After listening to Han Yi's words, Bai Yang said a lot to Han Yi because he was worried about his sister and Han Yi. After Han Yi returned home, Poplar sent Han Yi a video again.

She smiled and asked, "Back home?" ”

"Well, just got home." Han Yi looked at the background behind Bai Yang and responded with the same smile, "Sister, you haven't gotten off work yet?" How's the business going? ”

"It's okay, it's okay." Sister Poplar's smile is very infectious, she is a person who has suffered hardships, and she is also a person who has suffered hardships.

Han Yi has been with her for a while, and he especially respects and maintains her. "That's good! Sister, where you need my help, call me at any time, don't be polite! ”

"I still want to tell you about Cher, don't think I'm long-winded! She is a person, she doesn't know a lot of things, and she is very axial, and if she doesn't do well, you have to tolerate her more······" Sister Bai Yang felt that it was not appropriate for them to intervene too much, but after all, she felt that Han Yi was very good and could bring joy and happiness to Bai Xue.

"How so! Don't worry, she said to break up, I haven't agreed yet! Han Yi joked: "I won't just let her go, she won't think about it in this life!" ”

Bai Yang and Han Yi chatted for more than an hour unconsciously, and she told Han Yi a lot about Bai Xue's childhood. Bai Xue has been very sensible since she was a child, but sensible people tend to work harder.

She talked about when Bai Xue was a child, she took Bai Xue to the village store to buy things, asked her what she wanted to eat, and she hesitated in front of the glass cabinet, and finally took a small packet of potato chips when she checked out. She can be said to be quite surprised, if the average child is taken by an adult to buy something, they all spread their arms and put all the things they usually want to eat and fun into the shopping cart, and few people like Bai Xue only took a bag of potato chips, or a small packet.

She said, "You're just going to get a bag of chips?" Buy more. ”

Bai Xuetou turned to the counter and glanced at it again, then turned back and lowered her eyebrows and said to her, "Sister, it's enough to buy this." ”

She didn't know what to say all of a sudden, a packet of small potato chips was not enough to stuff her teeth.

Bai Xue grew up being said "well-behaved" by her family since she was a child, she has never played tricks, she will not ask adults for this and that, she also knows that even if she does, her parents will not give it, and the family conditions do not allow it. Every time relatives came to the house, she could see Bai Xue sitting there very quietly alone, and other bear children were making noise, but she knew that she had to help the adults.

Listening to Poplar's words, Han Yi couldn't help but think of Hayao Miyazaki's particularly famous cartoon "My Neighbor Totoro", in which the mother said to his father: Sensible children are often more distressing.

Because sensible people don't want anything, but they don't dare to say it.

In fact, she also wanted it, but she was rejected too many times in the past and began to learn to accept it. Accustomed to seeing what you want to eat and leaving at a glance, saying to yourself, "I don't want to eat at all"; If you are used to having something on your mind, you will hold it in your stomach, otherwise you will cause trouble to others.

But only she knows that behind empathy is inferiority, and she is afraid that others will not be happy, so she is cautious

Xing was cautious, and did not dare to mention his own requirements, for fear that others would be unhappy if he said more.

It's really hard to be mature and sensible. People who have been mature and sensible since childhood are children who grow up with scars.

When Han Yi was in college, he met a girl in the student union, in 91, they often got along and worked together for a while, and he was surprised by her performance, not at all like people of their age. The way she talks to people is very sophisticated, and the most impressive thing is that she is too good at reading words and feelings.

There were a few times when they disagreed, and she spent the whole day taking care of Han Yi's emotions, repeatedly asking him if he was unhappy if she disagreed with him just now. In fact, in Han Yi's opinion, it is normal for friends to have different opinions together, but she is very scared.

Later, when they chatted again, she talked to Han Yi about her upbringing, and he really understood her.

She was born into a family, her grandfather was a particularly strict soldier, and her parents' education has always been to make her more mature than ordinary children. So at a young age, she learned to look at other people's faces and act, because only in this way can she be rewarded with a piece of candy.

When she talked to Han Yi, Han Yi felt distressed inexplicably, she looked at Han Yi's eyes and cried, crying so much that her face was spent, and said to him: "You don't know, I have always felt that it is hard to be mature and sensible." ”

After Han Yi got into bed, he kept thinking about the things that Sister Bai Yang told him about Bai Xue, feeling sorry for Bai Xue, and thinking, "The years when you learned to be mature and sensible must have been so tormenting." ”

It's like when Han Min fell out of love for a while, because her ex-boyfriend Huang Qi was with that Wang Qing, and he lied to her for so long before dumping her. But Han Min is also too sensible, to put it mildly, her cautious sensibility is a kind of cowardice. I'm afraid that if he doesn't do well, he will leave him.

Whenever he heard Lin Youjia's "Innocent" sing the sentence: "Do you know what is the most cruel, you turned me into an adult overnight", Han Min instantly burst into tears.

Zhang Ailing has a saying: "If you know me in the past, you will definitely forgive me now." ”

It's a pity that most people won't forgive you for not being mature and sensible now, let alone knowing you who were willful but naïve in the past.

Only you know how you began to read the rules of the adult world, how you adapted to those perceptions that deviated from your past, how you learned to endure and save yourself, and how you stopped asking for help when you were in trouble, but secretly hid and cried by yourself. You've learned to be delicate and observant, but you've also had a hard time.

No one cares how hard you get better, they just want to know if you're good enough right now. Just like everyone wants to have a mature and sensible you, but they don't want to spend time and energy with you to grow up.

People like Bai Xue and Han Min will only try to show their best side to others, envying those who can cry and splash, but you can't, you have to digest the sadness by yourself, even if it hurts, you can only cry quietly alone.

is like Shen Meizhuang, who has always been dignified and sensible in "The Legend of Zhen Huan".

After getting drunk, he said one sentence over and over again: "What's the use of being sober and restrained all day?" Can't I get drunk once? ”

Suddenly, it makes people feel a little sad.

It is a good thing to be mature and sensible, and it is pleasing to be mature and sensible, but in addition to being sensible and mature in this world, there are two words called "grievance" and "unhappy".

Because no one cares about your emotions and temper, you choose to be sensible, because no one will feel sorry for and protect your little you, so you choose to be mature yourself.

It's just that you also forgot that too sensible children really don't have sugar to eat. This is the same as the fact that the good girl only got a good word in the end, and the bad girl got everything.

Han Yi wants to see them sober and drunk, and if they can eat candy, they will also ask for candy, and he hopes that they will have high heels and running shoes, and some people love and some people pet.

He hopes that Bai Xue will not be too mature and sensible in front of him, and that she will always be a little girl.

Whenever Bai Xue was not by his side, he would quietly think of some people, the most of course Bai Xue, missing the bits and pieces with her and the time spent with her.

There are thousands of landscapes in the world, but if you go alone, no matter how beautiful the scenery is, you will lose your interest. He firmly believes that the person who can see the scenery side by side with him is Bai Xue.

He always feels that the residual warmth is still in the depths of his memory, nostalgia does not mean loss, he firmly believes that the person who walks hand in hand, the person who is worth cherishing must also be white snow.

(End of chapter)