Chapter 302: Don't get tangled, do what you think is right
There are always people and things in life that control our choices, which makes us in a dilemma, hesitate, and start to fall into a tangled mode.
A lot of time in life is lost in the decision and regret with the past, quietly losing the present time and beauty. Many times, failure in life is not because it was not achieved, but because it was missed to enjoy the best time.
For example, when we are parents, we are entangled in: we feel that our children are not as good as others, but we also hope that our children will become dragons and phoenixes; The entanglement of being a teacher not only does not allow students to interject, but also hopes that students will have an innovative spirit; is entangled in being a child, disgusted with parental control, and too lazy to come out and work hard by himself; As a student, I don't agree with some of the teacher's views, but I am afraid that I won't get meaningless marks; The entanglement of being a friend, I want to get his full help, but I am also afraid of the trouble he brings······
The same is true in life, when we spend one-third of our time acting, but we spend two-thirds of our time regretting it, not only can we not reverse the fact that it is a foregone conclusion, but we will also miss the present and rush the upcoming tomorrow. If life is tuned into a tangled mode, you will involuntarily enter a kind of dead loop, silently consuming what you have in front of you.
If life is tuned into a tangled mode, on the surface, it seems to be summarizing the gains and losses of the last time, but in fact, it is consuming your time and in vain.
Sometimes it really takes some monkey spirit to go down the mountain, see the corn put down the watermelon, have sesame seeds and forget the weight of the watermelon. People also need to learn to forget, let go of the past, and hold on to the present. Life is sometimes like a race walk, and you need to pay for your ups and downs every step of the way. This reserve is the resolute and forward-looking mind.
These years of hard work experience have made Han Yi deeply understand that under the premise of being prepared and preparing for the worst, sometimes, "recklessness" is more likely to hit opportunities than "cautious".
The road of life is very long, no matter how we choose, we all have to go to maturity, and we are all going towards the end. We must learn to constantly affirm, eliminate the paranoia and frivolity of youth, and retain the courage to dare to do in the moment. In fact, there is no absolute right or wrong choice, it depends on how broad the realm of your soul is, and you must learn to be simple. If you are simple to the world, the world will not be too complicated.
Everyone has regretted it, but there is no turning back in life, and you can't start again if you miss it, instead of tangling the past in your chagrin, it is better to seize the beauty of the right time in the present. No one is sure that passerby A did not turn around.
Han Yi came downstairs to Bai Xue's house before going to the company like yesterday, ready to say to her what he didn't have a chance to say yesterday.
"You didn't stay with Li Jia last night, did you?" When Han Yi was about to get out of the car, he was afraid that what happened in vain yesterday would happen again, so he asked Xia Bo more.
"Nope. Before I came, I told Mr. Li that I would pick her up later, and by the way, I also asked, Miss Bai should be at home at this time. ”
Xia Bo took a bite of Miss Bai, which made Han Yi very unaccustomed to listening to it. The word "Miss" is no longer just a simple title for girls, and it sounds awkward.
Han Yi turned his head, "You, you...... still
It's a different name, it's very nice to be Bai Xue, don't always be Miss Bai and Miss Bai! ”
Xia Bo hurriedly apologized: "I'm sorry! I'll definitely change it in the future! ”
He read twice more in his heart, "Miss Bai, Miss Bai?" Snow, snow! ”
It seems to be the same thing, Bai Xue is better to hear, so if you talk about it like this, will the proprietress be more good?
Xia Bo didn't expect that Han Yi was still such a fastidious and detail-oriented person.
Han Yi didn't take a few steps and turned back to Xia Bo and instructed: "Why don't you go over and pick up Li Jia now, send her to the hospital, and wait for Yi Yang Company while she is on a drip, and you will notify me immediately when he arrives." ”
He promised to pick up Li Jia every day, and it was natural to take care of him.
And Yi Yang must have drunk a lot last night, and today is the weekend, Han Yi guessed that he would definitely not arrive at the company before 10 o'clock as promised, and he was not willing to sit there and wait.
"Okay, but I'll go over to pick up Mr. Li, no one will drive you."
Of course, Xia Bo will do it correctly, but I'm afraid that he will have to take the subway or take a taxi again. In addition, he felt that Han Yi might want to deliberately break away from him and stay with Bai Xue for a while.
I also have to say that Keiko not only understands Han Yi, but also has a good eye for talents, as she said, Han Yi will definitely be very satisfied with Xia Bo, this is only the next day, and they already get along like old friends.
"It's okay, it's important to pick up Li Jia! I'll just take a taxi. After Han Yi finished speaking, he knocked on the car window and asked him to leave quickly, and he also took advantage of this time to be alone with Bai Xue for a while, thinking that even if Bai Xue beat him and scolded him, he would have to pester her with a dead face, of course, this picture could not be seen by others.
Anyway, compared to not being able to see her and not being able to talk to her, other faces or sad emotions are nothing at all. After so many years, he is no longer the person who will be immersed in entanglement, if he thinks it is right and worthwhile, he will do it, and he will not imprison his actions because of other people's opinions.
