Xuanxuan pulled Qiu Lang to the middle of their classmates and friends, and introduced them one by one, revealing a trace of pride in their conversations.

“fessionalracer······”

She introduced for three minutes, what professional racing driver, what major she studied, which school she graduated from, what company she founded, etc., and so on, which suddenly made Chu Lang feel that she knew herself better than himself.

Song Jianguo returned to the room and changed his clothes, and then walked up to Han Yi with a smile on his face and said: "After the conference, I specially called Fu Bo and them, and wanted to invite them to come over, but they said that they would go back for a meeting, summarize the major mistakes that occurred today, and prepare for tomorrow's relevant content, so I didn't force it." ”

"Major missteps?" Han Yi was actually calm.

Song Jianguo smiled and patted Han Yi's shoulder, "You're not worried at all!" The so-called mistakes are only relative! It's not convenient for me to say more, work hard, I hope to perform well tomorrow, and strive to see you in the ultimate test! ”

Han Yi didn't have a bottom in his heart, but he still smiled and said, "We'll do our best!" ”

Xuanxuan's small birthday party also became particularly lively because of the arrival of Qiu Lang and Han Yi, of course, not because they were enthusiastic, but because of Qiu Lang's arrival.

"How do you know I like to issue cards?" Xuanxuan opened the birthday gift that Qiu Lang gave her, and excitedly gave Qiu Lang a big hug, which caught him off guard.

Qiu Lang looked at Han Yi, and the corners of his mouth raised slightly.

In fact, Han Yi asked him to buy this gift, Han Yi noticed the hairpin pinned to her short hair when he came to their house yesterday, and she also deliberately held her box full of all kinds of hairpins to show Han Yi.

"He's got another gift for you!" Han Yi smiled: "We went to pick out a gift for an afternoon, I'm afraid you won't like it!" ”

Qiu Lang took out his mobile phone and opened the birthday greeting video that his friend Lang Lang recorded for him, which made Xuanxuan very happy.

"Dad, Mom, Lang Lang! Lang Lang specially recorded a birthday greeting video for me! She ran to her parents with Qiu Lang's mobile phone, and then went to show off in front of her classmates and friends.

Tian Ze, who was a little jealous, sat next to Han Yi, "You guys are too partial, aren't you?" I don't have anything yet! ”

"Well, this one!" Han Yi took out a model sports car from his backpack, "Don't you like Koenigsegg?" Oh, I've got it for you! ”

Song Tianze shook his head helplessly and smiled: "Are you teasing me?" This model I have! ”

"Didn't tease you! This is a real car, of course I don't have it! But he does, didn't you say you want to go back to your country to go to university? What goes back, he will give it to you! Han Yi said and handed the car model into Tianze's hands, "What about this car, I definitely can't afford it!" But I can still give the car model, and then, when the time comes, take this to exchange it for a real car with him! ”

Song Tianze asked ecstatically, "Do you mean it really?" ”

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It's true! Qiu Lang nodded, "Feel free to come to me and get it!" ”

Song Tianze was already crazy with joy, "Do you know why I like racing cars and those cars with particularly cool appearances?" It's because of you, Brother Qiu Lang! Mom put a lot of photos of you racing in the album, and I gradually liked it! But my parents wouldn't let me play or buy me a car. Now that you can finally get your driver's license, you have to talk and count! ”

Did she really collect a lot of my photos? Qiu Lang tried not to think of Yang Suqing, lest he couldn't suppress the hatred for her in his heart and spoil the good atmosphere now.

Qiu Lang regarded himself as a guest like Han Yi, and ate with Song Jianguo and his family, cut cakes, and barbecued······ just avoided Yang Suqing intentionally or unintentionally, although he always saw Yang Suqing looking at him with tears in her eyes.

While Tianze was pulling Qiu Lang to his room to look at those racing models and discuss various cars, Han Yi walked up to Yang Suqing. He could understand why Chu Lang was like this, why he was so cruel, but he couldn't blame Chu Lang for being like this.

"Aunt Yang, you ······ Don't blame Chu Lang, I'm sure he will accept you slowly, you wait patiently! ”

She forced a smile, "No! I don't blame Chu Lang! Never! It's my fault, he hates me and refuses to admit that I deserve it! Actually, it's good to be like this today, I'm still happy, thank you, Han Yi! Thank you for always being there for him! Thank you for bringing him over today! ”

"Aunt Yang, don't thank me, I deserve it!" Han Yi felt that he didn't help Yang Suqing speak, "I know that he has always had you in his heart, you give him a little more time." After all, it's been thirty years, and it's not something that can be accepted by him overnight. ”

"Hmm!" Yang Suqing held Han Yi's hand, "You go over to accompany Lang'er, I'm really fine!" ”

Han Yi said before that there is no empathy in this world at all! He couldn't fully understand the love and hate between Yang Suqing and Qiu Lang, the mother and son, so he could only try to understand them, that's all.

When Han Yi was in the sixth grade of primary school, his grandfather died of a sudden illness.

Because he had a deep relationship with his grandfather, his parents and teachers decided to hide it from him at that time and did not go to school to tell him in the first place.

