Song Jianguo instructed the driver to send Han Yi back to the hotel first, and after cleaning up, he was sent to the airport. Although you have to wait for a few hours at the airport, the good thing is that it is direct and you don't have to transfer flights along the way.

Thinking about calling Bai Xue back, but because of work and a drink with Qiu Lang and the four of them, he forgot about it, and Bai Xue still didn't answer his call, he was very distressed in his heart, and the relationship that had eased for a few days suddenly regressed.

When he was bored, he called Bai Xue's phone again, but there was still no answer, and he couldn't help but think about it.

"It's over, it's over, it's over! She ignored me again! "Are you at work, it's inconvenient to answer the phone, do you want to send a text message to see? "I must have forgotten my phone again! ”······

There are frustrations, comfort yourself, in short, no one answers, no one answers.

So, he picked up his notebook and thought about what he wanted to write on his blog, but after thinking about it, he wrote so many things, sometimes he just wanted Bai Xue to see it, but she didn't play this old-fashioned and outdated thing! The most she usually reads is probably her Weibo, chatting with her former game fans or something.

Why don't you try to scroll through Weibo too? Looking for a sense of presence?

Han Yi wrote a lot of his own experiences on his blog before, posted a lot of photos he took, communicated with some young people of the same age or slightly younger than him, or helped them with spiritual counseling, to put it simply, it may be to write some chicken soup for the soul or poisonous chicken soup for the soul.

This seems to be the only way to post after he didn't write and rarely wrote a diary.

In fact, Bai Xue has always paid attention to him silently, and has read all the articles or short sentences she has written, but he just doesn't know it. Because she likes that kind of Han Yi, Han Yi who is not good at words, but can move him with words.

Han Yi opened Weibo, which was already "full of dust", and the last news was when he established the Yihui Interactive Entertainment live broadcast platform two years ago.

He began to write:

What are you doing at this moment? Is it already eating a hot meal at home, or working overtime alone at the company, drinking and chatting with old friends, or hiding in bed alone to reminisce about the past?

I was waiting for the flight back to China, eager to see the warm eyes of my family and loved ones.

I saw such a sentence a long time ago: "Either fight or accept your fate."

It reminds me of a neighborhood sister in the village who was a few years older than me when I was a child. Originally, we grew up together, but then she left her hometown to develop in Guangdong, and then gradually lost contact.

During the Spring Festival the year before last, she came back, dressed exquisitely, and looked very good, and her parents and fellow villagers all came to her house to play, saying that she was promising.

When we gathered for dinner, I heard friends say that she was lucky, that she was in good condition, that she had met any noble people to help her in the past few years, and that she had any tips for success, but I rarely heard anyone say that she worked hard and that it was not easy for her over the years.

Because it's a neighborhood, and her parents have a good relationship with my parents. Later two

When the parents of the family were discussing how good their children were, we chatted together. She told me about her experience in the past few years, and I realized that her past was more difficult than I thought. She has lived in a shared house, eaten a big pot of rice, and worked odd jobs. She told me that many people now see her glamorous side, and think that it seems easy for her to have all this, and some people even think that God favors her.

But only she knows how to survive those days when a person hides in the quilt and secretly weeps, and only she knows how difficult it is to drink water and satisfy hunger. No one's success is achieved overnight, and there is no success without effort.

It seems that I can also empathize with this, and only I know what everyone who wants to live a good life behind the scenes.

Sometimes, it's easy to spend our days idle, and at the same time complain about how things aren't going well. In fact, if you are not born rich, not all the good lives you see in the eyes of others are easy to get, and they must have suffered unknown hardships. If you don't work hard yourself, don't complain that life is not easy.

One girl said: "I'm 23 years old, I've achieved nothing, and I feel very hopeless in life. ”

If you think she's out of love, unemployed, or has failed to start a business, you're wrong.

After graduating from college, her parents asked her to go to work in their own company, but she felt bored after a few days, so she didn't do it. Then she became interested in cooking, and her family paid for her to go to France to learn the best cooking techniques, and when she came back, she opened a cake shop, but after three months, it closed because of poor profits.

After that, she stayed at home and had nothing to do, looked at her phone every day, and found that she was interested in writing, so she wrote some scattered words and sent them to the magazine, but they all fell into vain, and then she gave up.

To sum it simply, it's easy to give up and wonder why we can't achieve anything.

There is such a sentence in "The Spirit of Craftsmen": "Do simple things to the extreme, achieve them naturally, and end with perfection." Just like Gu Da Deyun: Becoming an adult and becoming a villain all depends on the heart, and the desire to become a big thing and a small thing is in the will. ”

In fact, many times it just seems easy, but in fact, it is not easy to do. But things are often in the most difficult time, when they are closest to success, and you always have to get through the most difficult days before you find that the days to come will become clearer. So, don't just give up when you're struggling.

If your current life is not satisfactory, then I hope you can settle down, ask yourself what you want, what kind of life you want to live in the future, give yourself a direction, and then keep catching up. Life will get better and better, and you will definitely get rid of the confusion of the present, and tomorrow will be a new beginning.

