Jiang Ji heard Jing'er say this, and realized that she couldn't get along with his family anymore, but how could it be like this, her mother had never treated her harshly, and Dingnan and Chenxi had never disobeyed her, how could there be a dead knot that could not be untied, he knew that they had some small friction before, but this was not a big thing, just say a few good words and be soft?

"Jing'er, I will teach Dingnan and Chenxi well, let them treat you as a mother and be filial, you don't have to worry about the bleak evening, you have no children, they don't have a mother, you should make up for each other, Dingnan is already old, maybe not close to you, but Chenxi is still young, she wants to have a mother, she is also a well-behaved and lovely girl, you can also treat her as your own daughter, and raise her to be what you like, okay?"

The more he thought about it, the more he felt that this was feasible, he really hoped that Jing'er could get along with his children, Dingnan and Chenxi were not bad children, and Jing'er was not a vicious stepmother, so why couldn't they coexist? Maybe their personalities are a little angular, but when a family is together, they always have to run in slowly, even if they are biological parents and children, they can't say that they are born to love each other, and someone has to back down, he hopes that Jing'er can understand this and maintain their family with him.

"Not good."

Of course it's not good, she doesn't have any children of her own, so does she want to be a stepmother to someone else? Jiang Ji had never said this before, only that they were far away from each other, and now that she can't have children, Jiang Ji asked her to treat his children as his own, does he think that she has no way out, and she must hold the brother and sister in the future, and she will have to rely on her old age.

Jiang Ji asked her: "Are you, did you only think about marrying me from the beginning, and never thought of being a daughter-in-law to my parents and a mother to my children?" ”

Jing'er looked up in shock, "What do you mean?" Are you going to accuse me now of not fulfilling my obligations as a daughter-in-law and as a stepmother? Then I tell you, I won't have children in the future, and I won't even be able to fulfill my obligations as a wife! Then what are you going to do to keep me, you can marry a virtuous and virtuous woman, be a virtuous daughter-in-law to your parents, and be a charitable mother to your children! ”

"I don't mean that, I just ask you, do you really want to be reconciled with me? Don't you really want to live with me anymore? If you still want to stay with me, shall we all compromise somewhat? Don't you see my difficulty? ”

"I don't want to! You go, go now, and live with your family! I will enter the palace and ask my father to make a decree and leave! ”

She is very irritable and angry now, and she can't listen to these things at all, Jiang Ji wants to compromise with her at this time, what to say to put down her body for his family, how can she agree, why let her compromise, why can't she let his family compromise!

"Jing'er, in your heart, are we equal, or are you above me? Do you think that my mother and children treat you with a bad face, so you don't want to wronged yourself to please them, but have you ever thought about it, since I married you, has the golden boy ever had a good face for me? In his opinion, I kidnapped his precious sister, how can he be kind to me, but when did I take it to heart? When was it not a good life to coax him? Because I know that he is your brother and the person you love most, I am afraid that you will be caught in the middle and embarrassed, and I never dare to make him angry and make you sad. So for my mother, you, the daughter-in-law, also abducted her good son, and for the Dingnan brothers and sisters, you, the stepmother, also robbed their father, how could they like you? But have they really done anything bad to bully you and hurt you? It's never just a verbal run, why can't you tolerate it? Do you know that you are all people I can't give up, and it's hard for me to be caught between you! ”

Since Jing'er's accident, the golden boy has jumped up and down to get Jing'er and him to reconcile, his mother has never liked Jing'er, and has never said anything to let him marry with him, he thinks that he has fulfilled his responsibility as a husband and son-in-law since he got married, Jing'er is ten years younger than him, he spoiled her more at the beginning, and he also paid more, a manly husband, he shouldn't have been with a woman in general, but he worked so hard to maintain their relationship between husband and wife, why did Jing'er abandon it so easily.

Jing'er was originally angry, and she couldn't wait to enter the palace immediately to ask for the holy decree, but after hearing him say this, she suddenly felt a little empty-hearted, it seems that Jiang Ji said this is really the truth, since she got married, in addition to the twists and turns of the child's early death, Jiang Ji really spoiled her at other times, she didn't want to go to the Guogong Mansion to ask Mrs. Wang for peace, so she didn't go, and only went to ask for a good night every three or five days, good morning was only invited when the tea was served on the second day of the wedding, and then there was no more, Jiang Dingnan's brothers and sisters She didn't care about the food, clothing, housing and transportation, and she didn't give birth to her, She doesn't have to worry about anything, and she doesn't have to show filial piety with their brother and sister, it's best if everyone is safe.

But this is just good for her, the job of a woman in this era is to serve Aunt Weng with her husband and children, a little daughter-in-law like her who is stuck in the middle, old and young, is the most difficult, not to mention that she is just a county lord, with the status of the Jiang family, even if she is a princess, she can't afford to put on a big shelf, she can live so smoothly, but Jiang Ji has been protecting her.

Jing'er is a person who wants to save face, her heart softened, but she couldn't pull her face, so she simply stopped talking, but Jiang Ji was an upright person, seeing that Jing'er was silent, thinking that she was still in a mood, trying to tell her some more big truths, be sure to make it clear today.

"Jing'er, I don't force you to treat my parents as filial piety, they have not given birth to you, your connection with them is all in me, I just hope that you treat them with respect for my sake, you don't need to serve tea and pour water, so you can often go with me to have a meal with them and talk, homely, isn't it? Dingnan and Chenxi, I don't ask you to treat them as your own, just like the queen treats you and the golden boy, give you good food and clothing, let you receive a good education, and grow into outstanding talents, it's enough, they are not ungrateful people, what you give them, they will give back to you in the future, and you don't have any big grudges, why do you have to die of old age and don't get along? ”

What Jiang Ji said was very reasonable, Jing'er also listened to it this time, but she just didn't say anything, Jiang Ji waited for a while, didn't wait for the next step, and it was not interesting to stay any longer, so she left, let Jing'er think about what he said, and said that he would come back tomorrow.

Jing'er looked at his distant back, and pouted angrily, this person actually left like this? He can't coax anymore? Is he coaxing his daughter-in-law or teaching his son!

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