"A poor boy who loves me, a rich man who loves me, I choose the latter······"

In fact, what Leng Qian said was not wrong, but she played with Qiu Lang's feelings too much.

Keiko once said something like this: Look at me, the money is a little, right? I can buy a car, buy a house, buy a bag, and I can do it myself, so why should I find someone who is worse than me? Of course, if I really love that person, then I can raise him, but there must be a premise, he must love me.

Sanmao also said that if I don't love him, he is a millionaire and I will not marry, and if I love him, he is a multimillionaire and I will marry.

Advocating a better material life can not be understood as money worship in a partial way, and now that the pressure of social life is so great, who doesn't want to have a good material foundation and be able to live a little easier?

Leng Qian didn't understand Qiu Lang at that time, and she didn't know the joy of ordinary life.

Qiu Minsheng is a person who devotes himself to his career, and the only one who can distract him from his career is Qiu Lang. In order to balance the two, he used the most common way to compensate for Chu Lang, which was to give him enough money. But Qiu Lang is stubborn and has always had a grudge against his father, he is unwilling to use the money, but he uses the same living expenses as other international students, he lives at ease and happily, so in Leng Qian's eyes, he is a poor boy.

If Leng Qian really worships money, then I have to say that she missed a big gold mine.

She didn't understand the withdrawn Qiu Lang at that time, and she didn't understand that happiness and happiness had nothing to do with money.

Keiko and Bai Xue have a common high school classmate named Yang Lili, with an ordinary name and ordinary appearance, but she has done an unusual thing: she married a poor and white senior without hesitation, and became a poor man's wife from a poor family.

Such a "weak union" is undoubtedly a nightmare in the eyes of most girls.

Yang Lili's family conditions are not good, and her classmates knew it on the day she entered school. She came to report alone with her bedding luggage, and she was two days late, and the head teacher even called to urge her.

There was only one upper bunk left in the corner of the dormitory. She jumped up neatly with her hands and feet, and introduced herself while tidying up: "Hello, my name is Yang Lili, and I help cut rice at home, so I'm a few days late."

She laughed as she spoke, and her white-washed jeans seemed to be smiling, and she had a simple atmosphere accumulated over many years of labor.

In the three years of high school, Yang Lili's grades were great, and she never fell into the top ten in her grade. But when she filled in the college entrance examination, she abandoned many first-class colleges and universities, and the volunteer form was filled in with all free normal colleges.

Of course, they all know that the school with tuition reduction and subsidy is the best choice for her who is worried about tuition and living expenses.

They felt sorry for her, but she was still happy, prepared all the daily necessities, and set off to school alone again. On that day, she bought a hard-seat train ticket, traveled for two days and two nights, crossed most of China, and finally went to the capital to study.

At that time, Yang Lili wrote such a message in QQ space (yes, QQ space was popular at that time), one is food, one

Scoop drinking, in the alleys, people are unbearable, and they don't change their pleasures.

Optimistic, strong, and able to endure hardships, Keiko and Shirayuki both believe that this girl will have a good tomorrow.

In her sophomore year, Yang Lili fell in love with Li Ming, a senior from a fellow villager. came and went, and they all had some feelings for each other, and in the water between their heads and eyes, they wanted to talk about it a little more.

In those years, Keiko and Yang Lili got very close, of course, they just chatted often on QQ, after all, they were not in the same city. She mentions it occasionally, and her tone is sweet, but she can't hide a trace of melancholy.

Li Ming is also a typical poor student, who has taken out a four-year student loan and relies on work-study to make ends meet on weekdays. Fortunately, he worked hard and got the national scholarship every year.

However, at that time, Li Ming was like a fly parked on the window pane, with a bright future, but he didn't know where the road was.

The girl who has been polished by poverty is actually more rational and sober than anyone else, and she understands the true value of a marriage better. Therefore, she avoided his burning gaze, and did not say good, nor bad.

Until one winter night, when she was working as a tutor, she inadvertently saw him standing under the street lamp through the window, stamping his feet and hands, but his mouth was full of words, and he looked up at the window from time to time, but his anxious face was full of joy.

