In the first two days after Mrs. Xu came to see Little Rabbit, there was nothing abnormal in her work and life, and Little Rabbit still did whatever she had to do, and then I don't know who started to spread rumors that Little Rabbit seduced Xu Gongzi unsuccessfully, and was slapped twice by Mrs. Xu, and strictly ordered not to approach her son.

These words may have been imagined by a colleague who saw Mrs. Xu talking to Little Rabbit, and Little Rabbit didn't bother to explain.

She didn't say much, Manager Si, who was more familiar with the situation, came forward to explain, explaining that it was just that Xu Gongzi was interested in finding a suitable marriage partner, and he helped match it, and there was no question of who seduced whom.

Manager Si came forward to explain, in order not to let gossip affect the work, but the focus of others was that Xiaotu actually rejected Xu Gongzi, thinking that she was "trying to get away with it".

One night before going to bed, Xiao Lei kept asking Xiao Rabbit and Xu Gongzi how they were doing, Xiao Rabbit said that it was nothing at all, but Xiao Lei still didn't believe it.

"Why don't you believe that we are really nothing? If I had the heart to fish Xu Gongzi, let me be hit by five thunderbolts from the sky, okay? The little rabbit was so anxious that he swore a poisonous oath.

"Why do you say so much? Why did you refuse? Xu Gongzi's conditions are really good. Xiao Lei lowered her voice and said.

"He just wants to find someone to do his filial piety by his parents' side, he can go abroad to learn fashion design, and he doesn't think about the emotional foundation." The little rabbit told the secret.

Everyone else's eyes focused on the little rabbit, and the fat sister-in-law asked in surprise: "Does that mean that the Xu family really mentioned marriage?" ”

Xiao Lei jumped out of bed, pointed at the little rabbit and said, "Are you stupid? It's good to get married, and feelings can be cultivated slowly! ”

"I don't deserve him, I can't cultivate feelings." The little rabbit pulled the quilt over his head and covered his head, "Sleep, sleep, eat well and sleep well is the most important thing." ”

The fat sister-in-law and Xiaolei were still chattering, Xiaobei smiled, put down the English book, and let them all sleep, don't doze off at work tomorrow and be deducted from their wages.

They soon fell asleep, and the little rabbit lifted the quilt and stared at the ceiling with wide eyes, his mind full of cranky thoughts.

She can't accept a marriage without an emotional foundation, she summed up what she has seen and heard and came to the conclusion that men's attitude towards marriage and love is far less serious than that of women, and it is always women who are hurt by following their pace.

Men often think, who to marry is not to marry, as long as it is not a dominatrix, anyway, and do not suffer, but often live together every day to know that it is wrong, once they find out that they are wrong, they will want to escape from marriage, and most of them have the ability to escape, but it will be much more difficult for women to escape.

Little Rabbit would rather die alone than fall into a situation where he can't get out of knowing that he is not doing well.

As for the argument of cultivating feelings after marriage, Xiaotu doesn't know who started to say it first, and it is extremely unreasonable that there are still a bunch of supporters to support it to the end.

In Xiaotu's view, if treating each other politely can be exchanged for heart-warming feelings, there are not so many couples in the world who look like gods and goddesses - why were young men and women not allowed to contact each other in ancient times? What I am afraid of is that the elders are not easy to control when they have feelings. If you don't know the taste of "love", you will take mutual use as love.

When she was a child, she heard a lot of love stories of the older generation of revolutionaries, and Xiaotu's focus was a little biased, and she didn't have much feeling about the iron-blooded tenderness in the flames of war, but summed up two rules.

First, if it is an arranged marriage, the dissatisfied party will either run away from home and never return, or be temporarily disposed of, and the opportunity will be completely broken.

Most of those who are dissatisfied with the arranged marriage are the men, and they often don't care how many years the married wife has waited and how hard she has waited, in short, when the other party does not exist.

What's more ruthless is not only that they have left home, but some of them will also try their best to get rid of them when they have children, and they can't wait to get rid of each other from their life experiences.

There is a TV series that arranges his wife to treat everyone with kindness and tolerance, and finally in exchange for a rose that the other party gives to represent love in old age, such a good ending, the little rabbit has not seen it in a real story; I have seen people who gave an inheritance after death out of gratitude and guilt, but unfortunately the arranged wife was also old at that time, and she died within two years.

