Everyone has a heart for gossip, Xiaotu doesn't pay attention to Xiaolei's affairs, but he often listens to others chatting about each other, and he also knows Xiaolei's love story.

Xiaolei met this high-quality man because of the man's lovelorn drunkenness, because he had a melancholy temperament and was sentimental, and called him "Melancholy Brother".

Melancholy brother's ex-girlfriend is going to participate in a singing competition, and he doesn't like his sweetheart to show up singing and dancing, so there is a conflict, and his girlfriend proposes to break up.

In order to relieve him, his relatives and friends invited him to dinner, but he didn't eat a few bites, but he drank a lot of wine, vomited in the bathroom after getting drunk, and fell down when he went out, Xiaolei saved him.

After the two met, Xiaolei learned that his grandfather was an old leader of the Education Bureau, his father was a printer, his mother was a middle school principal, and he himself was a reporter in Rongcheng Business Daily.

Others coaxed her to confess, Xiaotu and Xiaobei suggested that they understand each other better, and then they said that Brother Melancholy had fallen out of love not long ago, and it was easy to deviate when he confessed at this time.

Most of the other colleagues asked Xiaolei to confess, Xiaolei plucked up the courage to go, but he didn't expect to have only known Brother Melancholy for five days, he not only did not refuse Xiaolei, but also directly said that taking her to meet her parents is an official girlfriend.

Brother Melancholy looks weak, and his efficiency is quite fast, so he arranged for his parents and Xiaolei to meet in the teahouse, and said a lot of good things for Xiaolei in front of her parents.

His parents didn't show much dissatisfaction with Xiaolei, but they didn't object either, and reluctantly approved of their relationship.

In the past few days, Brother Melancholy and Xiaolei have been in love like glue, but they have not entered the cave room.

During the lunch break one day, Xiaolei smiled and said to her colleagues: "I have something to ask you, don't laugh at me......"

asked her to ask quickly, her cheeks were crimson and she wanted to stop talking, and she urged her several times before she whispered: "Brother Melancholy is too polite, I want to ...... I want to take the initiative to take that step, do you have any good ideas? If you can be together, it's not too explicit, it's very romantic......"

Colleagues laughed, came up with all kinds of bad ideas, summed up a little feasible all half-drunk, waiting for the melancholy brother to drink and mess up similar methods, but it is not obvious to take the initiative.

Xiao Lei seriously planned to take a vacation in a few days, and asked Brother Melancholy to go out to play, so she did so.

Seeing that she was serious, a colleague kindly reminded her that it was okay to joke casually, but she had to think clearly if she really implemented it.

"You also know my family conditions, it's not easy to meet such a suitable brother melancholy, I want to finalize the relationship as soon as possible to mention marriage." Xiao Lei's eyes crossed the anxiety that others were not easy to detect.

Others only thought that she liked Brother Melancholy too much and wanted to take the initiative, but Little Rabbit felt that she had a purpose in addition to liking, so she said: "That kind of thing is better to happen naturally, if Brother Melancholy is not willing to develop to that point soon, there will be contradictions." ”

Xiaolei was stunned for a moment, and several older female colleagues laughed strangely: "How can there be a man who doesn't want the relationship to develop faster?" ”

In the general cognition, it is indeed like that, and it is not a man who suffers when something happens, so men will always come and go in a chic way when they do a scene, and women will inevitably invest in true feelings.

In their opinion, it seems that men only know how to indulge and not to be emotional, but if men are serious and persistent, they will be crazy and frightening.

The little rabbit can't guess the man's mind, and he doesn't want to guess, after all, the way of thinking is completely different, and if he guesses too much, he will be troubled; But no matter whether he guesses it or not, Little Rabbit always thinks that there should be no calculations in the relationship.

Especially in the situation where the man knows that he has not forgotten his past lover and has not developed to the point where he is ready to work together for a lifetime, the woman's initiative to "dedicate" is somewhat of a sense of forcing the other party to be responsible.

was ridiculed by other colleagues, and Xiaotu didn't say anything more, and after taking a deep look at Xiaolei, he turned around and wanted to walk away.