I am very fortunate that when I was confused, I met two women who changed my life, one is a confidant and the other is a lover. I put in the effort and I'm glad it paid off.

Have you ever lived in a foreign land? A man stopped at a coffee shop on the corner,

One person went to watch the fireworks on Chinese New Year's Eve, one person returned to the dark house with a large bag and a small bag, and another person whispered goodnight to himself.

My friend Nuan Nuan studies and works in a city more than 1,000 kilometers away from home.

She was well-dressed and glamorous on weekdays, and to be honest, she made a lot of money because of her talent and hard work, but the way she treated herself was a roadside pancake fruit, as if she had first arrived in the city, unchanged.

I'm not saying that pancakes are not delicious, but that her lifestyle is representative of some of us who work hard in unfamiliar cities.

Some people study abroad, some people work outside, and no matter how comfortable the bed is in the world, it is not home. But for the sake of our current life and the distant fields, we always have to experience a time away from home.

One of my employees, Jeanneau, said that he lived a seemingly glamorous life in an unfamiliar city. It seems to be very similar to the state of Nuan Nuan, but it is still a little different. Ordinary white-collar workers like Xiaonuo are not a minority in unfamiliar cities, and they are used to working from 9 to 5 between the company and the dormitory.

I was curious and asked her why she called the place she lived in a dormitory. She said that in her instinctive reaction, there should be her mother's nagging and her father's complaining at home, and there is no sunlight in the rented house, how can it be compared with home?

I think too, although the rented house is not bad, but it is still necessary to have the courage to endure loneliness when working in a strange city. I especially admire her courage to "newborn calves are not afraid of tigers", which comes from her determination of the present and the future. She knows that the future will not be easy, but she dares to bear the hardship.

Xiaonuo doesn't have a boyfriend, and he joked that day that he repaired the toilet and moved the closet, so what else did he want his boyfriend to do. Whether you actually have a boyfriend or not has nothing to do with whether you have the ability to repair the toilet, living in an unfamiliar city, taking care of yourself is the most basic ability and requirement.

Yesterday, I saw that she posted a circle of friends, and in the picture, she was watching a drama in a small theater, and the accompanying text was a line. She said that many people envy her for having this kind of leisure to watch dramas, but no one knows that every time she comes home, she feels lonely.

Most adults' lives are like this, hiding tired eyes and sad feelings, not wanting their parents to worry about and not wanting passers-by to watch, so even if it is not so good, they will still say that they are doing well. Those friends whose circle of friends are full of stories, have they ever lived out the chic self in the circle of friends?

My junior brother Ye said that of course it is a life of struggle for the future. He majored in graphic design, and in his senior year, he took classes in the teaching building during the day and drew in the library at night. He said that painting not only brought him financial resources, but also contributed to his acquaintance with his girlfriend.

Ye had a girlfriend he had been talking to for two years, and she got in touch because she commented on his work online, and then the two naturally came together. On weekends, two people listen to folk songs and watch art exhibitions together, and this kind of life sounds enviable enough.

Later, he told me that his drawings had passed the screening and that his girlfriend had found a stable job. I couldn't help but sigh to myself: on the way to the dream

On the way to think, there is a person who witnesses that everything about you is really beautiful.

Ye's dream is to become a freelance illustrator after graduation, which sounds a little unattainable, but just striving for this unattainable dream is already something that many people dare not think about. The road to the dream must be very long, but it is precisely because it is far away that it can be called a dream.

It is never difficult to set up a dream, you can have all kinds of wild fantasies, but the difficult thing is to persist and practice, and the difficult thing is to realize the dream. In the process of gradually maturing and aging, I hope we still have the courage to cling to our dreams, and hope that we can live an ideal life.

Whether you're running for the life you are now or for the fields far away, I want you to live your life in this strange city. It is precisely because countless strangers gather in this city that it has its own scenery and temperature.

We are struggling in a strange city for various reasons, and we are living a life that is neither good nor bad. Many people have felt the indifference of the city, but they still choose to stay, because there are still countless good memories and the most precious friendships that they are reluctant to part with.

Many people have cried in the corner with their mouths covered, but in a blink of an eye, they will still move forward confidently, because they are also recognized and needed; Many people say that they still haven't lived the life they imagined, but they seem to be much stronger than when they were standing still.

Loneliness, helplessness, and pessimism are synonymous with living in a strange city, while tenacity, maturity, and self-confidence are the gains after going through difficulties. We have all experienced the unsatisfactory life and the loneliness of working alone, but fortunately, life will not treat everyone who has worked hard sincerely.

I hope we can all meet good friends in a strange city, meet like-minded other half, and achieve achievements that satisfy us; I hope we can get rid of the strangeness as soon as possible and gradually live our lives here.

What kind of life are you living now after working hard in an unfamiliar city?

Neighborhood sister, Nuan Nuan, Xiaonuo and Ye someone, Bai Xue all knew each other, and they had all seen or heard of it. In fact, he wrote this just to let Bai Xue see, although the meaning he wanted to express was not so straightforward, he believed that Bai Xue should understand what he meant.

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