In business, many times, your circle determines your success or failure, so Qiu Lang often helps Han Yi expand his circle of friends and social circles.

In love, the same is true, your circle determines your happiness.

A good friend, a good lover, he will be each other's protection, but not an obstacle.

As for Han Yi, I always feel that the words are not speculative for more than half a sentence, and the circles are different and unwilling to melt. It's a matter of character, and there are pros and cons.

Sometimes the people he meets really make him feel like it's a waste of life to talk to those people.

During the meal, I have been listening to a person I know for the first time all kinds of blows, which boss is his good friend, where I went to buy what I ate last time, I feel terrible, but when I ask about the details, I can't say why, and I am embarrassed to hear it.

It felt like as soon as he spoke, he lowered the IQ of the whole street.

Fortunately, Yi Yang and Deng Baoyuan are not the kind of people who make him particularly disgusted! is open and honest, and after releasing the previous suspicions, the whole dinner table can be regarded as chatting and laughing, and it is harmonious.

I can't help but think of a popular saying on the Internet - don't be friends with the people who consume you.

What kind of friends you make, what kind of habits you will develop, and your behavior will all be affected, and you may embark on a completely different path in life.

Some time ago, I was very close to Shen Qing's parents and often contacted and talked. Shen Zhenbang said such a sentence to him, and he still remembers it vividly.

That is, stay away from friends who make you have a low IQ, but choose a lover who makes you stupid.

President Roosevelt graduated from Harvard, four generations of the Bush family are Yale alumni, and George W. Bush even joked during the campaign: "I inherited half of my father's friends." ”

But their excellence is not just because of their family background.

"If what kind of person we are in our teens is largely influenced by our family, then in our twenties, the person who determines what we become is ourselves." This sentence should resonate with Han Yi.

All distances and classes are essentially differences between people themselves. His abilities determine your socialization.

With someone who never reads, the number of times he buys books gradually decreases; Talking to someone who hasn't been far away, he might really think that the world is only so big. His friends are people who don't like sports, and he may give up if he can't make an appointment with someone.

Many, many people, because of the small circle of friends, have become content with the status quo and have lost many opportunities that could have been tried to change.

Thinking about it carefully, Han Yi's circle of friends is really not narrow, there are friends from all walks of life and all walks of life, and most of them are hard-working people, of course, what he admires most is Keiko and Fu Bo, there is no doubt about it.

There are benefits to a quiet life, but ah, life is like a book, if you don't go out for a walk, you only see one page.

In fact, friendship and love are the same, just like Keiko said, the love between her and Qiu Lang is about an even match, with a degree of relaxation, and there are advances and retreats.

But love is a little special, there is more than one friend, and the types are all different, but the lovers are different, thousands of people, and only one person can be chosen.

Is there a standard? Probably the answer in everyone's mind is different.

When Han Yi was in love, he also had criteria for choosing a girlfriend, but later, it gradually blurred, and after falling in love, there was no standard at all, that is, he identified that person. Judging from the couples who get along harmoniously around him, the biggest advantage is still the type that needs each other.

For example, Keiko and Qiu Lang, boys are not people who can make up ideas, and girlfriends are often extraordinarily decisive.

For example, Li Jia and Feng Zhiyao, boys are taciturn and not good at expressing themselves, while girls are bold and unrestrained.

For example, Fu Bo and Xin Nuannuan. If a girl is cold and soft, a boy is exceptionally warm and assertive.

As we often hear, what we spend our whole lives looking for is the rib that we are missing.

When Han Yi was not around, Bai Xue was stronger than anyone else. Sometimes, it was her strength that made Han Yi ignore her. Only when he is thinking deeply about his relationship with Bai Xue will he feel ashamed of Bai Xue.

He had read a book a long time ago that had such a scene in it, and he still remembers it very clearly.

A friend asked the male protagonist, she looks so ordinary, so weak, there are many girls who are more beautiful than her and smarter than her, why did you choose her.

The male protagonist laughed, you saw her weak because she was by my side at that time.

And when I wasn't there, she was stronger than anyone else.

"I can go out single-handedly and be afraid of anything; But if you come, I just want to be a-coated kitten in your arms and stick to you. ”

"I can live a chic life alone, but I just want to be taken care of by your side. It's not that you can't do it, but it's better to have you. ”

This is white snow.

I haven't seen each other for a few days, and I haven't been in touch anymore, and Han Yi, who drank a little wine, couldn't help but think of Bai Xue. At the dinner table, no one noticed the distraction, between talking and laughing.

The rifts in the relationship accumulate over time, and Hao Yali's matter happens to be just a flashpoint.

After getting off work in the afternoon, because Liu Xiyao was working part-time and there was no one at home, Bai Xue was not in a hurry to go home, and had been sorting out cases in the hospital and completing the work arranged for her by the chief tutor.

In the summer, it was dark late, and it was not until almost nine o'clock, when the night was shrouded, that the snow came out of the hospital. She likes to take the bus at this time, there are not many people, the roads are not too crowded, looking at the night view, blowing the evening breeze, it is also very good.

