When a frog is thrown into boiling water, the frog will immediately jump out of the boiling water because it can't stand the sudden heat stimulation.

At first, the frog thought he was giving him a sauna, and when the water got hotter and hotter, he found that he was dying.

In a way, Han Yi is the frog that voluntarily threw into the boiling water.

In a comfortable environment, one is easily confused by the surroundings, which eventually leads to depression, indulgence, and depravity. He knew this very well, and since Yihui started to do it, he has not relaxed his vigilance for a moment.

This comfortable process is a change little by little, allowing people to complete the whole transformation imperceptibly, but it is too late to wake up. On the other hand, if a person is suddenly thrown from "heaven" to "hell", because of the huge difference, the person's reaction is also very strong, so that they can quickly make a choice, so that they do not end up not knowing how they died.

He could have comfortably pulled out of the predicament caused by this equity battle, but he was still willing to stay in this ruined company, to make more money, or to prove how capable he was? He couldn't give himself an answer. It's just that in this way, it is difficult for him to secretly promise to spend more time with Bai Xue in his heart.

Human desires are endless. Moreover, when a person goes from having nothing to owning a lot, he is unwilling to give it up, and will hold it very tightly and is unwilling to let go, especially men.

Who doesn't want to have a lot of savings, live in a bungalow, drive a sports car, and play life? Even though Han Yi said that he had a lot of responsibility on his shoulders, he never denied his desire for money and fame. Therefore, investing a lot of money and energy to bring Darong back to life is also a manifestation of the pursuit of fame and fortune.

In today's society, for ordinary office workers, a big driving force to get rid of class comes from the house, if you don't buy a house, even if you have a good job and a good salary, you are basically at the bottom.

But once you have a house in a first-tier city, you can easily be middle-class, which is the one percent mentioned above.

If you look closely, you will find that the whole society is "divided by groups", for example, airplanes have first-class cabins, high-speed railways have first-class seats, first-class seats, second-class seats, hotels also have business suites, luxury double rooms, ordinary standard rooms, etc., which shows that the hierarchy of society will only become more and more strict in the future.

To break this situation, many people choose to take a gamble and buy a suite.

A BBC documentary "Seven Years of Life" also used 49 years to expose a cruel fact, the children of the poor are still poor, and the children of the rich are still rich, and this kind of class is difficult to break. Among them, there is only one boy named Nicholas, who successfully broke the ceiling of the class and was promoted to the elite. The documentary says that the probability is only about 7%.

But many people in life will not put their hopes on this 7%, which is why they choose to buy a house without hesitation.

When all the youthful things have become dust on the wardrobe and cosmetics, when the pride of fighting the sword has cooled down to seek stability, when all the dreams of coaxing have become buying a house. You finally admit that the noble dreams of being a painter, a scientist, an inventor, a teacher, a doctor, etc., as a child, don't seem to have anything to do with you anymore.

In order to buy a house, your daily life has become overtime and staying up late, your daily living expenses plus smoking budget is 20 yuan, you say you calculated, in addition to the mortgage, there is still 600 yuan, the fixed living standard can not be changed, otherwise it will not be enough. And you finally understand why others call you to eat yellow stewed chicken, and you don't go.

Occasionally you will be sentimental and say that the house has replaced the dream.

In fact, they all know that buying a house makes their dreams come true better, giving their parents peace of mind in their old age, their children's colorful childhood, and their lover's warm nest. Tell people, you see, I'm slowly making it happen, aren't I?

It has been three years since Han Yi graduated from university, and the class WeChat group rarely rings, occasionally ringing, it is so-and-so who has bought a house, posted a few photos of his new home, and greeted everyone and said that he will settle down in so-and-so in the future, and the students can come to play when they pass by.

Like most of his classmates, he would continue to congratulate and congratulate under the chat box, but how many people had a trace of sadness on their faces, thinking, "When will I have a suite?" ”

When classmates meet, they are not talking about housing prices, or they are talking about mortgages, although you say that you are a passerby after all, why buy a house, but you still secretly pay the down payment.

You said that you are fed up with renting, the rent in Beijing is 4,000 yuan a month, and the rent is 50,000 yuan a year, not to mention whether you can earn 50,000 yuan a year, just say that you are frugal every day, and the money is not given to your father or mother, and it is all handed over to a stranger - the landlord, you are aggrieved.

You finally bought a house on the Fifth Ring Road as you wished, and you said that the bank urged you to repay the money every day, and you didn't dare to die if you wanted to.

Someone will look at you and ask in reminiscence, didn't you dream of being a dancer before?

