"There are a lot of accidents in this life, like you think what you give her is what she wants!"

Have you ever thought about giving a question like this? When you love someone a lot. One of them, he wants to give everything to the other. It's when you want to give what you think is the most precious thing or you want to give all your good to that person. You think you're good enough to be good enough. There are even no logical loopholes. Completely surrendered himself to others. However, the other party felt that this was a kind of pressure. It's so heavy that she can't breathe. She, what you think is the most important thing for you, the things that can make her feel your fierce love are collectively called burdens and burdens. Leaving her breathless.

How did you feel at that time? Confused? Grievance? Or is it disappointment? It doesn't matter what state you're looking at. Do you feel like you're being a little self-conscious? You might say you love this girl, you love this boy. Good! So the question is, what kind of mentality do you have to interact with at this moment? It's going to be a little bit of a barrier. Will you be disappointed? You'll feel it! How is this world like this? Will it feel this way? It's something I think is precious. It's something I think she or he will like, but how did it end up like this?

I remember a time when this quote went viral on the Internet: "The world is sick, people regard scum as pride, and those affectionate people are called licking dogs!" "Why? What do you think when you read this sentence? Agree? Or is it negative? It's like some people who give everything until they have nothing and give everything they can to the other party without getting anything in return, while some people are rewarded for their efforts. Maybe some people will disagree with me when I say this, why do you say that the matter of two people in the relationship is a transaction, and there must be a return for paying? Or some people will say that it has little to do with paying, and has a lot to do with a person's own conditions, for example, an ugly person likes a good-looking person, and he or he gives what he thinks is the most precious thing to a beautiful person, what do you think this beautiful person should do? Be. That's true. It's as if you peel an orange and take a bite and you throw it away. You've just made an attempt, but. That orange peel you peel is all that orange. No way, who made him sour, you say yes.

There was a boy who loved a girl a lot. The two of them were together. Be. Together. One day the girl found a job, a little far from home, and if she lived at home, she would have to get up early to work, so the girl's parents shared a house for the girl where she worked. On this day, the boy hadn't seen the girl for a long time and wanted to come and see the girl. So I went to the house that the girl rented. Because it was a shared apartment, one bedroom per person, the boy went into the girl's bedroom and thought, "How can my girl live in only one bedroom?" The boy didn't say anything, but he wanted the girl to live in a clean and warm apartment. The boy didn't want the girl to know, probably hoping too much that the girl would be happy. So he told him about renting a house. The girl was a little surprised, and the boy thought that the girl was happy and did not know what to say. And so it passed, and the boy couldn't sleep every day for the sake of renting a house. The boy's family is not wealthy, his parents are divorced, and the family has a lot of external accounts. Across the road from where the girl went to work was a high-end circular apartment. The boy wished he could rent an apartment for the girl there, but the boy didn't have that much money, so he could only rent it a month, but the price of a month's rent was nearly a thousand dollars higher than that of a long-term rental. The rent of an apartment is 1,750 yuan, and the payment method is a deposit and one payment, which means that the boy wants to rent this apartment for at least 5,000 yuan, because he has to buy daily necessities later. So it took the boy three days to finally borrow the money. I finally lived in this circular apartment. She couldn't wait to pick her up. On the first day of renting the house, the boy worked hard to decorate it. Just to welcome the girl the next day.

Early the next morning, the boy picked up the girl. It's as if everything is so harmonious. It may be because the girl wakes up too early in the morning and goes to bed early. The boy looked at the girl lying next to him, she slept so comfortably, and she slept beautifully. The boy remained quiet in what he thought was good. The boy was very happy, and he couldn't sleep with joy. I wanted to play with my phone, but my phone ran out of power because it didn't charge for a day. The boy wanted to take the girl's phone and look at Tik Tok to kill the exciting night. The phone opened, and the page stayed on the chat box between the girl and her best friend, and a sentence came into view: "I actually don't love him that much, and this incident made me feel a lot of pressure." The boy then looked up = flipped. The boy's hands trembled, and he couldn't say anything at this moment, and the joy he had just now was gone. The boy put down his phone. Silently lit a cigarette. At this time, nothing would help him. He still couldn't sleep, but this time, it wasn't because of that joy. And more of that disappointment.

At this point, you may ask, "Did you make up the story?" How to describe it in such detail, you can tell what you feel in your heart. ”

Oh, yes! The boy who couldn't sleep and smoked that night was me.

-------- netizens