Myolie Wu said that I am grateful to my ex and ex, one of them taught me how to be an obedient girl, and the other taught me how to be a mature woman.

Presumably, Bai Xue will thank Han Yi for teaching her how to be a mature woman in her only relationship. And as a girl, who wouldn't want to be a carefree little girl?

Ideal love is probably like this, no matter how you call for wind and rain in the workplace, no matter how independent and capable you are.

As soon as you return to him, you can take off your armor and be a child who is safely cared for.

Before Keiko met Qiu Lang, there was a Taobao clothing store that was running very well, every time she went to other places to buy goods, no matter who she was with, she relied on her to make some plans alone, which was very hard, but there was no way, those who could work hard.

Now, she has several offline clothing stores and has also made her own brand, and the responsibility and workload are much more arduous than before, but she doesn't have to be reckless, because Qiu Lang will arrange these things properly for her, and she doesn't have to worry too much about it.

There is a rule that one thing descends to one thing, and when I see him, I feel very secure, which is a feeling that Keiko spontaneously feels.

In the past, Han Yi was the same, Bai Xue would feel very happy as long as she saw Han Yi.

There is a kind of love that shields you from the swords and swords of the world.

There are two types of people, one is to insist on instilling in you that the world is sinister, people's hearts are unpredictable, and society is full of traps.

Another is to try to show you the good side of the world, and do everything he can to shield you from the darkness.

In Bai Xue's heart, Han Yi should belong to the latter, right?

Han Yi is a person who wants to block the swords and swords in the world for you, hoping to protect her with a kind and pure heart, but he is not a person who makes her stupid.

For girls, it's actually tiring. For the sake of his career, she will not ask for his company, and she is still lonely.

Isn't a good relationship like wearing a pair of good shoes that fit and are comfortable, and you don't feel tired? Isn't it as if you're still barefoot, but can it shield you from the thorns under your feet and accompany you to distant places?

Bai Xue once again doubted the relationship between her and Han Yi, has it completely changed?

She is not under much pressure at work, but it is this relationship and her parents' urging to marry that makes her panick, who is now over 26 and about to be 27 years old.

She hasn't fallen in love yet, if she can, she hopes to make up for the three years she left, have a good relationship with Han Yi, and then naturally enter the marriage hall.

People are always entangled. The suspicion is because of the insecurity caused by Han Yi's absence, but he can't let go of that love and Han Yi in his heart.

It is rare for the first love to walk into the marriage hall hand in hand. Too many couples who have been in love with each other have ended up at a fork in the road. But Bai Xue has persevered for so many years, so naturally he will not give up easily.

Some people like to ride horses, and some people like to walk in the woods. Some people want to make great achievements, and some people want to be idle clouds and wild cranes. It's not who is right and who is wrong, no one is better than whom, but the rhythm of the two people is different, and there is no way to go on together.

She and Han Yi are probably in this state of not being able to go on without solving the problem of retention, right?

Good love is not only about loving each other at the moment, but also growing together for a long time. The rhythm is the same, there is no need for who waits for whom, who accommodates whom, who falters to catch up with whom.

The one who loved her would not bear to ask her to give up everything she had now, and to go to his city for him to start over; will not force her to give up the career she likes and find a comfortable job so that she can help him take care of the children in the future; He will not limit her growth in the name of love, and he will not stop her from embracing the future she wants.

So far, Han Yi has done a good job, and he hasn't embarrassed Bai Xue, an assertive person.

There is a saying that good love is when you see the whole world through one person; And bad love is when you give up the world for one person.

The person who deserves to be loved for a long time is the one who will not hinder you from growing freely and is more willing to grow with you.

The love that grows up at the same time does not mean that if you encounter a trough, he will leave you.

He will hold your hand tightly when you are facing difficulties. He shares your grief, understands your anxiety, and tries to pull you out of the emotional quagmire.

Zhang Xiaoxian said: The best way to live is to rely on myself when I want to rely on myself, and rely on men when I like to rely on men. I will fight against the odds, give up the great future in the eyes of others to fight for the dream of a hero, I don't need you to help me, but I still secretly hope in my heart that if I unfortunately fail, you will stand behind me. I will live my life actively, conscientiously and hard, but I also hope that when I am at a low point and trapped in the dark, you can tell me: don't be afraid, there is me.

Love needs to be independent and dependent on each other. When you're happy, I'll smile too; When you grieve, my heart aches, too. It's not that my life would be terrible without you. But with you, our lives will all be better.

Wang Xiaobo wrote to Li Yinhe: "You and I are like two children, surrounding a secret jam jar, tasting it little by little, to see how much sweetness it contains. ”

When they meet the same frequency, they sometimes become childish children with each other, curiously stealing a very sweet and sweet jam jar; Sometimes they will become brave adults at the same time, and resist the storms of life together. The so-called love is to find the person who is willing to share the ups and downs with you and move forward hand in hand.

From the age of eighteen to the present, the person Bai Xue identified has not changed.