Bai Xue's phone call was definitely an unexpected joy for Han Yi, who was still drinking and melancholy in the middle of the night, but he didn't expect a good night to really get a response.

However, he didn't know that Bai Xue's first step to break the ice was actually because Li Jia's merciless words woke her up, and of course, the photo with Ammy in his circle of friends also played a vital role.

If Han Yi had understood a little bit of women's careful thinking, I am afraid that he would have taken similar measures a long time ago, and he would not have suffered for nearly a week.

Just like Li Jia said, it is inevitable that there will be various difficulties and tests in the relationship, and the important thing is to trust each other and face them together.

Even though Bai Xue still said those words on the phone with indifference and hatred for Han Yi, that care and love were also full for Han Yi to accept.

In Han Yi's eyes, Bai Xue is a person as stubborn as him, so Han Yi can only let her decisions go.

When he left, he told him not to look for her, so he didn't look for her, and asked him to go away when they quarreled, so he turned around and left without looking back. But he didn't know that girls are different from boys, they need their teammates to have a feeling of holding them in the palm of their hands, hiding to let you find her, leaving to let you keep her, and letting you leave because you want you to put down your face and stick to her······

Bai Xue is stubborn, but it is not that oil and salt are not inadequate, at least she listened to Li Jia's words. She has also been groping in this relationship with Han Yi, to understand each other, and to live as much as possible to accommodate each other like herself.

Among her Weibo fans, there is a girl who chats with her very well, and they also have WeChat with each other, but they basically haven't had much contact now, of course, the initial acquaintance is because Bai Xue has been a game anchor for a while. Bai Xue was very good at playing games, and the live broadcast was quite good at that time, at least she made a little money, and she was also a little popular, and later after Han Yi and Keiko set up Yihui, she didn't do it anymore, and concentrated on learning to fulfill her dream of being a pediatrician.

Before she made that phone call with Han Yi, she saw the message that the female fan gave her yesterday on the backstage of Weibo, which may have touched her.

The girl said that after she graduated, she came to work in a strange city alone, and met him in the same unit, two years ago he resigned decisively to study at home, they were together for two years and 7 months, and quarreled a few times in the middle, each time he said that the girl was too willful, asking too much, and each time it ended with the girl's apology.

"I love him so much that I would do anything for him, just because he was there for me when I needed it most."

is such a lonely but cowardly words, which made Bai Xue think of "The Life of the Disgusted Songzi", Songzi said: I, as long as I have a relationship with this person, hell or anywhere, I follow him, this person is my happiness.

Songzi and the girl have a "humble" thing in common in this relationship, but it is better to say that people just understand what they want before you, and their hearts are not easy to change.

But after two years of perseverance, the girl felt that there were some things that she couldn't say, and she didn't expect the boy to say that she hadn't played enough, so she confessed - saying that she was not the type he wanted, he wanted to find someone with money and background, and what about girls? She couldn't satisfy him in this strange city.

He knew she didn't have those yet, and he wanted it.

He didn't know how much she wanted to hurry up and be willing to get those for her, so he left.

The girl knew that his family was not good, and she had made plans for the future of both parties, thinking about going home to develop there, thinking about buying a house by herself, and thinking about helping him find a good job······

But the boy resolutely ruined the girl's heart with one sentence: "I think it will be very hard in the future, and it is not free to repay the mortgage, so break up."

There is a lyric that says, "If this art is only a long time to endure, you should be grateful to your faithful partner." ”

So with this feeling, that is, you have crossed nine hundred and ninety-nine, and he doesn't want to move a single step, and your determination to be with him is worthless in front of him, and he throws it to the dog to eat.

He didn't understand how firm her determination was for him, and he didn't try to see how "trickling" the blueprint she had sketched out in her mind was, so their relationship was far away and difficult to recover.

This is a girl who belongs to the giving type in love, and many times is more like a big man who is willing to take responsibility.

Bai Xue may feel that this girl is very similar to herself, but the difference between them is that the man they love is different.

She seems to have understood early on that love is a luxury, and many people have nothing more than a relationship in their lifetime. And she seems to have decided to take this luxury for herself permanently the moment she fell in love with Han Yi.

The best state between lovers - nothing more than that you understand what I have suffered for you, I understand how far you can pay for me, we nod to each other, send our respective affirmations from afar, and then bury our heads in the thick and thin.

Therefore, before she and Han Yi decided to have this relationship, she had already assessed her heart and had the determination to be together, this luxury, like her heart, was not so cheap, and naturally it was not so easy to give up.

No matter how much two people love each other, there will be conflicts, just like Keiko occasionally warns Qiu Lang not to mess around outside, just like Li Jia will quarrel with Feng Zhiyao because she wants to buy a sports car······ There have been suspicions and quarrels with each other, but it can't completely negate the love between them.

There's a point in "Love Story": "Love is never having to say sorry."

Bai Xue does not deny this, but it does not say that with love, everything can be worry-free, and the two do not owe each other. Therefore, when Han Yi said sorry, she immediately stopped Han Yi from continuing, because how long a relationship can last and how high the quality is, it all depends on whether the determination of the two to maintain each other is on the same level.

How much she loves, how afraid she is, she is still afraid that she and Han Yi will not get along with each other like this again

was taken advantage of by others.

Only those who truly love you know what you are afraid of.

After Bai Xue finished the call, she was still wondering, did Han Yi know her careful thinking when she was so smart, knew that she was jealous, and knew that she was scared? Did she lose this quarrel and the Cold War?

What is more difficult for most people to say than to express themselves with others is to express their fears.

Some people never eat certain foods because of a history of illness in the family; Some people are afraid of taking a plane, no matter how far they are, they can only take a train; Some people are afraid of eating alone, and they start panicking when they arrive at the meal; Some people are afraid of running out of money and work hard to make money; Some people are afraid of getting married, and they can't imagine living with someone for a long time.

When such a person meets a person and says, "What's there to be afraid of, isn't everyone else like this?" You're just too cowardly!

It means that they can't explain it.

When a girl who is afraid of running out of money meets a boy who is not in a hurry to eat three meals, it is difficult for them to continue. Because he could never comprehend what she was afraid of, how hard she was trying to cut that worry.

Later, they broke up.

Whether the two are close enough is not necessarily that he knows what she likes, but that he uses his heart to make her fear less and less.

Will Han Yi take the initiative to solve the problems she was worried about after knowing it?

In real life, the vast majority of people often quarrel with people who care about them, and their partners and loved ones, often only care about the freedom they want, but it is difficult to understand that what they actually want to express is not control, but fear.

When one person is particularly worried about one thing, and the other person is "this kind of trivial matter, it's okay, it doesn't matter", that's when she feels the most hurt in her heart.

There are many wives who hate their husbands for smoking, drinking, socializing, and staying up late, because they want to be with them too much.

There are many wives who, at night, see that their husband has not come home and his phone cannot be reached, so they will be anxious. But how many old people understand the fear and worry behind this nagging. From love to worry, from love to fear. It's not suspicion, it's not distrust.

And all they may see is that she just wants to control me, she just can't give me a little space.

If they could not only see what was happening with their eyes, but also be able to feel the fear in each other's hearts with their hearts, there should be a lot less quarrels, right? Because that's what she really wants to express and really care about in her heart.

In fact, many times, everyone just needs one more sentence to understand -

"Don't worry, I'm almost home."

"Don't be afraid, I'll work hard."

"Sleep well, don't be afraid, I'm here."

Han Yi's words of sorry deeply touched Bai Xue, and he also said that after returning from New York, he immediately went to Chongqing to find him, maybe this was to reduce her fear, right?

(End of chapter)