But her admonishing eyes annoyed Xiao Lei, and she pouted and said: "I take the initiative to show that I am sincere to him, he will know how to cherish it, and there will be no contradictions." Of course, if it was originally a rotten peach blossom to climb into bed, a man would definitely not want it after seeing his true face. ”

In order to explain Xu Gongzi's matter, Xiao Rabbit mentioned a little bit of his past with the boar with them, and at this time, listening to Xiao Lei's words, it was obvious that he was insinuating and scolding her, Xiao Rabbit took a few deep breaths, and responded coldly: "You use dedication to confess your sincerity?" Okay, go ahead and see how long he can cherish you. ”

Xiao Lei's face darkened, and her thin voice pierced the little rabbit's eardrum: "Your own relationship is not going well, so you come to curse me?" The jealousy is so strong, no wonder it is always dumped, retribution! ”

I thought that the sisters in the same dormitory could get along well for a long time, but I didn't expect to say such vicious words in just over two months, and the little rabbit smiled bitterly and walked away.

In the next few days, only Xiaobei still talked to Xiaotu for a few words, and if it wasn't for the work that needed to cooperate, the others would almost isolate Xiaotu.

Maybe Xiaobei has to leave here after waiting for half a month to receive her salary, and she doesn't have to worry about the interpersonal relationships in the circle, so she doesn't need to praise Xiaolei, who is proud of the spring breeze.

Despite being isolated, Rabbit still insists on her point of view, and there should be no fluke mentality in love, "even if you don't have a deep love at the moment, if you establish a relationship earlier, he will find out how kind and sincere I am, so as to accept that I forgot that person".

Xiaotu believes that two people slowly deepen their relationship, that is, under the premise that both parties do not have a sweetheart, they naturally deepen their relationship after sharing joys and sorrows together, rather than cultivating their feelings after imposing responsibilities on each other.

It's just that Xiaolei and the others thought that they were just a small group back then, and later, this view of "bed" first and then love actually became the mainstream of romance novels.

In many stories, the male protagonist is reluctant to have a relationship with the female protagonist one by one.,The female protagonist was abused and left.,And then the female protagonist brought one to N cute babies back to various counterattacks.,The male protagonist all turned into a haba dog and pasted it.,And then all kinds of messy things of the year were washed back.。

Seeing this kind of novel introduction popping up on various platforms, Xiaotu could only admit defeat with a wry smile in his heart: Am I wrong? This retribution has also been repaid for too long, why did you still "bomb" me after more than ten years? I wish you all meet a domineering president who is addicted to kisses, loves for a long time, and spoils his wife and children into crazy demons.

It's just that the little rabbit back then couldn't see it, and she was secretly sad to be snubbed, and seeing that Xiaobei was still willing to listen to her say those crooked reasoning, she chattered in front of Xiaobei when she was free.

For example, there are very few things that people can control, external factors interfere too much, and emotions are even more susceptible to interference, but emotions are precisely the most authentic and direct self-embodiment, don't take emotions as a bet, losing emotions is losing yourself.

In what kind of love, a woman can take the initiative to take ninety-nine steps, and she can fly from the sky to the world and stick it upside down, but the step that breaks through the boundary of physical relationship must be taken by the man, and the woman can use deception and coercion to take that step.

This point of view seems old-fashioned, and there is some suspicion of despising women, but at least in the facts that Xiaotu has seen, women who take the initiative to take a step in this regard will always be humble in marriage even if they end up staying together until they are old.

Bed first and then get married before love, especially when the other party is still thinking about other people, Xiaotu thinks it is impossible.

Thanks to Xiao Bei's good cultivation, she can endure listening to Xiao Rabbit nagging like this.

Xiao Bei can bear it, Xiao Lei can't bear it anymore: "Little Rabbit, you are the youngest here in our hall, right?" Don't use the little you have experienced all day long to preach, just like a sister-in-law of Xianglin, and the same as the extermination master...... Xiaobei, if you want to listen to her words, you can only be an old virgin. ”

The sound of laughter sounded, Xiaotu and Xiaobei were embarrassed, and suddenly heard someone at the door: "Xianglin's sister-in-law and the exterminator are too good, honest and diligent, chaste and strong, and they are very precious in the pile of modern women, and they definitely don't worry about getting married." ”