Qin Yue somehow stared at Zhong Ying'er and asked curiously, "Do you believe in love?" ”

This question seemed really difficult for her to answer.

She thought about it for a while, and still gave an answer very seriously.

"In the past, I believed in love, and at the beginning, I was more interested in the appearance and image, and I liked the kind of boy who was dressed up very fashionably and looked clean, and he would go out of his way when he decided it. Later, I liked the kind that was very durable and warm, like ······" She paused for a moment and continued: "Now I still believe in love, but I believe in character even more, and I will not make a light promise for the future just by falling in love at first sight in my eyes, so that the happiness in front of me will be tangled. ”

"Like Mr. Han?" Qin Yue smiled lightly for a while, and was immediately stopped by Zhong Ying'er's sudden gaze, and became serious.

"Don't say this kind of thing in the future, otherwise it's easy for others to misunderstand!" Zhong Ying'er looked at her head, "Remember! ”

The good and bad character of the character comes from the details in those relationships, and it is necessary to look at people with heart and time, rather than relying on eyes alone. Zhong Yinger is a person who pays attention to details, regardless of men and women, the details of the other party determine the degree of her hot and cold, the other party's thoughts determine the length of her chat, most people will soon be strangers even if they know each other, and the very few people who stay in life may be lovers or friends.

Some people will think that it is boring to talk about character in love, love is out of the primitive instinct of hormones, and when they are in love with each other, they show the best side, or hormones will make them ignore character. Men and women who have this kind of thinking are often heartbroken when they break up, because at that time the character will surface, and it is common for people who do not love to be attacked head-on, and it is common for him to ruin his three views.

And those who have quality, after falling in love at first sight, will not forget their responsibilities because of hormones, even if they break up, they can stick to the bottom line and minimize the damage. When you fall in love, you may not feel it, but when you don't love, that person is still willing to be the last guardian of your innocent heart, what kind of great love is this? Even if you have a quality predecessor, you will definitely grow.

I have to say that even if you used to be a quality person, you will have deviated changes under the grind of life, not everyone will become pure and simple because of more experience, more people will be lost and drift with the flow, becoming the most hated by themselves.

"One of the teachers in my elective course said that the reason why love is becoming more and more fragile and utilitarian is because people's hearts are becoming more and more shallow and greedy, quality is the most scarce spirit in this society, and persistence is the most rare quality. I found that there is a kind of person in our company who eventually becomes bad or bad, who pursues fame and fortune and often blames himself, and who chooses to escape but can't escape from himself. ”

Qin Yue nodded, as if there was a resonance, but why did this sound like it was talking about Han Yi?

You must know that not every relationship can blossom and bear fruit, but it is also possible to accompany each other for a while, and then gradually disperse and stay without saying goodbye one day in the future

It's just the warmth of the past. In the vast sea of people, there are no ways to get to know each other, it is difficult for strange men and women to meet, sometimes it is obviously a fate, but it is regarded as an affair, and even the way of acquaintance has become a reason for distrust. Then, there is no then.

Many people pass by like this, and it is also a kind of exhaustion to say that there is no Lingxi. There are always some emotions that can't blossom and bear fruit, but they can't wait for the clouds to be clear, and they will be hurt by it without a strong heart, as if the good ones don't belong to them.

Flowering and fruiting is a kind of consummation, light clouds and light breeze is also a kind of happiness, most of the joy of love moves from the heart and mind in the process, and the result needs to be forced to beg for it.

Although she has experienced several failed relationships, Zhong Yinger always believes in love, and feels that a person with quality can stick to himself in the most unbearable circumstances, and has the ability to love and protect the people around her.

Many men and women in life long to be loved, but on the other hand, they can't trust and are afraid of being hurt, and they have similar questions to people: "After experiencing the so-called deception and painful separation, should I still trust each other and believe in love?" ”

It is really difficult to say whether the relationship between men and women can be forever, even those men and women who have been together all their lives may not be because of love. Don't put yourself in the position of the weak at every turn and blame others, it is the norm to scatter people's hearts and minds at every turn. In short, only by believing in love can we meet love, and only by believing in each other can we feel beautiful.

This is a world lacking love, and many people are not so much looking for love as they are looking for security, but they don't know that the greatest security comes from your self-confidence. Hormones are only responsible for falling in love at first sight, Paratour is responsible for growing old, and as for the process in between, you may need to go through several times before you can find a comparable hand in hand for a lifetime.

