The adult world is never so easy, life is for anyone - if you can't survive it, you will be out, and if you can survive, you will be outstanding. Maybe everyone will have inexplicable confusion when they encounter setbacks, and they will also have inexplicable loss when they are powerless in the face of things.

In the TV series Melrose, Melrose's life is miserable. In his life experience, he has suffered a lot of torture, and his life is also broken and broken.

When confronted with the girl he loves, even the girl says to him: "You are a self-depraved waste." ”

Melrose famously said: Life is nothing but a bag full of, or the kind that leaks, and you can't avoid touching it.

He told a hotelkeeper his famous saying, but for the first time, the hotelkeeper actually said, "Sir, I believe this is common knowledge of mankind." ”

Nine times out of ten, unsatisfactory things in life are inevitable. After all, a person's life goes through a long period of several decades, during which a person is bound to encounter some unpleasant situations.

Still, we have a choice, and since they can't avoid rabbits, we accept them and try to adapt to them.

A few years ago, Song Dandan wrote an autobiography - "The Depths of Happiness". In the book, Song Dandan unreservedly recounts her personal experience and emotional life.

She was expected to be very careful not to touch the experience, but she was very calm.

This book is like a hidden key to happiness. Because in her opinion, there is nothing in the world that is unforgivable.

Song Dandan's first love happened at the age of 19, and the object was Yuan Gang, a 1.84-meter-tall retired soldier, but the 5-year relationship finally ended due to "disagreement".

That year, China ushered in a boom in going abroad, and Yuan Gang's brothers and sisters all went abroad one after another.

One day, Song Dandan went to her boyfriend's house for dinner, and when several people were sitting around the dinner table and eating hotly, Yuan's mother suddenly proposed to let her son take his passport to buy salad oil.

Only then did she know that her boyfriend was going abroad, and her first boyfriend, who had been in love for 5 years, was going abroad, but she was the last one to know.

On this day, she suddenly understood that Yuan Gang had never regarded the fate of the two as together, and he had never thought of taking the road of life with him.

After many years of sincere love, it ended without a problem.

At 1:28 p.m. on January 29, 2011, Song Dandan posted a eulogy on Sina Weibo, blowing up the death of her first boyfriend in the early morning of the same day.

In the article, she expressed her regret and nostalgia for her deceased old friend, and admitted on Weibo that the two had been together for five years.

In 1986, Song Dandan entered her first marriage at the age of 24. When she talked about her first marriage, she summed it up with "I am very grateful to him". Song Dandan said that during that time, I wanted to write poems for him every day,

After ending the first love relationship that year, in order to eliminate the shadow of a broken relationship for several years, he married her boyfriend Lightning who had been in love for three months. It's a pity that the marriage only lasted a year, and they broke up. After completing the divorce procedures, he took Song Dandan very seriously

He said, "In the future, if you are famous, never mention my name on any occasion or under any circumstances." ”

More than 20 years have passed, and Song Dandan herself has been fulfilling her promise, and no one knows the name of her first husband.

When she talked about her second relationship, Song Dandan, who laughed heartily, hesitated and choked up.

Her second marriage was once called the most satisfying life for her, but it still came to the point of poverty. Song Dandan and Yingda have a 10-year marriage, but at the time of the divorce, Song Dandan said: "We can't wait to hold hands to divorce." ”

Soon after divorcing Yingda, Song Dandan met Zhao Yuji with the help of a friend, and the two fell in love for 28 days.

On August 25, 1997, that is, Song Dandan's 36th birthday, she and her current husband Zhao Yuji, who had only known each other for 28 days, had a "flash marriage".

Zhao Yujie is a master's student at Fudan University in Shanghai, and she is very easy-going, and Sister Dandan often double-in-and-out, and started a sweet life.

After experiencing so many joys and sorrows, Song Dandan said: "I originally only wanted a hug, but I accidentally got a kiss, and then you found that you needed a bed, a suite, and a certificate, and when you divorced, you remembered that you originally only wanted a hug." ”

People always grow up and go farther and farther, but it is difficult to remember the original intention when they look back after going far. If wishful thinking is too difficult, it may not be that it backfires, but that you want too much, and the moment of letting go is too difficult.

When Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman got married, they were dissuaded by everyone.

Xu Zhimo divorced his wife Zhang Youyi for the sake of Lu Xiaoman, and Lu Xiaoman also broke up with her husband Wang Geng amicably. After several twists and turns, when Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman got married. The parents of both parties hated their actions and refused to attend the wedding.

