Bai Xue came to Li Jia's house to sincerely apologize for causing Li Jia's wrist fracture, and after getting her forgiveness, the two talked a lot, of course, these topics had to avoid Han Yi.

"Do you know that Yang Jie?" Li Jia asked.

"Of course I know that, but didn't she leave Chongqing after graduating a long time ago?" Bai Xue is naturally familiar with this name, and the old employees of Yihui Studio left Chongqing shortly after she went abroad.

"Last weekend, Yang Jie, who was married far away, came back to visit relatives. A few of our girlfriends picked up the wind for her, and after three rounds of wine and five flavors, everyone started to complain about marriage and the current situation.

When it comes to trivial quarrels between husband and wife, they all have a deep understanding. Speaking of running away from home during the quarrel, everyone looked at Yang Jie with their eyes, and showed sympathetic glances.

One of the straight friends said, "Oh, fortunately, I didn't marry far away after listening to my mother's words at that time, otherwise I wouldn't even have a place to go after a quarrel, so I could only walk on the road, and I feel sad when I think about it."

Afraid of touching Yang Jie's sore spots, everyone signaled her to stop talking. And she can't receive everyone's signals at all. Continue to ask, Yang Jie, every time you quarrel, where do you go when you run away from home?

Yang Jie smiled and said, I won't go anywhere, every time I quarrel, he runs away from home. What the? Everyone spoke in unison, all of them were extremely surprised, and then the collective counted down the man.

Call him selfish and petty, say he's irresponsible, say he's not a man.

Yang Jie didn't interrupt everyone's words, just quietly listened to everyone's words. She added that it was because he ran away from home every time I had a fight that I decided to marry him.

We stared at her with round eyes one by one, it was incredible.

Yang Jie continued: When the first time we quarreled very fiercely, I was about to leave with my bag, but he snatched my bag and scolded me loudly, you stay honest, you want to go, I'll go. He walked away without looking back, leaving me huffing and puffing. Early the next morning, he appeared in front of me with swollen eyes and anger with soy milk fritters. I couldn't stand his hippie smile and soft grinding bubbles, and I finally stopped struggling with my hungry stomach. I gobbled it up while pretending to ask the teacher, I can go over everything else, but I can't forgive you for running away from home as a big man. He put his hands on my shoulders and said to me solemnly, because I don't want you to go out alone. You have no relatives or friends here, where can you go when you go out? So I'm the only one to go out and let you get angry. I can't promise not to make you angry, or I can't promise not to quarrel with you, but I can promise that no matter how much you argue, I won't let go of your hand, and I won't let you wander out alone.

Yang Jie said that after that time, she decided to marry that man. After marriage, every time there was a big quarrel, it ended with him running away from home.

Looking out of the window, looking at his back, looking at the night of the city, although angry, she didn't feel lonely. Although the five flavors in the heart are mixed, there is always a faint sweetness in the five flavors.

Once, his friend complained to her sister-in-law

, can you not drive my brother out in the future, or his girlfriend will turn against me. Yang Jie looked up at him, he also looked at Yang Jie, the signal sent out at the moment when their eyes met, they all understood, that is, there should be less quarrels in the future. Now, it's been five years since I got married, and I can't basically quarrel with each other.

After listening to her words, we all fell silent.

Some people say that whether a man loves you or not, you will know it after a fight.

Some people say that quarrels see character.

I would like to say that running away from home also sees character. Behind Yang Jie's husband running away from home, he is not at ease, and he is not worried that she is going out alone. is reluctant, reluctant to leave her alone and helpless. It is a person who loves it, rooted in the heart, and has a deep sense of responsibility. ”

Li Jia continued: "A few days ago, a female manager of the company said that she was going to resign and return to her parents' house with her children, and complained to me that she planned to divorce. In fact, I didn't know what to say, so I just persuaded her that who doesn't blush, doesn't quarrel, and has to constantly collide with her tongue and teeth.

Early yesterday morning, she complained to me again, saying that after she returned home, she ignored the child in her arms and screamed vigorously: You don't understand me, but if you can get by, you think I am willing to leave!

Her mother was not to be outdone, and roared back: You should talk about it, while your sister is here, let's see, what is it that makes you have to leave?

She burst into tears, she said that every time they quarreled, he never let her. Even if she had a big belly for more than eight months, even if she didn't come home for a night with her one-year-old child in her arms, he would never call her.

She said that when she married away from home, she was lonely, and her heart was already cold.

After listening to it, her mother whispered a word of underestimation, it sounds like a big thing about sesame, as for it? It's all her mother, don't be too pretentious.

She was about to go crazy and said: Are you satisfied with forcing me to jump from the fifth floor with the child? Her voice was hoarse, and her mother didn't understand, but I thought, I know, and you know.

I persuaded her to calm down at home first, and if she couldn't go on, she would leave. Divorce is nothing now, and there are many people who live happily after remarriage. Then, tell her to adjust well, take care of the child, and her mood is restored, and she is welcome to come back at any time.