Later, I learned that he picked her up after cleaning the school building every day, and memorized English words in the interval between waiting for her.

A poor young boy can prove that the best way to prove love is to be good to her and work hard for her.

He was really nice to her, and he worked hard enough, and she was really happy. A thought suddenly broke out of the ground from the bottom of my heart, seeing that this cold winter was long, but the spring heart suddenly sprouted and blossomed.

Her sisters in the dormitory said not to fall in love with the poor. At the best age, you should wear the most beautiful clothes, eat the best food, and drink the strongest wine.

The girl's youth can't be consumed, waiting for him to work hard to get ahead? Don't make a fuss, how tired is that, and can you guarantee that he will succeed?

Yang Lili responded to her bitter roommates with a calm smile, and when she looked back at the computer, Li Ming happened to send a message from QQ:

I decided, signed a job in Angola, with an annual salary of nearly 300,000 yuan a year, and I can complete the original accumulation of capital in three or two years. I will make you live a good life, what others have, I will earn it for you with both hands, it may be a little slow, but I will not give up.

Those years were really not very good, the two of them had a big meal of chicken rice at the school gate, shopping only dared to go to the zoo where the stalls were rampant, the most torturous thing was the winter vacation and the Spring Festival, with two station tickets across most of China, the bones often fell apart when they returned home······

Is it bitter? It's really a little, the body of the mortal body will naturally yearn for eating, drinking and pleasure. But in the psychological and physical contest, it is often the former who has the upper hand.

Because she remembered that he had sandwiched all the chicken nuggets into her bowl, and she knew that he had used his one-year scholarship to buy her coats,

She found out that he had quietly booked her ticket and bought herself a standing ticket······

The world is indeed difficult, but there is such a person who keeps all your thoughts and wishes in his heart, and has been running forward in order to give you a better life. Then, even if you live in the dust, you should be able to bloom a flower in your heart.

This is also the supreme favor, even if in the end, the two people are still drinking white porridge and swallowing pickles, and they are also snuggling up to each other.

Yang Lili said: I always believe that love can become our driving force.

Love will never be humble because of poverty, and what is humble is those who are easily changed by poverty, and even abandon love and dreams.

Li Ming flew to the distant African continent after graduation, built bridges and paved roads on the equator, and vividly interpreted the true meaning of the three words "hard-earned money" with sweat.

Yang Lili was originally reluctant to let her sweetheart endure hardships, but Li Mingyi did not hesitate. Going to Africa is very hard, but it is better than having a good income. As a man, he felt obligated to save enough money for his girlfriend before she graduated to give her a certain degree of stability and abundance.

So, in the last year of college, Yang Lili's life became more prosperous than ever. Most of Li Ming's salary has been transferred to her card, and when the two of them are video chatting, Li Ming always waves his hand: "Buy whatever you want, now my husband can afford to support you!"

He was much darker and thinner, but he had a bright smile on his face. After the two of them quietly finished talking about love, they began to calculate wages and housing prices little by little. As a normal student with targeted training, Yang Lili must return to her hometown school to teach. Li Ming decided to return to his hometown after the contract expired, buy a house, and use the experience accumulated in three years to open a small construction company. In this way, the hardships and hardships of the father's generation have basically gone away, and this is enough happiness for the two people who are used to suffering.

"The man who is truly worthy of love may make you miserable for a while, but not for a lifetime." Yang Lili has always thought so.

And the girl who is truly worthy of love will never care about his momentary downfall, and the gentleness and tenacity she exudes will definitely become his most solid backing force.

Two years ago in the fall, Li Ming finally returned. At this time, Yang Lili has been a middle school Chinese teacher in her hometown for two years, and on the day she picked up the airport, she posted a circle of friends, which was a photo of three years ago, taken on the day of Li Ming's graduation, and it was a group photo of the two at the school gate.

She also wrote a sentence: We were poor that year, but happy. Now we are not poor, and we are still happy.

