Chapter 416: Time is quiet, and it's good to be alone
Hu Zihong once said that in the aria of time, man is like a flower, whether he has his own fruit or not depends on whether he is invested in absorbing the nutrients of nature. The ruthless equality of time, it always tells you: youth has but only once, and the body has only lived this life. Why shouldn't you cherish it?
When you are quietly immersed in a mood of self-forgetfulness, you often ignore the existence of time, you forget your birth and your death - you can only hear the heartbeat of "bangbang". After a long time, you raise your head, and you see, the green shade of the sun has moved another inch, and the young leaves of the trees have grown a little longer, and this is time. Time is stretched out by your silence, and many times are fleeting in a dream.
It is these bits and pieces of insignificant time that make up our lives.
When I was a child, I looked forward to the passing of time, and I longed for time to regenerate a pair of wings and fly fast with my ideals.
When you are young, the gentle warmth of your parents and elders makes you look forward to the time to freeze in a warm moment, in order to taste the sweetness of that moment.
As an adult, you have experienced the love of love and me, started a family, and before you know it, time is like silk sliding down lightly in the palm of your hand, leaving only a trace of abrupt feeling.
One day you enter the ranks of middle age, you suddenly feel: childhood and youth seem to be yesterday's thing, ah, time is so fast, half of your life has been gone Anyway, time is ruthless, youth will not be stagnant because of your expectations, nor will there be half a trace of slow steamed bread because of the emptiness you once had.
When you are old, your expectations for youth can only rely on a little cool feelings, time tells you that youth is an age, but also a state of mind.
It's just that there are not many days to come, and the situation you are in has clearly told you whether your childhood ideals have come true, and what kind of light color has appeared in the quality of your life.
Fortunately, the body is still healthy, the energy is still abundant, in middle age, in old age, you will still carve the weathered marks on your face, and time will still paint a heavy picture in your resume. When you are too old to stop, you will understand the gift of time, and all kinds of feelings will wellspring up in your heart.
Everyone's time is different, and every time period is different.
Life is a person's own non-negotiable patent.
The process of life is the process of time consumption. In the face of time, the greatest man has no power to reverse; We can't buy it, we can't sell it; We only have to choose and use.
Therefore, to cherish life is to cherish time, which is to make the best use of time.
As a result of the recent strong emergence of this consciousness, Zhong Yinger has become more and more stingy in consuming herself.
She tried to choose a relaxed lifestyle, so she didn't want to worry about people who didn't matter.
Perhaps the lightness she is talking about is not pure game life and pleasure, but the pursuit of relaxation and freedom of the soul, and living a self-relaxed life.
Often, this feeling leads to more human and chic choices of behavior.
A person who lives on his own is very tired and will make you around
People and society are also tired. If she can benefit others and groups, it is because she can release this relaxed atmosphere, so that others can be together with her, no matter how short-lived, they can feel happy.
Only ease can make a person's life worthwhile! In the past few years, she lived too hard, and the people and things she encountered made her a different person. Now she wants to change back to the former self in Han Yi's mouth, not to carry so much, to live a little more self-consciously, to make up for the past few years!
Zhong Yinger took advantage of Han Min's home to send Xiaobai back, preparing to go to Xitang again alone.
It may be an unrealizable dream, and in the end, she has to finish and end this dream with regret but not so sad.
The reason why "Xitang" has such a meaning is because of the promise to hit it off at the beginning.
It doesn't matter if it's a place depicted in poetry, paintings, and prose.
Walking alone on the road of time, there is a passing wind blowing gently, although not all the scenery is beautiful, but it is also elegant, without too many waves. Maybe it's long past the age of showing off and being noisy, the freshly dressed angry horses that I used to like have gradually been replaced by blandness, and I used to care so much about other people's eyes, and now I just want to take care of my own warmth and coldness.
The true taste of life lies in a light word, if the heart becomes broad and plain, it will not be depressed because of the neglect of others, nor will it be depressed because of the harm of others, the accumulation of life, so that all the simplicity and beauty, are endowed with the taste of joy, and slowly learn to be calm, the good and the bad do not to render, only appreciate their own scenery, live their own life.
Open the door of time, the sun is still warm, and the time is so quiet, like the safety of a cup of tea. Time in the years tempered more and more mellow, exude a simple and moving light, still living an ordinary day, those petal rain that falls behind you, just like a beautiful loneliness, gains and losses, flowers bloom like fragrance, beautiful as the past, flowers fall like snow, just like the beginning. Time does not need to be depicted in detail, after a long time, it will also give birth to warm fragrance. Life, will eventually come all the way, and go all the way, remember is warm, remember as a thought, you only need to be gentle and powerful, live every day of life.
