Do you like your life now? Many people say that life is not easy, and there are too many hardships and grievances; Some people also asked, the world is too big, how can I meet the person I like?

In fact, life is very smart, your kindness, your cunning it is all in sight, you just take care of your own efforts, one day, those who treat life well will definitely be treated well, so instead of tangling, it is better to accept all the good and bad, and then continue to live without a sound. You have lived up to life, and it will not fail you.

Han Yi knew that on the way to the life he wanted, he must be lonely. Just like him, he always hopes that the destined person can understand him and her, and fantasize that they can accompany each other, talk to each other, listen to each other, and be the most important half of each other's lives.

But after going around for a long time, that person, that love, but it feels like going farther and farther.

In this seemingly lonely day, he slowly learned to live alone, although he no longer expects any God-given good fate, nor does he fantasize about fate, but the friendship in his heart for sticking to love is still there, but it seems to be overwhelmed by too many things.

He understands that keeping his heart rich is the magic weapon against loneliness, the so-called loneliness is just touching the scene or doing nothing, people only allow themselves to think too much when they are idle, when he is wrapped up in life and moving forward, he never has time to feel lonely.

Those who complain about the sloppy life and the meaninglessness of life have probably never experienced the feeling of doing their best for what they want.

Everyone has what they want and what they want to live, but many people's thoughts only stay in fantasy, while some people try to turn these things into reality.

Most people are fantasizing about their extraordinary, living the life of an ordinary person, and then going to live their life on the spot. In the end, I didn't get anything, but I lost myself.

Life really can't be compromised, whether it's life or love, once you choose to settle, then in the end, it's yourself who regrets it.

The day he wants hasn't been gotten yet, and the person you want is there, but it feels far away. In these seemingly gloomy days, what he has to do is to fall in love with himself and slowly become the person he wants to be. Little by little, you get what you want.

He knew that maybe he was going through a difficult time at the moment, and maybe he couldn't find the way forward for a while, but don't be in a hurry.

Don't complain, don't be alone, don't compromise. It's an attitude towards life, but it's also an attitude towards love.

As long as he does his best to be himself, he believes that all the hardships he has suffered in life will become light and illuminate the way forward in the future.

Someone asked, have you ever wondered what your life looks like at the age of 30?

Han Yi, who is now 28 years old, has thought about this question countless times.

Get enjoyment and satisfaction from your work!

At the age of 30, I have experienced various trials in the workplace, and I have been fighting all the way in my work for several years

Yu has developed a skill and embarked on the peak of his career. Although there are endless shifts and projects to deal with every day, and my life is so tight that I hardly have time to relax, I like this fulfilling life, I also love this job, and I hope that work can bring me more sense of achievement.

Although this job is extremely hard, it has never been limited by it, and I no longer have to worry about the loss of unemployment. Working for oneself is no longer a last resort to make a living, but I really like my current position, and with my current ability and economic strength, it is enough to give myself an easy life.

Have a friend who understands you!

Since the age of 20, life has been doing subtraction, although there are new people around to join, but the people who can really talk to each other, for their own is not much, 10 years of ups and downs, let me see a lot of people clearly, but also understand which people around them really care about themselves.

At the age of 30, I will no longer be sad for my friends to leave, I understand that those who should go can't stay, and those who understand will not go.

We talk about everything, from astronomy and geography to human love, or we can quietly accompany each other and say nothing. But as long as you are together, you can have peace of mind, you can let go of all defenses, take off your armor, and be yourself completely.

Have a lover who will never leave you!

At the age of 30, I will no longer regard love as the whole of my life, and I understand that good love should be independent and attractive to each other, like the time with her, and love the life when I am alone.

When we were with her, we had endless topics to talk about, but we could make fun of each other, and occasionally make noise, but we never thought of leaving. She doesn't have to be romantic, and life doesn't need to be particularly happy, but we are all very satisfied with the way life is implemented.

I will no longer feel that the world has collapsed because of the departure of love, at this time I have enough confidence to face my love, even if we fail to come together in the end, I can also let go and resume the chic life when I was alone.

I look forward to love, I look forward to love, and I can release love. But fortunately, I saw through love, but I gained a true heart, even if life is stormy, she will not give up.

