Chapter 301: Rely on Trust and Companionship

Qiu Lang held his forehead, sat up groggyly, raised his head and glanced at it in a daze, and saw a figure, "What time is it?" ”

A middle-aged man in their bar uniform replied, "Mr. Qiu is early! It's just past nine o'clock, do you need me to send you back? ”

Because of the so-called truth of the so-called facts told by his father Qiu Minsheng, Qiu Lang was really unacceptable, he had a hangover in his bar, drunk unconscious, but he didn't let people touch him, and he slept on the sofa until now.

He propped up the sofa hard, but it seemed that it was not enough to support his soft body, and the man quickly stepped forward to help him, "Mr. Qiu, be careful!" Why don't you sit down, I'll get you a hangover soup······"

Before the words fell, he was pushed away by Qiu Lang, "No need, I'm fine, you can go back and rest!" ”

He walked out of the dark bar with heavy steps, and the moment he pushed the door open, the light that greeted him was a little dazzling, and he covered it with his hand for a moment, and suddenly he was much more sober.

A closer look at the side of the road not far away saw Keiko with her hands crossed over her chest, leaning against the front of the car, smiling at him. The sun was shining on her, and the faint wind tried to lift her long hair, but only the tips of it moved.

It turned out that she was also afraid that Qiu Lang would do something to hurt herself, and she had already made people secretly stare at him last night. Instead of forcing Chu Lang to accept these realities, she did not choose to drag him back when he was hungover, but gave him a chance to drink and give him a little personal space.

She tossed and turned this night, to feel his sadness, to understand him, and to appear at this moment to comfort him and support him.

Qiu Lang slowly walked down the stairs, crossed the sidewalk, and stood next to a camphor tree less than three meters away from Keiko, looking at Keiko carefully, and the two of them looked at each other without saying a word.

The woman in front of her is really like an angel, and the sun hanging behind her that is still slowly climbing up is like a halo above her head, understanding him and loving him, without any words.

Keiko stepped forward and ran her hands through the gap between his hands and his waist, hugging him tightly. Yesterday Qiu Lang was in a hurry, and she had not yet had a chance to give him such a warm hug.

"I'm sorry to leave you alone!" Chu Lang wrapped one hand around her shoulder, one hand on the back of her head, caressing her hair.

For almost a whole day, Keiko didn't call him, didn't send a message, didn't give him any explanation. But for some reason, he blamed Han Yi for concealing and hating his father's "full of lies", but he didn't blame Keiko at all, but felt a little guilty.

"You are my husband, I am your wife, no matter what happens, we will face it together! Next time, I'll let you sleep on the couch for the rest of your life! Keiko pressed her face to his chest, her forehead just touching his chin.

Qiu Lang smiled knowingly, don't sleep on the sofa anymore, I slept on the sofa last night, and now I have back pain.

This is the heart and soul between their husband and wife, and it is each other's dependence, trust and companionship.

They know a truth very well, that is, the strongest relationship in the world is not sweet words saying "I love you", but real actions "together". You are used to my company, I am used to your presence, and no one can do without anyone.

A person who really likes you is not only willing to say "I love you", but is willing to be by your side, give you a contract, give you a promise, get along day and night until you are old, and love and love every day.

Vigorous love, impressive, long-term love, make people feel at ease, true love, can not always maintain passion, but slowly integrated into life, he sees your shortcomings, you know his shortcomings, but still in your heart, with you.

Some people, who have no romantic talent, will not talk sweetly, and will only care for you day by day. The food you like, the things you hate, he remembers them all clearly. This kind of feeling may not move you all at once, but it can slowly melt your heart.

Don't think that all sweet words are sincere, only practical actions can be regarded as really loving you. If a person only talks about love, but does not give anything, such a person must not be sincere to you.

Relying on each other is the deepest love. Be by your side, get along day and night, be with you, and be willing. Know your suffering, understand your difficulties, hurt your pain, replace "I love you" with "together", never abandon for a lifetime, life and death depend on each other!

In addition, when two people meet in the vast sea of people, because of trust, they are close, and because they are close, they will make friends.

If everything is questioned, it will only bring more concealment and harm, and make the estrangement deeper and deeper; If you guard against each other for a long time, it will only make each other more perfunctory and indifferent, and make each other farther and farther away.

This is also the reason why Keiko returned to Chengdu so quickly and quickly persuaded Old Man Qiu to confess to Qiu Lang that it was really fragrant, because she needed to confess to Qiu Lang, and Qiu Lang had unreserved trust in her, so she would not live up to this trust.

Love without understanding and affirmation will eventually only become the fuse of two people's strangeness, and only by trusting each other can they withstand the big and small tests, and will not consume the initial enthusiasm in trivialities.

Keiko's cleverness is not only in her career, but also in her family, and she knows very well that a good relationship does not necessarily require too many promises, agreements and conditions, but it must require the trust and understanding of two people. Accept with sincerity, understand with true feelings, trust and understand each other, and only then will the relationship be long-lasting.