Sometimes, I just want to be quiet, I don't want to talk to anyone, and I don't want to let my worries pass by. The charm of time lies in awakening the purest feelings in the heart, and a person's corner will also warm the city. I like simplicity and simplicity, I don't have to look forward to a flower event, and I don't have to expect to hold someone's hand, as long as I keep a heart clean and natural. Life, more often is silence and persistence, we are all each other's bystanders, you have your bridge to cross, I have my way to go, but there is always a landscape, we all want to arrive, there is always a place, let you miss, there is always a love, worthy of your collection, passing by, not necessarily will be lost on the road, the years are gentle, see and not see, not to stop.
In time, we are all people in a hurry. Sometimes, you will brave the wind and snow, and sometimes, you will also see the bright and clean morning sun. Every step you take, you will leave a trace, and occasionally, you will be slightly drunk in the warm light, and you will also be there
In the hustle and bustle of the world, try to find yourself.
In addition to love, everything in this world is luggage, so she also hopes to give you poetry and smiling faces along the way. If the poems written can be as simple as life, those flowers watered with kindness will definitely bloom well, but each flower is unique.
Like, you have your way, I have my way back.
Accustomed to walking alone, bowing your head, only looking at the road you want to walk, looking up, and only appreciating the sky above your head, lonely or melancholy, it is also your own state of mind, cold and warm self-knowledge, self-autism, arrogance, it is also a person's landscape, let others say, in fact, not indifferent, not tired, just want to have a piece of quiet land, let me do whatever I want on it.
Schopenhauer said that sometimes, you should be lonely, either lonely or vulgar. In fact, sometimes, it is okay to be lonely and vulgar, if the heart is tired, and do not expect others to understand, there is a place to live, it will generate warmth, loneliness, is a place for the soul to dwell.
Xue Xiaozen said, I am lonely, that's why I love the worldly life so much, as I get older, I gradually understand how to appreciate the imperfections in life, life is like this, parting and reunion, suffering and happiness, always go together, in the noisy and noisy, each of us is lonely.
She likes that sentence, who to sit with, the bright moon and the breeze me, life must not be too rushed, there are idle things in the heart, in order to generate poetry, live life with flowers, there are mountains and rivers in the heart, in order to make life green grass, reach the clarity and peace in the heart, and live the life at will.
Suddenly, what you think is that it is an old street in the city of time, perhaps, you can't remember the name of this street, but there is such a person, who lives in the softest place in her heart, so she can't help but miss the mountains and rivers, the past.
Perhaps, the encounter in this life is a fateful reunion after a long absence, otherwise why does your smile always appear for no reason? If there is such a person, who has made a mark in your life, in the past years, she is his only one, even if her joys and sorrows have long been irrelevant to his joys and sorrows, if you think of it, there will still be warmth, thank you for the long years, to be able to meet.
Life is a practice, walking in the posture of a flower, low eyebrows, just for the person you love, look up, you will see the vast sky and sunshine, open the window of the heart, let the soul into the fragrance, there is warmth in the heart, no matter how far you go, you will not be tired, no matter what kind of encounters you have experienced, you will not be cold. With a graceful and beautiful bloom, it is not flattering or vulgar, and it is beautiful for itself.
Even in the coldest season, in my heart, I want to pretend to be a spring. Write with love, rely on love, have no intention of fighting for spring, be jealous of the group, not afraid of the cold, elegant and fragrant, give the affection to the years, leave the arrogance to yourself, and reveal joy in the cold. No matter how many roads you have walked, a person's scenery is still poetic and picturesque.
However, Zhong Yinger's plan did not succeed, and before she walked out of Han Yi's community, Xia Bo drove to her and took Han Yi's order as the order
insisted on being her driver, and gently dragged her into the car.
Zhong Yinger couldn't resist him, so she had to agree. But also about three chapters in advance, you can't follow her after you send it!
She seems to see very clearly now, and she wants to be alone, walk the way she wants to walk, and see the scenery of a person.
There is a story that God wanted to teach an impetuous man a lesson, so he let the man take a snail for a walk. The snail walked too slowly, and the man was as anxious as an ant on a hot pan. However, the snail is still the same. The man had no choice but to follow the snail and look in the direction its tentacles pointed, and wow, it was a gorgeous beauty!
The human life journey should be balanced. There are loose and tight, busy and idle. When you are busy, concentrate on busy, and accumulate a little more leisure time for the future; And when you are free, you must also be idle wholeheartedly and enjoy the moment, so that you can have the strength to meet the next moment and be more actively busy.
The French poet Luckett once said, "There cannot be two lives, but many people are not good at living even once." ”
The most down-to-earth and precious happiness in life lies in the daily trivial life. Slow down and enjoy the small happiness in life is to reserve strength for the future. Only in this way can we walk more steadily, faster and longer in the balance of relaxation and moderation, in the slow time bit by bit.
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