As far as Lao Feng and I are concerned, I also think that it is very common for husbands and wives to quarrel, but after a quarrel, it is not common for men to be so indifferent. In the end, in fact, he doesn't love her enough. ”

Bai Xue knew what Li Jia wanted to say, and knew that she wanted to say something good for Han Yi. She didn't deliberately divert the topic and asked Li Jia not to continue.

Li Jia held her hand and continued to talk without being tired at all: "Recalling all the awkward troubles between me and Lao Feng in the past, my heart is still warm. No matter how noisy and noisy it is at the moment, even if the noise makes him lose his old Feng's demeanor, the noise shows my shrewd nature. However, the last moment I was about to turn around and open the door, he would hold me tightly. Let me cry, let me make trouble, let me beat, let me fight, he won't let go. When everyone was calm, he said that he had watched a movie before, a couple had a quarrel, and every time the man chased him out, then

The latter two reconciled. Once, after a quarrel, the woman ran out again, and this time the man didn't chase him out in time, and the heroine was hit and killed on the spot by an oncoming truck. After getting the news, the man broke down. He was full of remorse, and he hated himself for not chasing him out in time. Two people who love each other have been separated by yin and yang since then. He was very touched. After marrying me, he swore that no matter how much he quarreled, he would have to quarrel behind closed doors. If you really need someone to leave right now to make the other person feel better, that person is him. Because, let me go out with emotions, he didn't feel at ease. ”

Li Jia said meaningfully: "What is a husband and wife: love each other for a lifetime, quarrel for a lifetime, endure for a lifetime, this is husband and wife." At the wedding, who is not willing to say the "I do", who is not full of confidence to hold each other's hands and want to get white. However, chicken feathers are the truth of life. Every day, firewood, rice, oil, salt and sporadic trivialities make it difficult for people not to quarrel. It's not terrible to quarrel, it's the attitude after a quarrel to be terrible. Running away from home doesn't kill you, but the indifference after running away from home is dead. I don't want to say anything nice about the boss, it's just that I've been with him for so many years, and I just know that he has never been so attentive to and so loving a woman other than you. I think you know better than anyone that he really loves you. If you love him, don't choose to solve the problem in the wrong way, don't avoid it. If you love him, please don't let you leave with sadness and helplessness, and don't leave a heart of indifference. ”

Bai Xue listened to Li Jia say so much, and finally responded.

"I know what you say. We actually didn't quarrel a lot, but every time he took the initiative to compromise with me, even though I was wrong a lot of the time. There are even times when I deliberately say something to anger him, just to test his love, and every time he behaves impeccably. She would never let me run away from home, afraid that I would be wronged a little bit, and leave me all the good things, I know all this. But this time is different, I really can't help but mind, there's no way not to think about Hao Yali and the child in her belly, at least I can't accept such a thing in my heart now. ”

Li Jia can also understand that it is also unacceptable to put it on her, but no matter what, she doesn't want her relationship with Han Yi to end like this because of this incident.

"After the intravenous drip in the afternoon, when he sent me back, he asked about Hao Yali. I really didn't lie, he didn't know that Hao Yali was pregnant with his child in the first place, and he still didn't believe it. When I mentioned this incident, it was the first time I saw him so uncalm, and he slapped himself hard. After he knew about it, the first thing that came to his mind was you, and he knew that it would be difficult for you to accept such a thing and would leave him again because of this matter, so he didn't dare to say it to you. But he didn't want to hide this matter all the time, he just wanted to find a suitable opportunity to explain it to you after he figured out the whole thing, and he was always afraid that you would know about it yourself before he took the initiative to tell you about it, so I would hide it from you to find Hao Yali. ”

"Alright, let's stop talking about that! There's really been a lot going on lately

Love, give me some time to digest it. Bai Xue reluctantly raised the corners of her mouth and said to Li Jia: "I'm really sorry to hurt your wrist like this!" As compensation, I will take care of you for the rest of your days until your hands are healed. ”

"Ouch, don't do that! I'm angry if I say that again! You're like this, and so is the boss! He said that he had come to pick me up for injections for the past few days, and after the swelling subsided, he said to send me to Shenzhen. Li Jia smiled: "I didn't expect it, because of the blessing in disguise, I can finally rest for a while!" ”

Bai Xue didn't know what she was thinking in her heart, so try to avoid meeting Han Yi?

"You tell him, let him not come, give me a chance!" Bai Xue seemed to adjust her mood quite quickly, and looked at Li Jia mischievously and said, "Otherwise, I will die of guilt!" ”

Li Jia smiled, "You still have to go to work!" If he has time, let him come, though! How about you come and cook for me in the evening? ”

Sometimes, if a sad person is always alone, the sad mood will spread infinitely. Li Jia thought that meeting them every day and chatting casually would make them less lonely.

(End of chapter)