Then you pull your face, glare at him and say, "Only children have dreams, I just want to buy a suite." ”

There is such a little story:

A Beijinger, in 1984, in order to realize his dream of going abroad, sold a courtyard house on Gulou Street and scraped together 300,000 yuan to go to Italy.

In Italy, he spent 30 years of hard and frugality, and finally saved 1 million euros (equivalent to 7.68 million yuan), ready to return to China to enjoy his old age.

When he returned to Beijing, he went to the old house to take a look, and found that the courtyard house that was sold that year was now listed for sale by the intermediary for 80 million yuan, and he collapsed in an instant······

This story illustrates that choice is more important than effort. Therefore, some people say that what determines their current life is whether they chose to buy a house 10 years ago.

According to the 2016 wealth report of a research institute, it can be clearly concluded that people with a net worth of more than about 5.15 million yuan are already among the richest people in the world, and it is said that this group of people accounts for only 1% of the world.

There is an article called "I only live 1 percent of my life", so now may I ask, do you have 5 million?

There is no doubt that those who own a house in any city in Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen are already at the top of the global wealth pyramid. But Han Yi believes that many of them are just catching up with the good time, they bought a house in the city 10 years before us, 15 years ago.

Now that Han Yi also has a big house in Shanghai, does he belong to the 1%? Maybe count.

That's really telling you something! When Han Yi's mother said to relatives and friends, "My son bought a house of nearly 300 square meters in the center of Shanghai", she didn't need to say anything, she was already full of admiration and envy.

Someone did a survey and said that if you went back 10 years, what would you most like to do, and the one that ranked very high would be buying a house.

Some people can't help but ask: why on earth do we buy houses?

The house gives a sense of security! Security? Yes, this is a problem that everyone will encounter in their hearts, and without a house, we dare not talk about security.

For example, Zhong Yinger, who has lived in 5 urban villages in Shanghai for 3 years, moves once every six months on average, and the conditions are getting worse and worse every time, she should not be willing to talk about any sense of security, right?

Without a house, no matter how long you stay in this city, it is difficult to have a real sense of belonging, it is like a grand crush, I am in your arms, but I can't say that I belong to you.

The middle class is also insecure and doesn't know what to do other than buy a house?

Wake up every morning and habitually turn on your phone to see if your house has risen?

Although there is no shortage of money in their hands, at the moment when the depreciation of the RMB is accelerating, they are afraid that their money will be diluted and have no purchasing power, and they are thinking about where to buy my Nth house every day?

Therefore, only by constantly buying a house can they temporarily relieve their anxiety.

Life events are all about houses.

Marriage requires a house, because a woman needs a material foundation as a guarantee.

The post-80s generation has become the main group of residential consumption, and they are in a major turning stage of life when they get married or have children, and the traditional concept of Chinese binds the family and the house, marriage needs a house, children grow up, and children still need a house.

In addition, there is the need for investment.

In recent years, the rapid development of the real estate market has made many people have benefited from it, this kind of money is too easy compared to working hard day after day to make money, everyone has the psychology of getting something for nothing, but the house has contributed to it.

Investment is one of the most important means of wealth accumulation, and real estate is still the best investment at this stage. It's no wonder that Han Yi hasn't bought his favorite sports car over the years, and he has used all the money to buy a house for his family and himself.

This idea that a house can change class did affect Han Yi, and to put it bluntly, the so-called idea that a house can give people a sense of security made him work harder and have more.

But at the same time, this change will also make him lose something. When his career was booming, he had no time to spend with Bai Xue, and then his feelings were more or less fading, and then a series of problems appeared. To put it simply, he changed his class and lost a lot.

Class here is supposed to be a better life, right? However, when Han Yi bought a lot of houses, he asked himself, did the house change the class? The answer he got was no.

Each stage has its own things to get, and what can change the so-called class is the desire of the heart. And at each stage, the desires are also different.

When Bai Xue was still studying abroad, Han Yi's desire was to make his career impressive in the past few years.

And after Bai Xue returned to China, they quickly reconciled as before, probably simply wanting to embrace love.

Life can have a hundred forms, some people love the spring breeze and winter snow to cook new wine, and some people are satisfied with their wives and children hot kang heads. Personal choice, no right or wrong.

But if he were to say, in his imagination, what is the best state of a person's life? I have a little money in my bag and a book in my hand.

In the afternoon, I happily read my favorite books and listened to my favorite music at home with Bai Xue.

However, now that there is a conflict and a cold war, has his desire for his career been rekindled?