Even Xu Zhimo's mentor Liang Qichao wrote a letter to dissuade him, and in the letter, Liang Qichao said: "Shima! Is there a perfect universe under heaven? When we know that we do not seek perfection as the attitude of life, we can appreciate the wonderful taste of life. ”

But Xu Zhimo wrote back: "I will visit my only soul mate in the vast sea of people, and I am fortunate to have it; No, my life. So much for. ”

Life is so hard, but with the person who understands you by your side, no matter how hard the days are, your heart will be warm because of your intimate actions. Ruyi is too difficult, may you be willing in everything, and life must be lived like a madman, in order to forget the bumps that life gives us.

I hope that everyone can have the self-confidence on the face, the kindness that grows in the bottom of the heart, the backbone that is rubbed into the blood, the gentleness that blows on the face, and the strength that is carved into the life. At this point, the breeze is clear and the moon is clear, the spring flowers are blooming, it is too difficult to wish, and the future is only willing.

When we are young, we always take our relationships very seriously and are extremely firm to the people we like. Even if we fall in love with someone who is not worthy, we would rather be wronged than turn away.

However, affectionate people will be ruthlessly wounded. When you hold out a true heart for him, he always ignores your existence; When you are careful to protect your relationship, he always says cold things and excessively things to pierce your heart.

You will also feel uncomfortable, why your own efforts can't be exchanged for his warmth

； Why is my own dedication always disappointed again and again? You'll even spend countless sleepless nights asking yourself over and over again, if you're not doing well enough?

But you forget, it's not that you're not good enough, maybe it's just that you love the wrong person.

Someone once said: "A good relationship is to accompany each other and become the sunshine of each other." If you love someone, if he makes you wake up happily every day, sleep peacefully every night, be full of motivation to do everything, and look forward to the future, then you are not in love with the wrong person. ”

After Han Yi sent Yi Yang away, he took out the long-lost fountain pen and exquisite diary that he turned out from the drawer, and wrote down the events and feelings of these days.

This, he thought, is probably the best look of love. A worthy relationship, the two people in it, must understand each other and achieve each other. On the contrary, if a person is always making you cry and have trouble sleeping, then this person must not be your lover.

You have to believe that you can meet the right person when you leave the wrong person. In a long time, there will definitely be someone who will come just for you. He will cherish you and protect you from being displaced. And you will eventually understand that if you love the right person, you really don't have to fight so hard.

In this world, "love but can't" is not the deepest regret, in an unworthy person, losing oneself is the biggest disappointment to oneself.

It's not that he thinks that Bai Xue is the person he loves wrong, but he is even more convinced that Bai Xue is the person he cares about and cares about.

When I saw a familiar figure on the street corner, I couldn't help but be silent for a long time; When I heard a familiar piece of music in the café, my heart was already turbulent; In the night when no one was around, I looked through the photos of the past, and finally lost sleep with tears.

When we think about someone, we may be calm and light on the surface, but our whole heart has fallen for her.

Whether she's around you or not, you'll expect to be the first person you see when you wake up, and the one who says goodnight to you before bed. When you encounter happy things, you want to share them with her, and if you have grievances in your heart, you want to tell her.

You will think about her quietly in your free time, and you will also unconsciously worry about her in busy intervals. Countless times I clicked into her circle of friends, just wondering if she was doing well. You always understand her better than others, and even if she doesn't say anything, you can sense her happiness and sadness.

Once, I always thought about her like this.

I know best what it's like to think about a person.

It's a kind of heart-wrenching longing, and it's your heart full of eyes that only her. Sometimes, it's really hard to think about someone, because your joys and sorrows change with her; But sometimes, I feel very happy to think about someone, because when I think of the beautiful moments between you, my whole heart will be surrounded by sweetness.

This life is neither short nor long, and there are not many people who can make me worry from the bottom of my heart. Although thinking is often accompanied by sadness, if there is a choice, I still hope that there is such a person who can be remembered in my heart.

You say calm down for a while, how long will that be?

Persuade

Anyone can say anything, but they can't enlighten themselves; I understand all the big truths, but I can't let go of them anyway. I miss someone, but I always hide her deep in my heart.

This is Han Yi, who is mature and mature, and naïve and naïve.

Han Yi took the car key given to him by Yi Yang, looked at it carefully, and couldn't help sighing: "It's good to be rich!" ”

When he arrived downstairs in the company in the afternoon, he had already seen the 2016 special edition red Pagani that Yi Yang said, and he couldn't help but take a few more looks, after all, he was also a car lover.

"Mr. Han is good!"

As soon as he went out, he met Xia Bo, and he looked at Han Yi with a solemn expression and said hello.

"Come with me!"

Han Yi had already read the information about Xia Bo that Keiko had left for him, it was very detailed, and Keiko had carefully investigated it.

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