In other words, who can stand up to finally see the moon through the clouds, there is always someone who can let her go of all the pain and sorrow before.

The sign of a woman's maturity is to learn to be independent, to learn to be ruthless, to learn to smile, and to learn to let go of unworthy emotions and try to manage herself. And the sign of a man's maturity is to learn to be silent, to learn to forbear, to learn to be tolerant, and to learn to protect the woman he loves with a heroic heart.

She believes in love, but she believes in character even more, with those educated details, that person's silence also shines, with those persistent qualities, that person's smile is also warm and powerful.

And a person with quality will show stable psychological characteristics to society, to others, to the surrounding things, to the bleak wind and rain of sudden attacks, and will not easily doubt and give up, and will not easily lose confidence, which is the most critical part of determining whether the emotion can be happy and whether life can be successful.

The two of them are best friends together, leaning on the fact that there are always endless topics to talk about, love, life, never hidden, never shy away.

"I'll show you an email that a cousin of mine wrote to me, it's a bit long, but I've read it several times, it's funny, sometimes laughing with tears, sometimes laughing with distress, and laughing at the end, you can also look at it." Qin Yue picked up the mobile phone from the table and handed it to Zhong Ying'er.

Zhong Yinger read carefully:

I am a very ordinary girl, born in a third-tier city, parents are ordinary people, kind and responsible, I think the girl's biggest advantage is to go to a good university, have a good job, marry a decent man, fortunately, although I am not a top student, but I was also admitted to a good school, met my boyfriend on campus, I called him "fat" - fat is not fat, but I think it feels very good to be hugged by him, warm and down-to-earth, happiness in my heart swelled fat.

The fat man is 1 year older than me, we fell in love in college for 3 years, and we didn't go back after graduation, working and living in this city that is more livable than my hometown, and planting our dreams into the dirt of reality.

I remember that it was an early autumn evening, the fat man excitedly returned to our rental house, and put down two sets of keys in front of me, one was the car key, and the other was a huge group of keys, his face was flushed, and there was a little bit of oil and sweat baked by the residual heat of the late summer, and he lowered his voice and said to me: "Thin man, let's drive to the villa!" ”

By the way, he called me "skinny", and I wasn't thin, but when men love girls, they are willing to imagine her as thin and small, so this title is quite useful to me.

I opened my eyes wide and said, "Where are the houses and cars?" ”

The fat man explained: "The villa on the outskirts of the old Wang's family, he is going abroad for nearly a year, let me help look at the house, the property fees have been paid, we just need to live in to help take care of the house, the car is not open for fear of damage, he simply left the car keys, so, we can live in a big house in advance, I can also drive you to work!" ”

It sounds like good news, and I'm a little excited when I didn't have too high material requirements and imagination.

Lao Wang is a friend of the fat university, the local rich second generation, don't make the rich second generation face, Lao Wang is still very modest in his hard work, and tries his best to appear to be usually mingling with the classmates around him, but the low-key luxury that is occasionally unintentionally revealed still makes people feel that the starting point of life is very different, but we are never jealous of him, everyone has their own luck, and we believe that our future is not bad.

We moved into Lao Wang's villa, even the money for renting a house was saved, a year later the two of us bought two bedrooms and two living rooms just handed over the house, the usual transportation expenses are subsidized fuel costs, and the living environment has also been greatly improved, how to look at it is a beautiful thing, I was moved by the fat man's outline, and he looked forward to a completely different life in the coming year.

For the first time, I saw a house like the "Fashion Home" model room.

Pomegranates and persimmons hang heavily on the branches in autumn, crape myrtles and hibiscus in summer have just passed their flowering period, and the air is filled with the smell of sunshine and fruits. There is no full furniture in the single-family villa, the simple Nordic modern style, the appliance design is sophisticated and practical, luxury sometimes really does not need blingbling, it is just quietly placed there, and the aura of presence will come to you.

The house was uninhabited for a while, the floor and furniture fell a thin layer of dust, I rolled up my sleeves and prepared to clean, looking around the villa with a living room, a dining room, a dining room, a bedroom, a gym, a bathroom, a kitchen, and a staircase corridor, I was a little stunned, and the fat man was distressed

I dialed the phone number of the housekeeping company left by Lao Wang, and soon came to the professional cleaner in work clothes, and we paid the first payment for the villa: 400 yuan.