Therefore, if you have anything on your mind, tell me directly, and if you have any difficulties, you can rest assured that you don't let the other party struggle to interpret it, and the sense of security does not come from the temptation of the other party, but from your own heart.

No matter how tragic things happen, you should care more about each other, give him some respect and recognition, and believe that no matter how difficult things are, as long as the two people communicate well, there will definitely be a solution.

Also give the other party some personal space, give him full trust, don't oppress the other party to the point of being out of breath, and don't use hot and cold to verify his feelings for you.

In this way, love is maintained in mutual understanding,

In the sublimation of mutual trust, may each other communicate openly and openly with each other, may each other be open and enthusiastic in love, and may each other have the ability to love and be loved, have firm beliefs, have a common magnetic field and mutual tacit understanding, and be loyal to each other through the two hearts. In a relationship of mutual trust, happiness is sweet and never abandoned.

Now that they are married, marriage is a long practice, slogans and truths can not save themselves, only a long stream, slowly use time, use life to feel the temperature from each other, so that it can last for a long time.

Qiu Lang cares about Keiko very much, and he cares a lot about their home. They didn't live together before marriage, but Qiu Lang never stayed up all night except for staying in a hotel on a business trip when they fell in love, and stayed overnight, even more so after marriage, so he said to Keiko, "I'm sorry, I left you alone".

This is the easiest way he thinks to love her, not to give each other a chance to be cranky, to be there for each other, and not to leave each other behind on a lonely night.

Whether it's love or marriage, in the end there are only two words left: companionship. Companionship is always the most affectionate confession. However, to understand these two words, it takes a lifetime to comprehend, experience, and implement.

For most people, marriage is actually getting used to each other's presence and companionship. It's like holding your right hand with your left hand, like knowing what each other's next words are without words.

It's like what kind of books we are used to, what style of clothes we wear, what flavors of food we eat, and what brands of skin care products we like to use.

Marriage has been transformed from the original passion into each other's existence and companionship. For example, a wife who is used to her husband's snoring will have difficulty falling asleep when her ears are not snoring.

When the familiar person around you who can no longer be familiar suddenly is not around one day, you may not be worried, you will not think about it, and you may not even feel that there is any change in your life.

I will only inadvertently feel that my home has become bigger, a little empty, and I will sleep peacefully in bed, but I will wake up inexplicably and can't sleep peacefully.

All this is just because there is one less person around to be present and companionship.

Marriage may be like this, no matter what kind of personality incompatibility, what kind of friction, it has already become a glass of boiled water, even if it is not fragrant, but it is also a must.

In this short life, the two looked at the scenery hand in hand, understood each other's feelings, and grew old together through wind and rain together.

Even quarrels and annoyances, habits and companionship can hold them together. Sometimes I rushed out of the door after a quarrel, and came back to buy a grocer by the way.

Being able to get used to the presence and companionship of a person is a rare fate. It is possible to be united forever and grow old.

Everyone, in your life, can only support each other and look at each other can only be the person next to you. He may be mediocre, he may be excellent, he may be beautiful, he may be ugly. But after getting used to each other's presence and companionship, they will become an indispensable part of your life.

Love may be just an embellishment in marriage, it is the icing on the cake, and a marriage with love does not necessarily come to the end

In the end, it may not be happy.

Two people who are united without love will respect each other and grow old, such examples abound in reality.

Feelings may be instantaneous, allowing love to move forward calmly in a plain and real married life that we are accustomed to each other's presence and companionship.

Holding the hand of the son, growing old with the son, I think this is the kind of realm that I am talking about.

What exactly marriage is, no one can really say. But the most important meaning of marriage is that I accompany you through the cicada summer, beyond the hustle and bustle of the city, and you are always by my side.

Marriage is a process of walking together, in the process of each other truly feel each other's hardships and tribulations, and rely on each other, satisfy each other, and be happy with each other.

This process is like an old wine, which cannot be compared to the years of quiet and wealth. This old wine, drink a sip of mellow taste, think about it for a long time and fresh.

After getting into the car, Keiko didn't say where she was going, and Qiu Lang asked, "What should I do now?" Is what the old man said true? ”

Qiu Lang hated his father, but also felt sorry for him, unwilling to accept the fact that he would die soon. felt that he was full of lies, for so many years, he had avoided talking about what happened between him and his mother, and now he was hiding his illness, which made Qiu Lang at a loss, and felt that he had lived like an idiot for more than 30 years.

"Go home!" Keiko glanced at him with a smile, she knew that Qiu Lang was confused at this time, hovering between various options.

Qiu Lang was silent, and continued to hate his father Qiu Minsheng, or should he go home and forgive him? Continue to hate her mother Yang Suqing, or find her and tell her that she has been missing her?

"Family matters, go home and solve them."

Keiko didn't let him make a choice, nor did she give any advice to persuade him, she believed that Qiu Lang, a person who valued his family, would make the right choice.

(End of chapter)