Chapter 368: Ma Weiwei, a white-collar woman
"It's really nice that you can understand, and although wormwood can't speak, as you say, it has its own thoughts, its own behavioral preferences. I hope you can be truly proud of the fact that it is an individual and you need to give it some freedom to make its own decisions. I'll talk about the ugly things first, if you just want an obedient doll, wormwood is definitely not for you. ”
Although Hua Ni did not ask the other party to directly put the plant pet baby in an equal position, it is necessary to give the plant pet baby freedom and respect.
The ugly words are said in the front, so as not to cause unpleasant trouble on both sides when something happens in the future.
The young woman shook her head: "No! I wanted to adopt a plant-based baby because I was so lonely and needed a companion who could be by my side forever. I have checked the information, and the life of a plant-based pet baby is very long, there are many decades. I'm 30 years old now, and I don't know how old I can live, but it's enough to stay with me for decades. ”
Hua Ni lowered her head and looked through her information: "Ma Weiwei, your information shows that you were once married and had a child, but then the child had an accident, so you divorced your husband, right?" ”
Ma Weiwei nodded again.
"Do you have any plans to remarry? I don't want to interfere in your private life, but when you bring wormwood back, it will live with you from now on. I'm not sure if your future partner will be able to take wormwood and take good care of it. ”
Ma Weiwei hesitated for a moment: "I don't think I should get married again." ”
Speaking of this, she smiled wryly, "I am no longer fertile, and it is impossible for a man to be willing to take me." ”
"So in fact, you want to remarry, because there is no man to marry you, and you are forced to have no way to marry again?" Hua Ni asked surely.
"To be honest, I don't know. I don't know if my life alone can be called a good life, I go to and from work alone, work from 9 to 5, eat and sleep alone, watch movies, and do everything alone...... Actually, sometimes it's quite lonely, and I really want someone to be by my side. ”
"Hmm." Hua Ni made a sound, indicating that he was listening.
"Sometimes I want to talk, but I can't find someone to talk to, and I'm not used to holding a robot and talking alone, I just want to have a companion. Being there for me when I need someone to accompany me, listening to my nagging, and then giving me a memory, if it's good or bad, that's enough. ”
Ma Weiwei actually came with great hopes, and when she saw that she received a call for an interview, she knew that she was half successful.
It's just that she didn't expect that the other party would ask these questions. Very private, very straight to her heart, making her a little difficult to speak.
The woman across from her was quiet and not aggressive, but she had no less questions to ask.
She didn't know what was wrong with her, she was obviously a stranger, but she couldn't help but say it suddenly.
Before marrying her ex-husband, she didn't imagine a future life. At that time, her idea was very simple, she also thought that her life should be the same as her mother, marry a man, have children, take care of the family, and then just like this for the rest of her life.
However, the fate of a person is not clear at all.
She didn't know why something like this happened to her, but it just happened.
An accident, because of her negligence, she mistook her son with her ex-husband. Now the crystal ball of happiness is broken.
Without that child, she was nothing.
Her ex-husband left her and remarried a woman who could bear him children, and she was still young, but her heart became very old.
No husband = no financial resources.
She was kicked out of her house, and the world seemed to collapse.
What was she going to do?
First of all, she had to support herself, so she had to come out and work and become a professional woman.
In fact, there are not many women who come out to work these years. Everyone has men to raise, they don't have to worry about food and clothing, and they have pocket money, so why do you have to work hard?
Even if a woman comes out to work, it's all in the nature of playing tickets. A woman like her, who doesn't have a man to support her, will work hard to support herself.
"You don't work because you like it?" Hua Ni asked.
Ma Weiwei shook his head: "I don't know, maybe I like it." At first, I was forced to work by life, but after working for a long time, I found that work was actually quite interesting, but sometimes I felt tired and wanted to take a break. But at this time, I suddenly found ......"
"I suddenly found that the women around me were all raised by men, either visiting shops or watching movies, very leisurely." Hua Ni added for her.
"Yes, that's it, as if I'm from another world. Even if they have free time to sit with them, they don't know what to say to them, they are always talking about how much pocket money their men give them and what they buy. If I talk about my job, they look at me with a look of surprise: Shouldn't work be a man's thing? You are a woman who runs to work in the pile of men......" Ma Weiwei smiled a little, a little sarcastic, "I don't know how good my work ability is, everyone sees me, as if I can achieve today's results all because of men." Who knows if I give men any benefits at work that will put me in this position and let me do something successful. ”
"Money and color trading, power and color trading. Because you are a woman, the first thing they think of is that if you are so beautiful, your appearance must bring you a lot of benefits. Hua Ni didn't say it directly, but it also came out a little.
Even in the global village, there is no exception, and even in that era when there were many white-collar women, sexism has always existed. If a woman behaves particularly well, has excellent work ability, and is beautiful, it is likely to cause some kind of bad conjecture in others.
Women think so, men think so, so some men want to take advantage of women through work, and office sex/harassment will be a topic that will never be in the world.
Not to mention that on this planet, women have almost become the "canaries" that men keep at home, and how many men sit and let their women run outside to work? Aren't you afraid of being hooked up by others?
Therefore, women who generally work outside are either women like Tang Li who have not yet married and need to meet more excellent men and play tickets; Or like Ma Weiwei, a woman who has no man to support and has to support herself.
Hua Ni's understanding almost brought Ma Weiwei to tears, if it wasn't for the fact that it wasn't suitable for crying now, she really wanted to cry. But even so, she kept pulling the paper out of the drawer and wiping the moisture from the corners of her eyes.
She said a lot about the "harassments/harassments" she encountered at work.