Almost fifteenth of my monthly income, I chuckled in my heart, but we still happily started living in the villa.

Life is not only poetic and distant, but the villa has made me deeply appreciate the meaning behind these words.

The suburbs are too far away from our place of work, and after a month, the fuel and parking fees of 3,000 yuan can not be paid, and the time cost is innumerable.

The 400 yuan cleaning fee made me feel distressed, and the fat man and I began to take turns cleaning the huge building, and after the floor was finished, we no longer had the strength to use the gym, and the luxury gym became a furnishing.

Late autumn is coming, the sky is full of fallen leaves, the villa property management only maintains the public area, each courtyard needs to be cleaned by itself, at first, I still have the interest to sweep the leaves, but, the leaves are falling too fast, I can't sweep it and simply put it there, I thought in my heart, the neat and beautiful house on the picture is estimated to sweep the yard in half an hour.

There are persimmons and pomegranates that made me happy when I moved here, and they will fall to the ground and rot if they are not picked, and we can't eat so many fruits after picking them, I am very curious about how Lao Wang used to deal with it, so let the fat man ask him on WeChat, Lao Wang replied: Please pick the fruit by someone, and give it to relatives, friends and neighbors after packing, and everyone likes the green food in their own yard.

The fat man and I didn't have so many friends and relatives, and we didn't want to spend any more money on gardening to pick fruits, so we let the fruits fall in the yard and sweep away along with the fallen leaves, and the cleaning work increased again.

The life and interpersonal relationships of the villa are indeed matching.

The accident continued, Lao Wang left a message to the fat man one day, it was almost winter, there was a bottle of tree protection disinfectant in the storage room, and when the housekeeping company came to prune, they let them spray the fruit trees by the way, and the sterilization protection helped the fruit trees survive the winter.

We didn't hire a housekeeper, so we had to do it ourselves.

The fat man was afraid that I would fall, and he was afraid that I would be smoked by medicine, so he bought disposable raincoats, rubber shoes and masks, checked the proportion of disinfectant from the Internet, and climbed the ladder to prune and spray the trees.

I stood under the window of the house and looked at his shadow, and suddenly I felt very distressed.

The trouble of the villa is really matching.

Some sudden luck, only through the test of time will you understand whether it is really good luck.

Then, winter came, and all the troubles that had come before were not a problem in the face of the cold.

On the first day of winter, we turned on the heating, and the room was slowly heated, warm and comfortable, but when I saw the electricity bill, my heart was cold, and I drove it for a day, nearly 200 yuan of electricity, and a month's electricity bill was my monthly salary.

So we only opened the bedroom, but it was not warm, the outer wall of the house was insulated, the inner wall was not, and only one room was opened, and the heat was dispersed throughout the house.

Simply, I bought an electric heater for the winter.

All winter, we

Living in a cold and spacious villa, holding the room plan of his future small house to plan the spring decoration, the fat man hugged me, who was snorting, and smiled apologetically: Thin man, I originally wanted you to live a good life in advance, but I didn't expect the good things to be bad.

I wiped my nose, rubbed his hair, and said disapprehantly: It's okay to experience it in advance, how do you know that we are not rich in ten years?

The fat man didn't speak, he hugged me tightly, and my heart was so happy that it was about to explode.

Every life has its own matching details.

Every love has a different brewing process.

Give love and life a chance to mature naturally, just like red wine, they all need to be slowly fermented under the cultivation of time, real wealth and emotion will not be fast, how can red wine taste good without years of experience?

Life and love are a natural process, although sudden misfortune will destroy people, but sudden luck will also make people have a rejection reaction, when our ability can not meet our extravagant expectations, at least now, you can slow down the pace, walk a little steady, and accommodate each other a little more.

This big house is like a class of life and love, which makes me understand that no matter how big the house is, two people's hearts together is the feeling of love, and two people are happy is the taste of life.

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It's not a bit long, it's just writing a short story, but Zhong Yinger insisted on reading it, it's really good, and I feel warm in my heart when I read it.

How many people can experience the warmth and preciousness of a small house from a big villa, and how many people can touch the happiness baked by time from the quick luck?

"Sometimes, we go too fast, and life and love have to wait for it to mature." Zhong Ying'er said and hugged Qin Yue tightly, and said with a smile: "It's time to make lunch, let me taste your craftsmanship!" ”

Life and love have to wait for it to mature slowly, this should be her understanding.

(End of chapter)