The little rabbit sometimes thinks, knowing that the other party doesn't have himself in his heart, why do he still jump into the fire pit? Why is it that in this kind of marriage, most of the resistants are the man, and the majority of the women are obedient?

Even if a woman resists, not only will she not be supported, but she will be as preachy as if she has committed some unforgivable crime.

And men, as long as they are rich and powerful in the future, even if the marriage is not happy, they can still find flowers and willows to make up for it, and most people will understand and tolerate this behavior.

The second rule summarized by Xiaotu is that if it is a marriage that is emotionally united in the common struggle and common battle, even if it is separated due to the war, it will still be remembered when it is old. Even if the other party sacrifices, he will always put it in the most important position in his heart.

I have also seen more extreme examples, the woman sacrificed, and the man was arranged by the organization to marry another wife after the founding of the country, but the names of several children were all added to the name of the sweetheart in the memory.

There is the word "Ying" in his sweetheart's name, his two sons are called "Huaiying" and "Nianying", and his two daughters are called "Siying" and "Mengying", and he doesn't care about his current wife's feelings at all. The current wife reasoned with him, and he quibbled that it was to let future generations remember the revolutionary heroes, and also said that the current wife's consciousness was too low.

But the children also felt awkward, so they said that they didn't have to use the word "Ying" to remember the revolutionary heroes, and the sons should change it to "Huaixiong" and "Nianxiong", and the daughters said that heroes are like plum blossoms, and they should be changed to "Simei" and "Mengmei".

At that time, the living conditions were not good, sleeping in a separate room was sleeping on the floor of the living room, and eating at a separate table was squatting on the steps at the door, even so there was no compromise.

Little Rabbit doesn't want to be remembered forever even if he dies, but he definitely doesn't want to spend his whole life waiting and touching a man, and he doesn't want to spend his energy trying to seize a heart that doesn't belong to him.

This kind of thinking is unknown to others, they say that Xiaotu is "Gua Po Niang" behind their backs, or think that she wants to marry a rich man on the rich list who even Xu Gongzi can't look down on.

Most of the colleagues quietly alienated Xiaotu, the reason was that they thought that the result of Xu Gongzi's incident should be that Xiaotu was infatuated and had no regrets, Xu Gongzi coldly dumped her, and they all went to comfort Xiaotu, how could it be that Xiaotu refused? It's like the rabbit has made some mistake, which annoys them.

Only Xiaobei treats her as usual, Xiaobei said that she is about to save enough 12,000 yuan, and she is going to go home for the New Year next month, and after the New Year, she will go to the school where English is trained for a full-time period, and the first period is half a year, she said that can really improve her English level.

"If you learn by yourself like this, you can only listen and read, but you can't speak, and what comes out of your mouth is all salt and pepper flavor, spicy flavor, but there is no British flavor, and the language environment is very important. After half a year of closed study, the level will definitely improve significantly, and it is no problem to apply for those bilingual kindergartens. Xiao Bei said wistfully.

Xiaotu deeply agrees, not only the language environment is important, but also the environment for learning is important, I went back to the dormitory and wanted to read a book for a while, the fat sister-in-law wanted to interrupt, Xiaolei wanted to ridicule, and it was impossible not to be affected.

If you encounter a guest who is drunk and makes trouble and delays time, don't want to sleep well, let alone study. Therefore, when you have the conditions to sit in the classroom and just study and ignore the chores, you must concentrate on studying, don't think about anything and then study by yourself later, self-study is to pay ten percent and only receive one percent, which is too difficult.

Xiaotu is very envious of Xiaobei, it is impossible for her to study full-time, and it is difficult to make up the tuition fees alone. In addition to the money sent home and the necessary daily necessities, she only saved 300 a month, and it took at least three years to save enough for tuition.

Of course, it's good to be able to save money step by step, but she will only be twenty-one in three years, and it's not too late to learn. But she didn't expect that she wouldn't even have such a chance.

Xiaotu envied Xiaobei who was about to leave here and took a big step towards her dream, and others envied Xiaolei for meeting a high-quality man and officially dating.