu and use it as a material for hand practice.

"He Qiu, you have a problem related to your future life, it is very urgent, and it has not been solved yet, do you want to know what the problem is?"

"What's the problem? Why didn't I find out myself? ”

"You have no direction in life. People without direction are confused, you will be overwhelmed, your efforts will not be able to work hard in one place, and you will do a lot of useless work. Do you want to know how to fix it? ”

"Uh, I have a direction, take the college entrance examination first!"

"What are you taking the college entrance exam for?"

"Naturally, I went to college."

"What university, what major, what do you want to do after graduation?" What kind of heights do you want to achieve in life? You see, haven't you thought about any of them? When you think about it, don't you feel quite confused? ”

"So what do you think I should do?"

Tang Mingyao said: "It's very simple, find two points: talent and hobbies. Choose one of them as your future direction in life. If these two points coincide, then congratulations, you will be happy in life. ”

"Hey, we seem to have talked about this topic? My talent is reading, and my hobby is playing games. ”

Tang Mingyao took out a printed document from his bag and said, "You are all superficial. Come, do this assessment question, which has been circulated from abroad, is still rare in China, and ordinary people can't do it. ”

He Qiu took the question and looked at it, and it read: Personal career direction assessment.

He asked, "How?"

Tang Mingyao said: "Take a blank piece of paper and write the answer, just do it from scratch, they are all very simple multiple-choice questions, and you can answer them at a glance." Note that each question should not be more than 10 seconds to think, use your intuition to do it, and I'll tell you how to see the results when you're done. ”

He Qiu took the pen and began to answer the question.

1: Where do you tend to get your strength from? a, the support and praise of others***, yourself.

……

4: In dating, you will usually: a. Be talkative overall. b. It's quieter and you can feel comfortable.

……

13. You tend to believe: a. Intuition. b. Observations and past experience.

……

At the beginning, he still had the mentality of giving it a try, thinking that it would be good to do it casually. However, after doing a few questions, he felt that this assessment was a bit interesting, and quickly got into the state and did it seriously.

There are not many questions, only forty questions, and each question takes very little time, and after a few minutes, He Qiu finished it.

Tang Mingyao said: "Now divide your answer into four parts, one part of each of the ten questions, and see if in each part, A or B is more?" Let me know the results. ”

He Qiu buried his head in counting for a while and said, "All of them are a lot." What does this answer mean? ”

This means that you are an introvert, a little lacking in self-confidence, more sensitive, you like to get along with people in a simple way, and you like to concentrate on doing one thing before thinking about others. Also, your imagination is quite rich. ”

"What's the use?"

"It's useful because it can predict your future career direction. To give you this answer, this is all the possible combination results, you can compare it yourself, maybe there is a major you want to study. ”

He Qiu took it and looked at it and said, "I'm this one, it turns out that there are so many professions to choose from, human resources engineer, programmer, architectural designer, system analyst...... Well, there's a lot of this that I don't know exactly what it does, system analyst, what system to analyze? computer system? ”