There is an ultimate achievement and happiness in the world, it is two people holding hands in the cold winter and walking step by step to spring. When a hundred flowers bloom and the scenery is beautiful, it is you who is by my side.

It is never the rich and the poor that dominate love, but the determination of two people to get better together.

This world is indeed very realistic, but there is always a corner that can accommodate a couple of men and women who are seriously in love with each other, and two hearts that love each other.

Happiness may be late, but it is never absent. However, for Yang Lili, her happiness has never left.

For feelings

If she can't waste her life on the person she likes, then she would rather waste her life on herself.

Being with the person she loves, becoming each other's sunshine because of each other's company, he makes her happy to get up every day, sleeps peacefully every night, is full of motivation to do everything, and is full of expectations for the future, this kind of life is what she needs.

In the face of a person she likes, she can do laundry, cook, wash pots, and wash dishes every day and feel very enjoyable, and he only needs to hug her tightly in the back while she washes the dishes.

And in the face of a person who needs to be compromised, even if all the housework is done by him alone, she will feel unhappy and depressed to the point of suffocation.

Shaohua is fleeting, years may not repay her stubbornness, if life will eventually be wasted, then she will waste it on a person she loves, if he has not appeared for the time being, then she will first turn herself into the person she likes.

She won't go and don't want to be the object of others, the road to marriage is already difficult, and the future is so far, if she wants to go to the future, how can she survive?

She only has one time in her life, and she can't give generously to someone she doesn't love. A person who loves her and is willing to work so hard for her, she can't put it down, whether she is poor or rich. Besides, have you lived so many years of hard life? No matter how bad it is, right?

She boldly loves Li Ming, who is so poor that she only has love for her, and she is extremely happy.

Maybe Bai Xue was also somewhat influenced by her, loving someone, what he cares about is always a person's heart, not those things outside the body, but if he happens to have it, then why not?

A person who has truly loved will understand how happy it is to love and be loved. If there are other substances mixed in, it will inevitably deteriorate, and although it is difficult to avoid contamination, you must do your best to do it, right?

Leng Qian is not wrong with Qiu Lang who left because of the pursuit of materialism, but in fact, they are not all the way at all, she is a person who needs freshness to satisfy her heart, maybe what she wants is that kind of fast love.

Nowadays, both men and women are generally immersed in it, and this kind of love does not last long, and can only satisfy the passion and curiosity of the moment.

People often ask, do you have someone you like? How much do you like it?

Qiu Lang once chatted with Han Yi about some things about Yi Yang, once he shook a girl in WeChat, and the two immediately chatted hotly, and couldn't wait to meet the next day, Yi Yang was very satisfied with her after meeting, and expressed his heart to her affectionately that night.

Maybe such a confession came too suddenly, and the girl hesitated and didn't agree.

He turned around and said to Qiu Lang: Qiu Lang, I fell in love with a girl, I fell in love with her at first sight, I missed her when I ate, and I missed her when I slept.

also asked Qiu Lang to help him with advice, saying that he had to catch up. The degree of enthusiasm is no less than the passion when he plays masturbation.

As a result, two weeks later, Qiu Lang and a few friends went out to drink together, and found that Yi Yang was followed by a fashionably dressed girl, saying that it was him

girlfriend. Qiu Lang looked at it, hey, why didn't he look like the one Yi Yang showed him last time.

Taking advantage of his girlfriend's efforts to go to the bathroom, Qiu Lang couldn't help but ask him, co-authored, I haven't seen him for a week, and even my crush has changed.

He smiled awkwardly, patted Qiu Lang's thigh and said: The previous woman's Taizuo chased it for a week, but she didn't catch it yet, so she changed it. Oh, I caught up with this two or three days of hard work, and I went to bed in less than a week, and I still looked good.

He squinted at the girl who was walking slowly towards him from the other end of the toilet, hugged her waist, and affectionately called her a little baby.

Not surprisingly, a month later, they broke up peacefully.

I don't know when it began, people can't stand the wait anymore, and the likes blurted out have become consumer goods in the fast food era, saying that liking is too easy, and letting go is only a matter of moments.