But he still insisted on going back, but when he learned the news that his grandfather who loved him the most was no longer there, he cried loudly. Not being able to see his grandfather for the last time has become the biggest regret of his life. Even though he was only thirteen or fourteen years old at that time, he still clearly remembers the mood at that time, and often dreams of his grandfather.

At that time, his classmates, teachers, and relatives were comforting him, saying that they could understand him and empathize with him. Han Yi was grateful for their kindness, but he still couldn't reduce his sadness. Each additional reassurance they gave only intensified the severity of his grief.

Because they can't understand that in this world, there is no empathy at all.

If the needle is pricked in one's body, others will never know how much it hurts.

It was only when he was in junior high school that he came into contact with the Internet and saw the very old desktop

The computer, for the first time, knew what a netizen was, and he began to talk to this strange netizen about the memories that he had never told anyone.

That netizen, who was five or six years older than Han Yi, didn't comfort Han Yi too much, just told her to be sad when she should be sad, and to be sad when she should be sad. She also said that whether it is sad or sad, everything will pass.

She has always existed in Han Yi's QQ friends, and she has been in contact from time to time, and when Han Yi was in college, she also shared her story with Han Yi.

She and her husband are in free love, because her husband's family is very good, so after getting married, she did not continue to work. But after getting married, the relationship between the two became worse and worse, and her husband often cheated, and even beat her.

She really couldn't help it, so she told her friends about these things. To her surprise, everyone advised her to endure, "It's understandable that he is so busy with work and has a bad temper, and besides, you don't work, so take care of it more." ”

No one asked her how it felt to stay alone in an empty house every day, waiting for her lover to come home, and no one cared about her, how much her heart hurt when she was scolded, beaten, and disliked.

She said that it was only then that she really understood, "How can you empathize? Because it's only you who hurts. ”

You feel like your heart and liver are torn to blood, and your intestines are about to be torn, but others can't even feel the slightest pain.

They think that your expression looks a little painful, and they sympathize with you in a few words, but then they should be happy or happy, they should go on a date or have to go on a date, and your pain will still be their own in the end.

Han Yi didn't say anything empathetic, and told her the same thing she said at the beginning, although she should be sad, when she should be sad, she should be sad, sad or sad, everything will pass.

Later, she divorced and met someone who didn't beat her or scold her, and she had a good life.

Xin Yiwu said in "Shan Yue Doesn't Know the Bottom of My Heart":

"Our hearts, our flesh grows on each person's body, the ups and downs, the taste of our own taste is only understood by ourselves, don't pin your hopes on others, don't ask others to understand your feelings, no matter how loud you shout, it's in vain."

His own great grievances are just a story in the eyes of others.

There is a plot in the popular movie "Wolf Warrior 2".

The male protagonist risked his life to help everyone repel the mercenaries, and he was injured, but because he was infected with the Ramangela virus, he was disliked by everyone.

Some people say that because he is infected with the virus, he should not be with everyone, and doing so will only harm more people.

There is no way, the actor can only choose to leave in the rain. The accompanying female doctor rushed out to accuse everyone: "You must remember that it was this dying man who was infected with the virus who saved you, and I am ashamed of you!" ”

Those people are only worried that they will be infected with the virus, but they ignore that if it weren't for the hero's rescue of everyone in the rain of bullets, he might have died in the mercenary's bullets.

Human nature is all selfish, with different positions and concerns

It's different, there's really no way to fully understand and understand.

A girl said that her aunt was in pain when she came, but her boyfriend thought that he could drink some hot water, because he had never experienced the heart-rending and painful menstrual cramps;

The housewife is also tired, but the husband who goes to work thinks it is easy to stay at home all day, because he has never prepared three meals a day, has not cleaned the house, and has not taken care of the children;

You say that it is too hard to work overtime every day, but your friend who is idle at work envy you for earning a high salary, because she has never tried to get a headache at night, and she still gets up early and steps on high heels to go to work the next day.

It's like Soda Green singing in the song, "If you walk through it differently, how can you understand".

Li Zhi also sang along, "No matter what you have, we are born to be lonely."

No one is you, and no one can truly empathize with you.

Here's a little story:

There was a little monkey that was wounded, and it was not too small. Someone asked him what was going on with the wound, so the little monkey opened it and showed them it.

All who saw it sighed and comforted before continuing on their way.

In the end, the little monkey who opened the wound again and again died because of the infection of the wound.

Every time we tell others about our pain and long for others to understand, we are like the little monkey who has opened its wounds again and again, and in the end we understand that other people's opinions do not help our growth and continue life, and may even aggravate the harm.

Therefore, a truly mature person will not be the poor little monkey, but a quiet adult: not emotional, nor forcing others to understand, not always staying where he is and sighing, to live his own life.

Qiu Lang didn't forgive Yang Suqing when he first met her, and Xuanxuan's birthday party looked very lively and full of laughter, but in fact, they all felt regret and bitterness.

He still follows his heart, and he wants someone to understand him, but no one seems to be able to.

He knew that even Han Yi hoped that he could forgive his mother, and the same was true for his father and wife at home, but he couldn't do it, at least not now.

(End of chapter)