Hey, what Tang Xiaoyuan said just now, did you hear that? ”

The three of them sat down in the corner of the hospital hall, and the boy who came with Tang Mingyao said with a gossip on his face.

The girl replied: "I heard it, it seems that her parents quarreled and divorced?" Did she faint when she heard the news? ”

"Possibly. Tsk, Tang Xiaoyuan is so pitiful. Speaking of which, I had a classmate in junior high school, and the family situation was similar to hers, and his parents quarreled every day, and he was going crazy. One time he couldn't stand it anymore, so he put a knife on his neck and threatened his parents, saying that if they quarreled again, he would die! Tang Xiaoyuan just fainted, which was not bad. ”

Tang Mingyao frowned when he heard this: "The two of you, just talk about the gossip quietly here, and don't tell others when you go back to the class." The privacy of classmates, don't talk about it without your consent. ”

The boy nodded and said, "I know, aren't all insiders here, let's talk to each other." ”

Then he and the girl chatted again.

Tang Mingyao didn't join the topic, sat for a while, and felt that the time was almost up, before picking up the packed meals again and going back upstairs.

This time, the middle-aged man at the door disappeared, and the ward fell silent.

Tang Mingyao pushed the door in, and Tang Xiaoyuan was the only one inside, with a pale face and closed his eyes and pretended to sleep.

He put the food on the bedside and said, "Pack some food, and eat some when you're hungry." ”

Tang Xiaoyuan opened his eyes: "Did you come up just now?" I think I heard them talking. ”

"No, we waited a little longer, and we're only back now."

Tang Xiaoyuan nodded and stopped talking.

Putting the meal at the head of the bed, Tang Mingyao went out and bumped into the middle-aged man head-on.

This is Tang Xiaoyuan's father.

He stopped Tang Mingyao and said, "Classmate, the money for Xiao Yuan's hospitalization is advanced, right?" How much, I give it back. I'm sorry for the trouble. ”

Tang Mingyao said: "Classmates, it is appropriate to do a little favor. ”

took out the slip and handed it to the man, and accepted the money without politeness.

Then there was nothing to do with their classmates, he went downstairs to meet the other two, came up and said a few words of comfort to Tang Xiaoyuan, and then went back to school.

When I went home to surf the Internet at night, I found that Teacher Xiaoyu was online.

He sent a message to the past, asking, "Do mental problems affect physical health?" ”

Teacher Xiao Yu: "This is nature. It is common sense that optimistic people get sick less and live longer, while pessimistic and depressed people are more likely to get sick. ”

Tang Mingyao thought thoughtfully: "I met a girl today, she was always sick, and every time her parents quarreled and divorced, she was very sick. I intuitively feel that her illness is related to her own psychological state, do I think it makes sense? ”

Teacher Xiao Yu: "There is not enough information to judge. ”

Tang Mingyao also said: "A junior high school boy, his parents quarreled so much that he couldn't stand it, so he put a knife on his neck and threatened his parents that if he quarreled again, he would commit suicide. I think this girl's illness and the boy's behavior are actually the same nature, she is using her body as a bargaining chip to force her parents to compromise. It's just that this is her subconscious behavior, and she may not be aware of it herself. ”

Teacher Xiaoyu: "It's still the same sentence, the information given to me is insufficient, and I can't make a judgment." However, it is inferred from all that has been said that there is such a possibility, and if every time she is sick, it coincides perfectly with the timing of her parents' quarrel, then this possibility is quite likely. ”

Tang Mingyao said: "Forget it, it's just cranky thinking and talking a few words on the Internet." To be honest, I think I've been a little crazy lately, and I want to lean on psychology when I see everything, am I not in the right state? ”

"It's normal, just like a surgeon always wonders which position is better to go under the knife, just like a surgeon looking at people, it's a normal reaction."

Tang Mingyao: "......"

"Idle? Recently, I've been chatting with me, and it's all nonsense. ”

Tang Mingyao: "Yes, didn't you talk to me before?" We're mutual. I also want to ask, why have I been free to surf the Internet lately? ”

"It's off. Stressed, never resting, people are going to collapse. ”

"Oh, understood."

Teacher Xiao Yu said again: "Have you read the book introduced?" ”

"No, I haven't found a chance to buy it yet, I'll buy it in a few days."

Teacher Xiao Yu: "Judging from the recent state, I am really interested in this area, and I am optimistic about the potential in psychology." But my personal advice, just be a hobby, don't really jump into it. ”

"Why?"

"Psychology is almost blank in China at this stage, and I can't even find a few professional books, let alone a way out in China. In addition to going to a university to become a teacher, or squeezing into one of the only few research institutes in China, or to study criminal psychology and become a criminal investigation expert...... Other than that, there really aren't many ways out in other directions. Note that although a psychiatrist also studies psychology, he is essentially a doctor, which is different from a professional who specializes in psychology. ”

Tang Mingyao: "......"

"And being a person in this industry is very stressful, although I hope that the more people who like this subject, the better, so that I can have someone to communicate with, but I really don't want others to go out of their way to get involved. Isn't there a saying that persuading people to study medicine is the same when used in psychology. ”

Tang Mingyao said: "Thank you for the suggestion, I will consider it. ”

"In addition, I think I have been very interested in psychology recently, and I am a little impatient, but before I have enough skills, don't take the initiative to help others, which is against the professional norms. If the level is not enough, it will harm others and yourself, remember. ”

Tang Mingyao said: "Thank you for the reminder, I know the severity." This is the same as a half-hung doctor who goes to see a doctor, the level is not enough, the disease is not cured, but the person is healed to death. ”

After chatting with the other party for a few more words, Tang Mingyao closed the chat window.

Thinking back on today's experience, I feel a little emotional.

It would be good if I had come into contact with psychology earlier, maybe I could provide Tang Xiaoyuan with a little help.

In other words, is my impulse to help people also one of the talents of psychology?

I had a few more days of classes.

On Saturday, Tang Mingyao got on a train to the provincial capital.

My father had already called back in advance to say that several stores had been renovated, three of them had already started to open, and only the last one was still being made.

Tang Mingyao went this time to give training courses to these new franchisees.

After all, before joining, training was mentioned, and now that they have officially opened, training will naturally be on the agenda.

In this training, the main content he prepared was the same as the one he told several adults last time, and even the courseware was ready-made.

Of course, the PPT is not exactly the same, he still added some new things into it, mainly considering the average level of these small operators in this era, he wants to explain the class in a more simple way.

When I arrived in the provincial capital, I first went to the office to get the key, and then went to the house rented by my father to put my things off.

Next, I was busy preparing for the training meeting.