"That's it!" Bai Xue put down the last box of luggage and collapsed on the bed in an instant.

Liu Xiyao smiled: "You deserve it!" I said call a moving company, one trip will be done, you have to get it yourself, one more trip! ”

"If you can do it well, why spend that unjust money!" Bai Xue closed her eyes, wishing she could lie down and fall asleep now.

Liu Xiyao, who was not breathing, lay at the door and said with a smile: "Then you will live in this room!" I'll go make you something to eat, you clean up your room, and we'll go shopping again in the evening and buy some groceries. ”

Bai Xue is actually quite used to it, tired, just because of insomnia these days, her nerves are very tense, and she feels so comfortable that she wants to sleep when she falls.

The pressure of her parents, the rift in her feelings, life, and work, none of them did not bother her. Nightmares, insomnia, don't tell others, these can only be borne silently.

The elders in the family will always compare her with others, "Look at your classmates in junior high school, the children are one or two years old." "Your cousin's children are all in kindergarten, and you haven't even brought a boyfriend back until now, study, read, you know how to read, people are stupid!" "The two girls in your aunt's family are married to a good family, the man has a stable job, an annual salary of more than 100,000 yuan, a house and a car, aren't you in a hurry? ”······

There are only feelings in the world that should be married, is there still an age to get married? Bai Xue never felt that she was no longer young, but those words were slowly affecting her, a year, two years, imperceptibly, making her begin to doubt herself.

She wanted to say: What does it matter to me how old their children are? I read books, enrich my heart, broaden my horizons, I'm not stupid! I also have a good job and I can support myself!

Although many women hate to marry, no one likes to admit that they hate to marry. How ugly it is to say that I hate to marry, it seems that I am particularly eager to sell it, and then no one wants it, as if it is a dead stock.

In fact, even if you admit it, what's wrong with wanting to get married, who doesn't want to have the sweet days of affection and love between the young couple, who wants to flirt all day long. The folk song says: "Little boy, sitting on the door, crying and shouting for a daughter-in-law, why do you want a daughter-in-law?" Light the lamp to talk, blow the lamp as a companion, and get up in the morning to comb the pigtails. "-That's all the men are talking about, don't say anything about anyone.

At the wedding of Huang Xiaoming and AB, the bride's bouquet was taken away by Lin Chiling, and the groom Huang Xiaoming congratulated her, "The next person to get married must be you." Lin Chiling laughed and trembled, and happily made a wish on the spot that she hoped to marry in 2016.

She is almost 40 years old, and in previous interviews, she has been very cautious about the topic of marriage, "There used to be some love plans, such as I must marry at the age of 30, and then it became that I must marry at the age of 35." Now, I don't dare to have any extravagant expectations. ”

There are some things in the world that are designed to win, such as sports competitions. Although we have repeatedly claimed that sportsmanship is all about participation, if there is no ranking and a place of ranking, if there is no competition and pursuit, competition will be lost

The charm of it. But there are still some things in life that cannot be ranked, such as getting married or not getting married, which is better and which is worse, or getting married early and getting married late, which is successful and which is considered a failure, all of which are too personal choices, and there is no fixed standard.

However, in reality, the idea that a woman should get married when she reaches an age, otherwise she will be devalued and no one wants to wander like a ghost, which makes many girls full of anxiety in their relationships. They are always worried, they always want one-time success, hoping that they can find an ideal man, and then he can accept himself, everyone is happy, pay the least price and win greater benefits.

Bai Xue has also seen too many girls who don't enjoy love when they should be in love, and only think about when they can get married; or don't care about whether the relationship is harmonious at all, only care about whether the other party's conditions match their own; There are also those who are forced by their parents to enter into marriage with a person who they are completely insensitive, and then they can't get by.

Some of her middle school classmates got married early and had children and then divorced. Why can't they use such an example to tell her, to feel with their hearts, to love the true destiny with their hearts, and wait until everything is natural?

In the end, how should we look at the relationship between love and marriage, she very much agrees with what Lin Chiling, who has high IQ and high emotional intelligence, said: "There are only feelings in the world that should be married, and there is no age to get married." ”

Yes, you can hate to get married, but marriage is the most unacceptable thing in the world, and the boundary between married and unmarried should not be divided by age.

When it's time to fall in love, fall in love. Love is not just about getting married, love is about opening a door, and behind the door is a richer and grander world. Love is just something like poetry and music in everyone's life, which should be enjoyed and experienced.

This is a very important lesson in life, no one can tell you what it feels like to toss and turn for love out of thin air, and no one can taste the most fragrant mood for you, because only love can make you have rosy eyes. Love, that's the best thing in the world. Even if it ends sadly, pain is also the most fascinating part of love.