It's almost impossible to be liked by everyone. If you want to be exquisite, you will give up on yourself. If you want to please everyone, you must be physically and mentally exhausted. If you want to please everyone, you will definitely not be loved by everyone.
Han Yi felt that this world was too big, and not so many people would pay attention to him all the time. As long as you are open-minded and have a clear conscience, you don't have to care about everything.
Because he simply doesn't care, and he doesn't want to spend time on irrelevant and meaningless people.
Those who really like him will not stay away from you because of his hardships and his momentary neglect, just like Bai Xue, and he will definitely not completely deny him and their feelings because of something.
And what about those who hate him, they can always find all sorts of reasons to belittle him and slander him.
If someone will hate him and condemn him because of his sincerity, his abilities, the kindness and warmth he unleashes.
Then he also felt that they were not worth caring about and cherishing at all, and he could only move those who despised and slandered him far away, and did not even look at them
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Other people's words are always regarded as references, and not everyone has to be framed by a convention and measured by a standard. He will not let other people's opinions consume his life, let other people's minds think about his own life, so he is so assertive, of course, this has also offended many people, such as offending Deng Baoyuan last night.
But there are still too many beautiful things in life waiting for him to be full and polished, how can he have more thoughts and time to please others and gain recognition, and those who like him always account for the majority.
Han Yi pressed the doorbell with apprehension, but the moment the door opened, Han Yi was dumbfounded.
It was Liu Xiyao who was wearing pajamas who opened the door, she ran out with great interest, and when she saw Han Yi, she trembled in her heart, and blamed Bai Xue in her heart, "Didn't you say that her good friend Nuan Nuan came?" How could it be him!? ”
"How could it be you?" Han Yi's face didn't seem to look good.
Is their relationship that good? A series of question marks in his head.
Liu Xiyao was so frightened that she didn't say a word, she glanced at herself, at Bai Xue's house, it was too inappropriate to see Bai Xue's boyfriend in pajamas, so she hurriedly ran upstairs.
"Am I that scary?" Han Yi walked towards the familiar house, and it seemed that Bai Xue should be upstairs.
Before he lived on the first floor, Keiko lived on the second floor, and everything was all too familiar.
"Is Nuan Nuan coming?" Bai Xue was still checking her book, flipping through the one published by Han Yi, with his signature and a paragraph on the title page.
Liu Xiyao entered Bai Xue's room and said breathlessly: "Sister Xue'er, how can you deceive people!" Your boyfriend is here, go down quickly! ”
"Boyfriend?" Bai Xue asked, "Han Yi is here?" ”
She heard Li Jia say that Han Yi has been busy with the company's affairs recently, and she didn't expect him to have time to come over. I thought to myself, those words last time were cruel enough, and he wouldn't come to her at least recently.
"Hmm!" Liu Xiyao nodded frequently, and pushed Bai Xue, "Hurry up and go down, I'll wait for you below!" ”
Since she has come here, she can't avoid it, and she is about to move out, so she has to talk to him in person.
Han Yi watched Bai Xue slowly walk down the stairs, this kind of picture was very used to before, but he never found that this feeling was so beautiful, Bai Xue was so beautiful.
Her hair is coiled up, she wears a casual sweatshirt and sweatpants, and her face doesn't show any traces of makeup, but it's beautiful.
"You ······" Han Yi wanted to speak and stopped, so he wanted to step forward and hug her tightly and kiss her.
"Why are you here?" Bai Xue smiled unnaturally and asked, "Are you ready to go back to Shanghai?" ”
From her tone, I could hear that she was complaining a little hateful.
"Well, I'll have to go back early tomorrow at the latest." Han Yi stood in front of her at a loss, feeling a little uncomfortable in such an atmosphere. "I came to see you yesterday morning and have something to say to you······"
"Oh, I stayed with Nuan Nuan at Li Jia's the night before yesterday." white
Xue brought a bottle of fresh milk to Han Yi, "You didn't eat breakfast again, did you?" I also have something to say to you. ”
Han Yi felt her care and warmth, took the fresh milk and said, "Then you can talk about it first." ”
"I'm going to move out from here, I'll hand over the keys to the house and the car to Li Jia later······" As she spoke, she took out a card from her pocket and said with a smile: "Here is all the money you paid to my card, I have not touched a single penny, and I have handed it over to you!" ”
Han Yi refused to accept the card handed over by Bai Xue, and asked with a melancholy expression, "Why?" When he heard this, he became a little anxious, and thought to himself, is this to completely dissociate himself from him?
He seemed calm, but the feeling of distress had already turned over the river. But his calmness is easy to misunderstand, and it will make Bai Xue feel that he doesn't care? Does it matter?
"I don't know if I'm right or wrong to do this, but lately I've been really struggling. There are so many memories of us here, and when I come back here, I can't sleep all night and I'm not in a state when I go to work······" Shirayuki smiled bitterly.
Han Yi was both heartbroken and distressed by Bai Xue.
(End of chapter)