Dare to give up and start over!

In the movie "29+1", the starring Lin Ruojun has been working hard and living hard, overcoming obstacles all the way, and finally reached the peak of his career, but chose to resign before his 30th birthday, and then parted ways with his boyfriend who had gone through the seven-year itch.

But what is particularly admirable is that in the face of the peak moment of her career, she can calmly give up her job, and in the face of broken feelings, she did not be hysterical and degenerate for some reason, but turned around and walked towards a new life.

The baptism of wind and rain in the past life has long made her stronger, and her hard work has allowed her to have stronger abilities than others at work, and she is financially richer than ordinary salarymen, so

She has the confidence, can afford to lose, and can turn around at any time and run towards a new life to reap the simplest happiness.

Han Yi, who has been running for three years, seems to know very well that if he wants the corners of his mouth to rise when he looks back at his current self at the age of 30, then now he is taking advantage of his youth to redouble his efforts and live every day. Because only in this way can he be worthy of his current self and be able to make his 30-year-old self live a more calm and relaxed life.

I hope that when he is 30 years old, he will be able to be more calm, less panicked, and live the life he likes.

There are two kinds of people in this world, one is sunny, optimistic, and positive, they are good at discovering the truth, goodness and beauty in the world, and believe that they can live a better life through their own efforts. In their eyes, the world is beautiful and life is full of hope. The other is dark, negative, self-defeating, and their lives may not be as good as they should be, but they only complain about others and do not try to change the status quo. In their eyes, the world is gray and life is hopeless.

Heaven and hell are just a thin line apart, and it's up to you to decide where you want to go. It is true that this world cannot be full of sunshine everywhere, and life cannot be happy all the time. But it doesn't matter what the world can give you, what matters is what kind of mindset you can use to look at the world.

In good times, know how to cherish and be grateful; In times of adversity, learn to reflect and change. Life will not always be smooth sailing, it is inevitable to encounter various setbacks and challenges, and all these experiences will eventually become the most valuable wealth in your life.

As long as there is a scenery in your heart, everywhere you go is full of flowers. Always keep a positive, optimistic and grateful heart, you will smile at life, and life will eventually smile at you.

In Han Yi's view, a person with scenery in his heart should contain at least these three points: an optimistic attitude, elegant words and deeds, and a grateful heart

But now he doesn't seem to be able to do it, because he feels that he has too many desires and is too impetuous.

An optimistic mindset is what tells us how to face the world. The world is complex, and every day we may face all kinds of unexpected difficulties. When difficulties strike, it is important to be calm and think twice, but the most important thing is to maintain an optimistic attitude, because once the mentality collapses, the defeat is basically certain.

Elegant words and deeds tell us how to face the people around us. A person can not have a beautiful appearance, but must have an elegant temperament. It was the calmness of gestures and the calmness of dealing with people. Mature, steady, dignified, and generous, such a person, no matter where he goes, will give people a very comfortable feeling.

Finally, a heart of gratitude. To build a healthy personality, you must learn to be grateful. A person who does not know how to be grateful will always feel that what he gets is taken for granted, for example, he will feel that it is his duty to help others, and if he does not help, he will not be able to get along with himself. Once this misplaced value is formed, the world in his eyes will become terrible, he will feel that everyone is not friendly to him, and the whole world will seem to be against him.

What a person's heart is like determines what he will see

What kind of world he goes to also determines what kind of life he can have in the end. You may not be able to see scenery everywhere in the world, but you must be a person who has the scenery in your heart.

Face the world with an optimistic attitude, elegant words and deeds, and a grateful heart, no matter how noisy the world is, you can live your own wonderful life.

I once read a sentence, "People should not live as a mass of emotions".

If you are controlled by chaotic emotions, then what is the ability to control your life?

Rob White once said, "At no time should a man be a slave to his own emotions, and should not make all actions subject to his emotions, but should control them in turn." No matter how bad the situation, you should try to dominate your environment and save yourself from the darkness. ”

The master of life will never be pulled down by emotions.

A thirty-year-old man should be mature enough, and the world in his heart determines the world in his eyes.

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