Everyone should truly love at least once. Just like the parenting book says, children should go through a climbing phase before walking, which is very good for exercising children's future motor coordination. Only after loving once will you have a deeper understanding of life, and only then will your life be enriched by it. Without this piece, there will always be a blind spot when connecting a certain stage of life after a certain period of time.

The crux of an extramarital affair is that some people get married without being in love, and they have not experienced the feeling of burning passion.

Everyone hopes that their love can blossom and bear fruit, but whether they can get married is not transferred by a person's subjective will, it also requires chance.

Miriam Yang, a laughing aunt who was once called a "hateful marriage" by the Hong Kong media, had several failed relationships, which made her once

Very disheartened, no longer longing for marriage, but began to cultivate their own personality, "Anyway, life alone is very happy, I can take care of myself, have the financial ability to do it alone, and sometimes celibacy is also a good choice." ”

Frustration in love can indeed make people feel tired, just like the snow now.

A person who always fails on a blind date said, "The thought of having to put on makeup again, sitting in front of a certain man with a smile on his face, and asking, Hello sir, where does Mr. live, is Mr. busy with work, what hobbies does Mr. have in his spare time, it is simply devastating." "Repeating the process from hope to disappointment over and over again really requires strong psychological support.

Miriam Yang is the same, this woman who always plays a silly comedy image is actually more sensitive and delicate in her heart. She feels that life is nothing more than this, and she doesn't care if she can meet true love. The way to stop yourself from hurting is to stop hopeing.

But suddenly, Ding Zigao appeared. At first, no one believed that they were serious, women were big and men were young, both in age and fame. Probably they themselves thought the same way, "There have been many twists and turns, and the pressure from the public has also made us feel that we are out of balance and will suffer from gains and losses." ”

can persevere, until finally entering the marriage hall, Ding Zigao is good to Miriam Yang, not to mention Miriam Yang, more importantly, Miriam Yang said, "He gave me the feeling that I can get married, I have never had it before!" She didn't know what was going on, it turned out that people who didn't want to get married at all suddenly wanted to get married, someone asked, what kind of charm Ding Zigao had changed her, she was a little dizzy and said, "I don't know either." I think this is a God-given fate, since I came, I obeyed the will of heaven. ”

That's a good point. This feeling of being moved by a person, or even changing the original mind, and willing to be with all living beings, can be said to be an arrangement in the dark, a providence, or it can be said that people finally meet the other half they once lost in the vast sea of people, the kind of shock like Baoyu meeting Daiyu.

Zixia looked everywhere for someone who could draw her sword, this was the beginning of a marriage, and it was a code for people who wanted to be together to recognize each other.

What kind of person should I marry, this is a question that many women are concerned about. But there is actually no answer to this question, maybe you will know when you really see that person, love is in your own hands, and fate is planned by God. In any case, you must stick to your beliefs, don't make do with it, try to love, and live seriously - marriage is the way arranged by God, and she is just responsible for walking through it.

Many times, her silence and non-response does not mean that she compromises, but just does not want to argue and explain. It's just that the silence again and again, in exchange for the never-ending cycle of preaching, now confuses her. She didn't expect to agree to Han Yi's marriage proposal so quickly, probably because those outside voices were interfering with her. Now it's okay, I agreed to the proposal, but now I'm in a state of breakup.

Bai Xue suddenly thought of her better roommate Fang Wen in college, one night, she talked to her friend on the phone, and after a few casual greetings,

began to tease each other.

"How's it going? Do you still get up at six o'clock on time every day, bring breakfast to the goddess at seven o'clock, and escort the goddess to class at eight o'clock? You're not tired, everyone has changed several boyfriends, and it's not your turn yet. She laughed sarcastically as she teased the male friend.

He was also frank and generous, and after a smirk with her shamelessly, he unceremoniously shot back at her: "What about you?" That stupid boy still tells you good night every night, and if you have nothing to do, he tells you to drink more hot water, and even holds a globe and says that he wants to hold the whole world in front of you? ”

She was already laughing like crazy on the other end of the phone, but I still pretended to be calm and said, "No." At the end, I paused and then bragged, "How many girls can be as moral as I am?" Even if you don't like each other, you will feel sorry for each other's efforts! I had already gone back and told him to drink more hot water too, and his whole family should drink more hot water. He also told him earnestly that he had the whole world in mind, and I was selfish and only loved myself, and it was a humble person like me who was not worthy of him! We convulsed and laughed together for a while, but we were all silent.

(End of chapter)