"Would you like to grow up with your significant other?"

I'm a young man in my early 22s. I had just stepped out of school and into society, and I was particularly vulnerable. No social experience at all. What social practices are basically zero. It's like a headless fly.

During college, I always thought that I could find something to do after graduation, maybe I was not confident in myself, and I always felt that no company would look at me as a "lazy" young man. Because I don't think I'm really of much use. I also didn't have a skill that I could make money on my own. It's just a fantasy out of thin air. It's been more than two months since I graduated, and I'm still lying at home every day. Although my mother didn't urge me to go to work to earn money. But after all, I'm a little man. Although I often think about it, I always think about what big things I can do to impress my friends, but it seems that I think about it all in my head. It was never really implemented.

Maybe the time when I really started to worry was when I spent all the pocket money my mother gave me. Whenever I run out of money, I always think: the next time I have money, I must use it to earn money. But the fact is that whenever my mother gives me money again, she will call a few fox friends to go out to eat, drink and have fun. If you don't get drunk, you don't go home. Then the money ran out and started thinking again. In fact, sometimes I really look down on people like myself. In the eyes of my friends, I am a rich second generation. Actually, only I know. Dad's company went out of business. My mother, who had been at home, was also forced to go out to find a job, and I was still asking them for money again and again.

Until there was such a person in my life. It completely changed me. I still remember that day I was lying in bed boringly scrolling through Weibo. I inadvertently saw a photo of a girl showing her waist. Boys. Sometimes the idea is not so simple. So I sent her a private message on Weibo and asked her to meet, but she didn't agree at first. It's not the first time I've encountered this situation, so I've used my own old ways. Eventually, we met. But that's where the story begins. The first time I saw her, I was actually frozen in place. It's not how good this girl looks. She looks like a boy and dresses a bit. However, I was really stunned by the pure immaturity in her. We usually go out with friends in bars and nightclubs. I believe that the girls in there don't need me to tell you, and you all know about it. All of a sudden, I met a girl like this. A small gesture of his, during the meal, completely crushed me. When I'm nervous, I like to find something to do for myself, not to mention why I'm nervous when I see this girl, but when I'm nervous, I take a piece of paper and start wiping the table. The girl asked me, "Why are you wiping the table?" I replied that I was a little clean. I was so nervous. I told it I was going out to the bathroom. As soon as I got to the bathroom, I called my brother: "Oh my God! Finished! Retribution is coming! I've met true love! "yes. That's what I said at the time, but I don't know why I felt that way. It's as if I'm willing to give up everything I have just to be with her.

I walked back from the bathroom to the dining room, and the sight in my eyes broke my last line of defense. She bought a new bottle of mineral water, and here you may ask why it is emphasized that it is new mineral water. Because before we came to the restaurant I bought water, a bottle of mineral water, a bottle of Coke, and she was with mineral water. She really thought I had a cleanliness fetish, and she bought a pack of paper and a bottle of water to wipe my spoon. Then I started chasing this girl like crazy, using up all the girl-chasing skills I had in my life. Finally on October 27, 2019. She agreed to stay with me.

Today is February 9, 2020, our 106th day together. It wasn't long, but this girl made me start to grow up slowly. I understand the responsibilities on my body. Maybe we've been together for a short time, but we've only been together for such a short time and I've started to grow. Although the monthly salary is not more than 5,000 yuan, far less than the pocket money I asked my mother for at the beginning, I am very happy. Every month, I will take her to have dinner with my mother. Give my mother some pocket money. It's really fun to save a little bit of money for yourself.

The days will come better and better, and I will love you all over the world.

-------- netizens