Leng Qian met a boy on a blind date not long ago, after all, she is over thirty years old now. At first glance, the eye edge was not bad, and the two of them left each other's WeChat to learn more about it.

On the first day after going back, the boy took the initiative to drive her off work, and the chat on the WeChat phone was hot, ambiguous and just right, which made people think about it.

Her friends cheered for her marriage, because Leng Qian has rich experience in love, or she is a veteran in the love field, she knows how to advance and retreat, but she always maintains a reserved attitude.

But despite this, the boy's casual words of liking touched her heart tightly, she was not like this before, but now it may be because the boss is not small and more sensitive. I think boys are not bad, and I have a little bit of a desire to take the initiative.

Once a boy bought two movie tickets and asked her to go out to watch a movie, but unfortunately, Leng Qian happened to be working overtime to catch up on a project that day, so she politely refused.

After this time, the boy never made an appointment with Leng Qian once, and he has always been cold and indifferent to her, Leng Qian didn't understand it very much, but she was embarrassed to take the initiative to ask the boy, so she had to go to the friend who helped her introduce the object and probe for her.

Her friend told her that the boy was already with another girl, saying that she was too difficult to chase and didn't want to waste time.

This is really capsized in the gutter, and she Leng Qian is also a veteran of the love scene!

This kind of acquaintance has been less than a week, and the number of dates is less than a finger, and the fact that they are about to develop into boyfriend and girlfriend so quickly will naturally make Qiu Lang feel incredible.

Girls are too good to chase after men don't cherish it, and always want to give each other a little more space to understand, but the other party has long run out of patience. Behind the attack of sweet words, maybe he has already cast a net like a fish in a haystack, he will not take the time to understand her character, he does not need to know her story, as long as her face and figure are his dishes, love is not a casual thing.

Is it because some girls are too difficult to flirt, or is that like too cheap? This is a question worth digging into.

The old days have slowed down,

The carriages, horses, and mail are slow, and there is only enough time to love one person in a lifetime.

And now life is becoming more and more convenient and fast, coffee can be brewed quickly, fish-flavored shredded meat can be eaten quickly, in the pursuit of fast-paced today, the bullet train has been replaced by high-speed rail, and it has become easy to meet and leave.

I have seen those infatuated lovers who said in WeChat that they love to death and live must live, and suddenly married someone else after breaking up; I've also seen those who change boyfriend and girlfriend frequently as if they were changing clothes.

There was once a hero who said that he would take care of a woman for the rest of his life, spoiling her to lawlessness, but he didn't look back and left one day not far away.

A beautiful but "dead-eyed" girl like Bai Xue is particularly difficult to chase! When she was in school, she had countless suitors, sending WeChat messages to her every day, asking for warmth, sending flowers and gifts, but I didn't see any signs of her heartbeat.

Even when she wasn't with Han Yi, the opposite sex who pursued her around her wondered if she had someone she liked for a long time. After being with Han Yi, her old classmates who didn't know often shushed her and asked her for warmth. She ignored them all, or directly told people that she had a boyfriend, and the funny thing was that she saw those boys who kept saying that they liked her on the circle of friends but were flirting with the girls they knew together.

A girl builds a heart wall, which does not mean that she does not accept love, but does not want her feelings to be consumed casually.

Some people may say that young people nowadays are accustomed to fast love.

I love without heart and lungs, and I pat my ass when I'm unhappy, so the reason why I separated faster and faster became inappropriate after two or three sentences of quarrel.

In fact, girls often crave an unwavering love more in their hearts, and always want to hold hands with the person they like, and live a lifetime when they go to bed.

Helpless but living in this era when there is no result in bed, saying that love is too cheap, who doesn't want to be a long stream, but is afraid that he will encounter disappointment and build a heart wall.

When you say that you like someone, be serious, try to know her bit by bit, and explore her inner drama, is it so difficult?

Is it so hard to say that the pace of love is slower?

The word love is more like a promise, and who wants to suffer after having a fantasy?

(End of chapter)